MADHU TAKING PRASAD A CRIME ?? - Page 3

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Posted: 12 years ago
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there was nothing wrong with her taking prasad. but she shouldn't have made RJ take it; last time i checked Radha was her own person and mature enough to make her own decisions. forcing your good intentions on someone is no different from any other malicious act. anyways leave it, if we keep defending the butchering that's being done to all the respective characters for the inclusion of one ( 🤢 ) then cvs will do even worse blunders in the future. better we stick to WU's and not take this track to seriously.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: DushtDanaf.

there was nothing wrong with her taking prasad. but she shouldn't have made RJ take it; last time i checked Radha was her own person and mature enough to make her own decisions. forcing your good intentions on someone is no different from any other malicious act. anyways leave it, if we keep defending the butchering that's being done to all the respective characters for the inclusion of one ( 🤢 ) then cvs will do even worse blunders in the future. better we stick to WU's and not take this track to seriously.

zainab i dont feel in taking prasad and even handling to radhaji ...radhaji isgrown up enough but she was behaving like nut out of sheer guilt ..madhu just give the prasad so that radhaji get the blessing ...
character butchering ..the whole show is now crap ..
if dd would not have been there i would have never watched it ...nothing good all nonsense crap
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Madhu taking the prasad isn't a crime ... but the context in which it was done is crime for sure. Madhu needs to understand Rji's frame of mind, how disturbed she is, what the doctor has prescribed, before pushing her further towards a total breakdown.

Madhu has always been caring and sympathetic, she needs to show this behavior towards Rji and RK too. While she was not wrong in taking the prasad, she shouldn't have forced Rji to do the same. Let the woman decide what she wants to do. After all she is the elder, and deeply religious for that matter and if she can't tolerate taking prasad from Meera, fine, it's her decision and her belief. Further, religious belief shouldn't be forced on anyone. You inform them and let them decide their own course of action. I might be religious, but that doesn't mean my family has to act as per my dictates and desires.

No point arguing over this matter when it is going to go worse ... this is just a small instance ... I guess we will have to gulp down loads of stupidity and nonsense in the name of drama and story this month. 🤢
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Whether Radhaji wanted to take prasad or not was her prerogative. madhu literally forced her into it.
And what was more disgusting was the fact that she was more concerned about the hurt meera was feeling and not the hurt radha was feeling.

That is why she deserved the insult RK gave her that u want Sultan to stay. Any decent husband would have given her a really sound public bashing for her behaviour. It is RK's patience that he let her go with a small rebuke.

Madhu is not a 5 year old that she cannot understand the ramifications of what is happening in the household. Sultan is trying to prove her husband illegitimate and her mother in law a keep/mistress. Radha even now though married to another man is concerned about the impact of all this on her son.

A natural mother's instinct. She cannot be blamed for that. Any woman in her position would behave the way she is. And her 22 year old DIL instead of understanding all this and seeing the macro level implications of the issue is concerned about Meera's feelings.

Does she not understand what will it do to her husband to be called a ba*****. That someone is trying to take away his name, identity etc.

And the best part is the person doesnot have any concrete proof. Still she is all out to make them happy and comfortable.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..Aliya..

But she can't force it on Radha!
If Radha doesn't want to take it she has to accept it instead of acting so lovely dovely. 🤢
And that stupid apology wasn't needed at all!!!


the worse part is that she's oblivious to Radha's hurt and her state of mind..like someone said, Radha is headed for a complete breakdown but Madhu is hell bent on pushing her towards Meera and Sultan, make Radha see their perspective ? She cud sense Radha's uneasiness but still she's on with Sultan and Meera jaap in front of Radha 🤢 Meera dil ki achi hai, Sultan acha aadmi hai, Aryan ki koi galti nahi hai , Madhu sabse achi hai , RK was never acha but the least that is expected from Madhu is to empathize with Radha, uski kya galti hai?

Madhu giving prasad to Radha and asking her to see off Sultan and Meera was downright pathetic 🤢
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: _charu_


the worse part is that she's oblivious to Radha's hurt and her state of mind..like someone said, Radha is headed for a complete breakdown but Madhu is hell bent on pushing her towards Meera and Sultan, make Radha see their perspective ? She cud sense Radha's uneasiness but still she's on with Sultan and Meera jaap in front of Radha 🤢 Meera dil ki achi hai, Sultan acha aadmi hai, Aryan ki koi galti nahi hai , Madhu sabse achi hai , RK was never acha but the least that is expected from Madhu is to empathize with Radha, uski kya galti hai?

Madhu giving prasad to Radha and asking her to see off Sultan and Meera was downright pathetic 🤢



One question : Why did Radha Hug Meera i don't think Madhu asked Radha to Hug Meera . About Radha she is also not doodh ka dhula .

Madhu ne toh bas ek baar bola bahar chalke unko see off karne ko . Madhu did not force Radha . About Prasad it depends on person to person . Many people think Prasad ka anadar nahi karte . Madhu is from that school of thoughts Honestly even Radha is same kind of person .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Agree with u...madhu was not wrong in taking the prasad...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: manesha76

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One question : Why did Radha Hug Meera i don't think Madhu asked Radha to Hug Meera . About Radha she is also not doodh ka dhula .

Madhu ne toh bas ek baar bola bahar chalke unko see off karne ko . Madhu did not force Radha . About Prasad it depends on person to person . Many people think Prasad ka anadar nahi karte . Madhu is from that school of thoughts Honestly even Radha is same kind of person .


Radha doing anything by herself is not wrong...she can do whatever she feels like..Madhu doesn't have to poke her nose and tell her what's the right thing to do...I didn't object to Madhu taking prasad from Meera right? Radha is a religious person and she knows the importance of prasad and stuff..but that was not the right moment...Radha is nervous for some reason , Madhu knows that she's uncomfortable in Meera's presence..she sensed it, yet she was advising her to see them off , why?? kaunsi duniya hil jaati if Radha didn't see off Sultan and Meera? if Radha came on her own, there was no problem...

yeah, to each his own..prasad ka niradar nahi karte ..that's what Madhu thinks..that's what Radha knows..so therez no need for advise..Madhu did it for "Meera"..so that Meera is not hurt..but she cud not see Radha's hurt...

@bold , arre yaar, how do u know, maine bhi yahi socha 😆 Radha is same kind of person and Madhu didn't like it that Radha is not in her character ..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: _charu_


Radha doing anything by herself is not wrong...she can do whatever she feels like..Madhu doesn't have to poke her nose and tell her what's the right thing to do...I didn't object to Madhu taking prasad from Meera right? Radha is a religious person and she knows the importance of prasad and stuff..but that was not the right moment...Radha is nervous for some reason , Madhu knows that she's uncomfortable in Meera's presence..she sensed it, yet she was advising her to see them off , why?? kaunsi duniya hil jaati if Radha didn't see off Sultan and Meera? if Radha came on her own, there was no problem...

yeah, to each his own..prasad ka niradar nahi karte ..that's what Madhu thinks..that's what Radha knows..so therez no need for advise..Madhu did it for "Meera"..so that Meera is not hurt..but she cud not see Radha's hurt...

@bold , arre yaar, how do u know, maine bhi yahi socha 😆 Radha is same kind of person and Madhu didn't like it that Radha is not in her character ..



@bold: I completely agree... both are same... now these two women will milkar try to solve the issue by talking to sultan/offering him something(god knows what) which inturn creates 10 other problems for RK and Rishbala 🤢


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Posted: 12 years ago
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When I was watching this, Madhu taking the prasad and giving to Radha because she thought it was a bad thing to refuse the prasad. I just thought Madhu knows Radha if she gives her she will definitely take it, and she did but she dropped it later, but not out of malice, I feel Radha is in a her own world right now when she dropped the prasad it wasn't because she doesn't want to take anything from Meera, rather unawareness of dropping it.

With regards to Madhu stepping in I couldn't fault her as I said as she is the heroine of this show and unlike another show I watched where the Saas was so strong and the bahu would never step in to force her her Saas to take something in that way because the dynamics of the relationship of Saas and Bahu in that show was that of subservience, what I mean by this is Madhu is a powerful person in RK Mansion unlike the other show where the Saas was more powerful. Here we see in MEIEJ Madhu and Radha are given equal status in the heart of the husband RK and in the running of the house as well.

If RK were to do more than he did yesterday say shout at Madhu for giving the prasad to Radha or giving her silent treatment, she would try to resolve the matter with him if he is still refusing to talk to her Madhu would leave him. I think going by the way Madhu is she would not stay.

Her situation is different, newly married, mother would welcome her back I'm sure and she has no kids, that's why she's strong her parents give her self respect and would not turn her away, her husband butters her up as well, and her saas respect her too.

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