Lollypops? Thanks but No Thanks

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Dear PH and Channel,


What do you think is the average age of your audience? My guess is that you put us in the 13-14 age bracket. How else does one explain the complete lack of logic in MBEIEJ lately? In fact, now I'm wondering if I have insulted the intelligence 13-14 year olds by insinuating that your current track is good enough for them.

No, I'm not going to launch into a tirade of the innumerable flaws in your show. The MB fans on twitter and FB have been doing that for weeks and you have been steadfastly ignoring their heartfelt complaints. What I'm going to do is offer you one little advice that can help you reverse the sliding TRPs. Now you can roll your eyes and smirk at my naivet but I'm still going to go ahead. You see, I care too much for the characters you created, even if you couldn't create a good show around them.

Before I give my little piece of advice, please let me explain why I care so much about RK and Madhu. My reason is very simple - their outstanding chemistry. When I saw the show for the first time back in October last year, what pulled me in was the crackling chemistry between these two gorgeous people. What moved me was the way they set the screen on fire by just looking at each other. I sat through all the underwhelming side characters you created for months, only because you stayed true to Rishbala. I accepted the heartbreaking unwedding because it brought a new emotional and sexual tension to their relationship. I even accepted the totally unnecessary character of Sultan and the subsequent upheavals in their relationship. I even forgave you for puncturing the Rishbala wedding with Sultan's family saga and whole-heartedly thanked you for giving such a beautiful suhaagraat. And then you punched me in the face by making it clear that there will be no happily-ever-after for my Rishbala.

Do I sound like a silly little girl with my expectations of a happily-ever-after for the volatile Rishbala? Well I'm not. And this is where advice to you comes in.

So here is my little piece of advice - please check which show has been topping the TRP charts for the last one year. I'm sure you can tell without checking that it is Diya Aur Baati Hum. Ever wondered why it is always on the top? My theory is that it is so because it stays true to its title and hence, its spirit. It is a show about a married couple who are as connected to each other as the lamp is to light. Theirs is no grand passion like our Rishbala, just a complete acceptance of each other despite the differences in backgrounds, education and wavelengths. They don't stare into each other's eyes every day and say how much they love each other - they show it with their actions. By being each other's rock, by showing undying faith in each other, by instinctively understanding what the other is feeling, by communicating openly and by putting the other's happiness before their own. They are the ideal husband and wife. And hence, they get the all-important TRPs.

Lets come back to Rishbala. I'm all for their eye-locks, hand-holdings and passionate hugs. I treasured each and every scene of theirs till they got married for real. However, everything changed the day after the wedding. Maybe my expectations changed, I started expecting their passion to be backed by the stability of marriage. And this is where you let me down. Instead of showing undying faith in each other, they started telling each other half-truths from the second day of their wedding. Instead of mutual understanding, there were accusations and counter-accusations. Madhu's character was completely butchered and she turned into this insensitive woman who cared more for her 'friend' than her husband, who cared more for Sultan's mother than her own mother-in-law. Complete opposite of the DABH couple, eh? And then you wonder why the TRP audience is running away?

I saw yesterday's episode after many days after reading about the romantic scene in the WU. It left me feeling sickened. This Rishbala looked like a parody of the old Rishbala. Do you really think that showing rain-romance between Rishbala will make your audience forget just how shallow this relationship comes across as now? What good are those intense eye-locks when we know that Madhu went behind RK's back to get Sultan and his mother back into their home? What good are those passionate hugs when RK is wondering all the time why Madhu is hiding things from him? Do you really think that removing Sultan from the montage will make us forget his presence in the show?

Such lollypops work once in a while, but when you go about destructing a beautiful relationship and then expect the audience to tune in everyday only for the lollypops, you insult their intelligence. You must be feeling lucky about the TRP blackout for the next one month but that doesn't change the fact that this track has been unanimously rejected. If you don't want to end up with egg on your face when the TRPs come out a month later, just follow the DABH example - give some depth to the Rishbala relationship. Trust me, the TRPs will return the day Rishbala show complete faith and commitment to each other. Let them be volatile for everybody else but a single entity for each other. Am I expecting too much?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Agree with you. Awesome post ! You said it all. 👏
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Wow excellent post. 👏

Please CVs heed the TMs advice
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I second you. MB-EIEJ did not stayed true to its title.

Currently MB-EIEJ system server is busy...message window says -

Please wait, glorification is in progress. System is currently tranforming a substitute code (Bhai) in to main code. Main code (RK) is currently being in process of uninstall. Central system is about to change and take precedence.

Have patience. If you are impatient, you can shut down the system and switch to some other more addictive system.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: i-me-myself

I second you. MB-EIEJ did not stayed true to its title.

Currently MB-EIEJ system server is busy...message window says -

Please wait, glorification is in progress. System is currently tranforming a substitute code (Bhai) in to main code. Main code (RK) is currently being in process of uninstall. Central system is about to change and take precedence.

Have patience. If you are impatient, you can shut down the system and switch to some other more addictive system.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Very Nice post dear 👏👏👏

Though I won't compare our RishBala to DABH couple bcoz I feel RishBala has a lott many more attractive qualities than DABH couple.
But yes, Even after marriage of RishBala , the most important thing in their relationship is still missing, "TRUST".

One day we get passionate hugs & lovely RishBala scenes ( which i appreciate thoroughly ) BUT next day Again that same TRUST issue 😕.
Well Most important is Madhu's character has been nicely butchered by CVs. Why on earth she's worried about a Gangster's well being at first place?? Even after he CONFESSED that he has been running from Jail a couple of times 🤢 Why so much sympathy for a criminal who god knows destroyed how many people's lives ??

Secondly though RK's reactions are kinda natural, but still why does he keep chanting that "Madhu chose one" Bhajan ??? Did RK forget that Madhu already had given her everything for him, she cared for him when he broke her heart, she cared for him when he left her shattered ( Rembr she told BittuJee to go back to RK ), she never completed her Revenge bcoz she couldn't see him broken !!!!!! Though her acts are annoying but that doesn't means she loves Sultaan or Sultaan is more precious to her !!!!!

CVs should understand that Golden heart oh which very recently got promoted 😆 simply CAN'T gain sympathy even if he does ANYTHING !!! Bcoz his character NEVER is consistent...He's in high demand to get OUT of the show. I feel unless that doesn't happens, the show can't be the old MEIEJ we loved.

Edited by Niki_cool - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nice post dear 👏. . I think you should send this to ST,RS and the other one. Hope this will help to enlighten their braincells.

Agree with u , I can tolerate Sultan even if he is shown as a person who is falling for a married woman, because i tolerated dipali's disgusting toutchy feely around RK. For me Sultan is less disgusting..What irritates me the most is the way they showing Madhu. Usually women after marrige give their 100% support to their husband and family. Here they are butchering Madhu by making her a dumb women who is confused between her husband and so called friend. I remember a dialouge frm another show" jab pyar aur dosti se kisi ek ko chun na padta hai to insaan usually pyaar ko chunta hai".. Madhu is a 21 century girl i want to see her as a sensible,intelligent,stubourn and practical women, who be the pillar of strength to her husband when he needs her the most.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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wife doesnt gives shocked expressions when sultan or other gundas point gun at rk
but the moment rk said that i will kill sultan in the car,madhu was shocked
and now defying all logic rk is najayaz aullad

cR --im expecting that at the end it will be proved that sultan is not mk's son
there was a news from newsroom that colors trying to wrap up this drama but keep sultan permanently
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Posted: 12 years ago
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awesome n fully agreed
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Posted: 12 years ago
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👏 Wonderful post. This track is a challenge to our intelligence. Now they make a drama about R.K"s legitimacy . How illogical this could get? Sultan or no Sultan how could a person born within wedlock be illegitimate.? With this stupid and senseless base if they try to build a story viewers could never connect with it and best emotional performance from any character is a waste. And Madhu pacifies R.K with a song and he yields and forgets her lie and her problem. It appeared like cheap distraction attempted by a sly wife. We don't want rain romances but some depth in their relationship. Overall the standard of show has depreciated. The other new show from the same PH might be a reason for this. Dipali is far more better. Yesterday she was grim with Sullu and now I give up hope on Madhu. Nothing will shake Madhu and it seems now her mission will be to unite 2 brothers . Unfortunately there won't be any TRP hurdles to show what they want to. I assume with the reutrn of trp's no loyal audience will be left with the show. They are not concerned about it as they try to attract new set of typical viewers for their typical nonsensical family drama.I wish them all the best for I could not see a show which I admired making a pathetic exit. I hope and wish Vivian and Drasthi gets good offers and success in their future projects. This ship has started sinking.
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