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Originally posted by: Nafs_Sweetheart

The title of the show Madhubala Ek Ishq Ek Junoon, for me means Madhu is the love and care in the relationship, not only for RK but for others and RK is the passion and obsession that's how he knows to love with passion, how does this passion come about? Argument and fights, for Rishbala all their fights i'm thinking back who they have fought over about Mukund during his accident (Madhu putting Mukunds fight for justice first rather than giving RK an easier way out by taking the money, though Mukund and his family could use the money she fought for justice as that would have more impact on RK, to change him that he cannot get away with hitting people on the road whenever he pleases and pay them off, will no big consequence to himself) Shamsher and Padmini's marriage (their fought over them), Radhaji's relationship with RK, they fought over that too. So it is my opinion that the fulfillment of the title of the serial to give the couple passion happened because of their many misunderstandings, half truths accusations to each other bring misunderstandings and show the passion of the two characters RK and Madhu, that's why in this serial the lead pair do not have undying faith/understanding/communicating everything to each other (they do until a fight or argument starts), because the misunderstandings give the fights that lead to passion between Rishbala. If RK had faith completely unequivocal faith in Madhu where would be the obsession for Madhu. That's why I feel we are too hard on the storyline, Madhu is staying in character Mukunds fight for justice even now she worked in the same manner. RK is showing passion also.

Originally posted by: Poluk

See what you are writing is correct. Her love should not be questioned. But then understand that men are different from women. Believe me as I am a married woman - men are also emotionally weaker than women, in every field of life.

That is the root cause of their insecurity. So a wife is supposed to understand this and tackle her husband. No husband on this earth, howsoever sure he may be of his wife's love would tolerate such a friendship especially when he knows that person loves his wife.

It is not a matter of RK being over possessive. All men are equally possessive in this regard.

And answer this question would madhu tolerate such friendship of RK with any other woman. When you enter into a relationship some boundaries are to be respected irrespective to the cost to your personal freedom.

And especially when her husband is going thru such a bad personal phase she can give up her friendship. She can easily see that he is emotionally vulnerable and as such a phase it is very easy for him to suspect any and everyone. His self esteem is taking a hit thought he is not showing this. and his wife cannot understand this.

So such questions are natural

Originally posted by: ClosetRomantic

Excellent points!

Madhu has been very understanding of RK in the past. She has forgiven him everytime and earned his respect as a result. That is why what she is doing now is so bizarre.

Originally posted by: Poluk

See what you are writing is correct. Her love should not be questioned. But then understand that men are different from women. Believe me as I am a married woman - men are also emotionally weaker than women, in every field of life.

That is the root cause of their insecurity. So a wife is supposed to understand this and tackle her husband. No husband on this earth, howsoever sure he may be of his wife's love would tolerate such a friendship especially when he knows that person loves his wife.

It is not a matter of RK being over possessive. All men are equally possessive in this regard.

And answer this question would madhu tolerate such friendship of RK with any other woman. When you enter into a relationship some boundaries are to be respected irrespective to the cost to your personal freedom.

And especially when her husband is going thru such a bad personal phase she can give up her friendship. She can easily see that he is emotionally vulnerable and as such a phase it is very easy for him to suspect any and everyone. His self esteem is taking a hit thought he is not showing this. and his wife cannot understand this.

So such questions are natural

Originally posted by: ClosetRomantic

Sorry, I don't agree. Passion does not mean misunderstandings, half-truths and accusations. Such a relationship would have only physical passion, not emotional. And such a relationship would fizzle out once the physical attraction dies.

I have no problems with fights between Rishbala but those fights should be about communicating their issues truthfully. RK and Madhu look at life from different angles and that presents a lot of opportunities for tussles between them but how they react to them makes all the difference. For eg. the way RK proposed to get Madhu's parents married, they way she reacted and finally saw it from his eyes and understood. Not supporting a gangster's rights over her husband who is himself a victim here.

Originally posted by: masan1

Awesme. No need to add anythng. CR this needs to be sent to nautanki. Pls do it dear.

Originally posted by: Taniya20

I agree with you but i disagree with ur comparison with DABH couple... though i dont know about them , never watched that show, the DABH montage gives the impression that they are like any other typical TV soap couple... They do not have any X factor... Rishbala has X factor which makes them a unique couple... (Its totally my opinion... you can ignore if you disagree) 😊