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Posted: 12 years ago
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whats wrong in madhu taking prasad and giving to her MIL ..nothing ..in hindu religion its not good when we refuse to prasad ..
here madhu just taking it for radhaji for her good luck and god blessing ..
how come taking prasad from meera made madhu a wrong woman ..
radhaji is not taking prasad out of her guilt .. as she knew about meera ..


what madhu is doing is not to hurt any one as she is simple and does every thing by heart ..


how her sympathy with anyone can be termed as her betrayal and her non caring attitude ???



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Posted: 12 years ago
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@ tabby I have nothing against her taking prasad
As u said it in Hindu religion u should not disrespect prasad as it is a symbol of gods blessing
But I have strong objections to her sympathy for people who have entered their house forcefully
I have strong objections to her not wanting them out of the house
And also not trying herself to throw them out
Why not want them outc
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Posted: 12 years ago
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"in hindu religion its not good when we refuse to prasad .."

U are absolutely right tabby. No matter how much we dislike a person, we can't refuse God's prasad ... I don't think Madhu did a wrong thing there...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: LSPD

@ tabby I have nothing against her taking prasad
As u said it in Hindu religion u should not disrespect prasad as it is a symbol of gods blessing
But I have strong objections to her sympathy for people who have entered their house forcefully
I have strong objections to her not wanting them out of the house
And also not trying herself to throw them out
Why not want them outc

madhu always sympathise with others whats new in this ..
she has done lot to all including rk too ..she has sympathy for meear sa she is not well ...meera has show a simple caring way towards radhaji so madhu is just returning that back ..when they r going out why madhu needs to be rude ..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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She should just have taken the prasaad herself if she wanted to, Tabby.
There was no need to make Radha take it when Radha clearly didn't want to.
Faith and rituals to whatever extent are a matter of personal decision. Madhu can decide what she herself wants to do, but she should not try to decide for someone else in such a matter.
And if her traditional mother-in-law was refusing to take the prasaad, that was an indication that the situation was big and interference on behalf of an intruder was insensible. But such behaviour on Madhu's part is being used as a plotdevice to serve the clunky track. Anyway, this is a tiny thing on the scale of objectionable behaviour we need to be prepared for from both Madhu and RK in the coming episodes. Leave it be.
Edited by leelaa9 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Madhu was not wrong as far as prasad is concerned . Dushmanion se prasad ko inkaar nahi karte .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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To Tabby

Please take my comments correctly. I don't mean any disrespect to either you or any ritual or any character in this serial.

I don't want this post of yours to be bashed because of me. I have not seen the episode, just read the WU hence I don't know the expressions on any of the character's face. But these are my sincere comments.

Radhaji is an adult. She is not Madhu's baby daughter. Madhu cannot decide for her whether she can take the prasad or refuse it. Radhaji is also not a foreigner (you know who may not know these customs or significance behind these rituals). It is completely her prerogative what she wants to do when offered prasad by Meera. Madhu cannot play as a referee between Radha and Meera in this.

These are both grown women. Let them decide what they want to do. If Madhu indeed thinks from the heart, she would have understood the feelings of both the women, the situation that has put them face to face and given them both a chance to figure it out for themselves.

What was the worst that could have happened? Radhaji would have turned her back to Meera and left from there. Meera would have had some bewildered expression on her face and she might have looked mildly surprised and she may have looked at Sultan for direction. That is all. She would not have turned violent, gone after Radhaji confronting her as to what Radha thinks of herself and blah blah blah.

Madhu in this case is completely out of line, being insensitive to people's predicaments making the already bad situation worse.

This is just my pov and don't intend to hurt anyone by these comments.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: tabby999

madhu always sympathise with others whats new in this ..

she has done lot to all including rk too ..she has sympathy for meear sa she is not well ...meera has show a simple caring way towards radhaji so madhu is just returning that back ..when they r going out why madhu needs to be rude ..


Sorry tabby I am married
I know the relation of a husband and wife
For. A wife sometimes husband becomes more imp than parents
And there she having sympathy for someone whom her husband hates
And I must tell u something
Rk is being patient with her
My hubby would not have spoken to me for months if I did this
And please remember I love dd and I love mb
It's just I feel so bad now for both dd and the character madhu
I just cannot relate to her anymore
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Neelam..

"in hindu religion its not good when we refuse to prasad .."

U are absolutely right tabby. No matter how much we dislike a person, we can't refuse God's prasad ... I don't think Madhu did a wrong thing there...

same here neelu ..i just dont understand why big issue in that ..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: leelaa9

She should just have taken the prasaad herself if she wanted to, Tabby.
There was no need to make Radha take it when Radha clearly didn't want to.
Faith and rituals to whatever extent are a matter of personal decision. Madhu can decide what she herself wants to do, but she should not try to decide for someone else in such a matter.
And if her traditional mother-in-law was refusing to take the prasaad, that was an indication that the situation was big and interference on behalf of an intruder was insensible. But such behaviour on Madhu's part is being used as a plotdevice to serve the clunky track. Anyway, this is a tiny thing on the scale of objectionable behaviour we need to be prepared for from both Madhu and RK in the coming episodes. Leave it be.

@red ..leela this is only i agree ..
people who loverk wil see from thie point..people who love madhu will see from thier point ..no one can convince each other so no use ..as far as things taking shape soon we will be ready for seperation of rishbala ..

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