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Lov is nt abt changing peple it is all abt acpting wat u r! So if mb lov rk why c wnt him to chang him!bt i wnt sulbala to hapen nt bcoz i lik dem bt wnt rk free frm despobala

Originally posted by: Mikolingam

Pls when you understand ppl, you don't teach them a lesson or take revenge when they admit and apologize to you.

You don't show your anger , argue or be harsh in your words , action.

Madhu has shown all this action to RK.

This you call understanding my friend. You don't inflict pain on others even when you are inflicted by them.

You should guide, show concern , counsel, assure. most of all be very very patient with them. This I call understanding in any circumstance you are.

Have you heard people couslleing, give assurance and bring them back to the right path.

Madhu should do all this to her half husband as you called RK.

Half husband ,full husband, Husband is husband to a women, give respect.

I don't think she's qualified enough to counsel a superstar, if you read the news many big celebs have all the love and support from friends and family but still end up in rehab where qualified and trained professionals can help them. Madhu is just an ordinary girl I'm afraid and she can only endure so much, do t you think she wanted him to change? She did everything a person in her shoes could do my friend.

Originally posted by: Mikolingam

Pls when you understand ppl, you don't teach them a lesson or take revenge when they admit and apologize to you.

You don't show your anger , argue or be harsh in your words , action.

Madhu has shown all this action to RK.

This you call understanding my friend. You don't inflict pain on others even when you are inflicted by them.

You should guide, show concern , counsel, assure. most of all be very very patient with them. This I call understanding in any circumstance you are.

Have you heard people couslleing, give assurance and bring them back to the right path.

Madhu should do all this to her half husband as you called RK.

Half husband ,full husband, Husband is husband to a women, give respect.

The post is not about counselling skills of Madhu. Its about her being a normal human being. And nobody deserves respect just because he is a half/full husband. Respect should be earned by ones own actions.

Originally posted by: Mikolingam

Pls when you understand ppl, you don't teach them a lesson or take revenge when they admit and apologize to you.

You don't show your anger , argue or be harsh in your words , action.

Madhu has shown all this action to RK.

This you call understanding my friend. You don't inflict pain on others even when you are inflicted by them.

You should guide, show concern , counsel, assure. most of all be very very patient with them. This I call understanding in any circumstance you are.

Have you heard people couslleing, give assurance and bring them back to the right path.

Madhu should do all this to her half husband as you called RK.

Half husband ,full husband, Husband is husband to a women, give respect.

Apologize? When exactly did RK apologize to her for breaking off their marriage? The only thing he apologized for was the party saga. He is yet to be shown sorry for starting up this whole mess in the first place.
And for God's sake keep your eyes and mind open while watching the show. Madhu has been very patient and understanding with her, even though she was forced into this marriage. She guided him and thought he had changed but she was so wrong. All she got in return for her "understanding" was betrayal from her "half-husband" . Yes I will keep on calling him that because that's exactly what he is. SUE ME!
When the so called husband himself doesn't give respect to his wife and their relationship, don't expect others to do so either.

Originally posted by: ehmmbhvirman

Lov is nt abt changing peple it is all abt acpting wat u r! So if mb lov rk why c wnt him to chang him!bt i wnt sulbala to hapen nt bcoz i lik dem bt wnt rk free frm despobala

You guys really need to rewind and watch the show again. Madhu had accepted RK exactly the way he was but it was your RK that betrayed her and told her he didn't love her when he broke of their marriage.

Originally posted by: prc_fan1

I do admire her for what she's been doing the past few episodes. The only thing that irked me was her conversation with Sultan yesterday. It was absurd on 2 levels,

1. She, herself, is going through a heartbreak while hurting RK (she still loves RK) and yet at the same time, she tells another man that he knows how to love. It seems to be really wrong, and anyone would decipher a wrong meaning out of what she said.

2. She claims she knows RK but she obviously is so wrong. She wants a perfect goody-goody guy & she knows RK is far from that. Even when they first confessed their love, RK's condition/love test was that she & him go far, far away. She always knew of his obsession. I agree with her that she deserves to be respected etc. but she always knew how RK was, then why the sudden need to reform him now?

Madhu had accepted RK exactly the way he was, but one can still hope for some improvement right? Madhu never wished for any goody two shoes guy in her life. All she wanted was to be loved back sincerely by the man that she loved so dearly. But what did she get in return? Heart breaks, torture, humiliation. She had given him a chance despite being blackmailed into the wedding. She saw changes in him and thought he loved her too. But she was so wrong. And now she knows RK more than he knows himself. And she knows that he can never change and all he wants is to "own" her. He may love her, but his obsession has taken over whatever little possibility of love there was left. And Madhu doesn't want to be obsessed about. As she said, she is not some trophy that RK can put his name on. She is a human who is hurt deeply and terribly and who has complete right to get even with the man who turned her life upside down in a jiffy.

About Sultan and Madhu's conversation, I didn't find anything wrong in it. That was two friends talking and sharing what's in their heart. We all have talked to our friends about personal things. That is exactly what Madhu was doing!

Originally posted by: fia21

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">You guys really need to rewind and watch the show again. Madhu had accepted RK exactly the way he was but it was your RK that betrayed her and told her he didn't love her when he broke of their marriage.</font>

sory to tell u bt mb lov rishab nt rk!she had only acept good quality of him!bt dear lov is all abt acpting good n fault of yr lover bt yr fakebala nvr acept rk fully it was rk who lov her truly! Mb lov for rk is selfish!

Originally posted by: ehmmbhvirman

sory to tell u bt mb lov rishab nt rk!she had only acept good quality of him!bt dear lov is all abt acpting good n fault of yr lover bt yr fakebala nvr acept rk fully it was rk who lov her truly! Mb lov for rk is selfish!

Arrey but try to understand her point of view too na. Nobody denies that RK is in love with Madhubala, but you can't say that Madhu's love for him was selfish. She was ready to leave everything behind and go away with him when he asked her too but in the end, it was RK who's love turned out to be a pretense. Even then she didn't do anything and quietly tried to move on again in life, but once again it was RK who brought her back, not by apologizing, but by forcing. What else could we have accepted her to do? A girl's self respect is her biggest treasure, and Madhubala is just protecting that, even if it is from her husband. She still loves him, but she can't do that by compromising with her self respect every time now can she?

sultaan knows about love , kab se , apne bete ke saath toh normal relation devlope kar le baad mai dusro ki bivi pe pyaar barsana 😆