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Posted: 12 years ago
Oh-no-soaps ... 👏 👏 👏 ... take a bow dear ... Fabulous post ...

And you deserve another 👏 for keeping the post clean ... you have answered every post with patience, dignity and clarity !

I must say it's heartening to see so many like minded ppl here ... putting their foot down and calling a spade a spade ... not gushing over the "romance" in the abuse shown time and again ...

And I am baffled at the few who are harping on the "they-are-hubby-&-wife-so-all-is-ok" ... 😕 😲


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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: fia21




Wait let me LMFAO 🤣

I didn't know Madhubala "bit" RK. Is she a Vampire? 😲🤣
And she's having affairs with other "men" ?? 😆 . Now I seriously don't know how talking to someone in a friendly manner passes as an affair. If that were the case, more than half the marriages in the world would be suffering from infidelity!!
About RK being innocent. No comments 😳



OMG!! 😲 What an amazing idea!!! 😆 rk_vampire style!! THere could a track in the show...since ppl are comparing madhu with bella... Can you imagine...rk "bites" ppl and they become like him!! The same verbal diehorria, grandiose hand gestures, talking about themselves in the 3rd person..., twisted face, something periodically going wrong with the neck so their head hangs at 60 degrees!!
Imagine if he bit his mother..radhaji!! Imagine her rk style!! 🤣 Or 😲 BITTU!! ...Lmao!!

For those who might tell me to talk sense...it makes sense for a bollywood superstar to get married in a chawl to a chawlgirl. Ahaaan.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: mozart66

@Fia:


Lovely replies!! Been reading all of them! I too am proud to be your friend!! A person after my own heart! You mirror me in more ways than one!! Anyway, just wanted to say that I have always observed and experienced too that many people in this world make themselves or their so-called loved ones look taller by bringing others, in particular, good people, down in every way possible but wouldn't grow taller themselves by doing any good deed ever! It isn't a universal law but is now a very commonly found trait in many human beings! It beats me how by pulling down someone, you can make yourself or your loved ones look bigger, better or taller!! I simply pity such people!!

The blind RK fans are doing exactly that!! By pulling down someone good like Sultan, they think that their HERO is rising in their eyes!! All I can say is that delusion is injurious to health!


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I hate to say this but I know many ppl from many different countries and cultural backgrounds and I am sad to say I find this amongst Indians from india more often then other ppl 😔. It seems it has almost become a cultural trait.. when feeling threatened, to belittle others in order to look better.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Yukthi.

firstly..as she has her husband with her..so no need of some ____ to interfere and break his LONG nose🤣
secondly , draupadi and krishna were siblings of sorts..so he could help her..
do you inmply to say that madhu and sultan too are...😳 😉 🤣
welll..i am glad that you 'll accepted publicly that they are fit to be sublings 😛
thanks for this post! 😆
sayonara! 🤣



Did you watch the episode?? It is her HUSBAND who is doing the abusing!!
I have learnt something new!! What he TOTAL critiera to help a girl/woman is!! So let me say it again..

First you need to have have full history and background of a person. Check they have never broken a rule or law in their life. Anyone who has done wrong should not be helped. NEXT...

You have to go back and look at the WHOLE of your life. Did YOU do anything bad? Did you commit a sin? Do a crime? Break a rule?
What ? Yes you have??? Well ...no way jose!!...you can't stand up for someone or help them. Thats hypocrisy! No no naughty noo noo. NO. You musn't even THINK of helping let alone do it.

Now check..is it a woman? Yes..

Are you by any chance her brother? No? Pi** off then...YOU MUST NEVER help a girl unless she is your sister. She must tie a thread to your wrist only then u can help. Make sure you give her one (you can carry some in your pocket). She shld make you her brother and then you help her.

Now check if she is married...be careful mind...it will be bad sanskar_giri if you look for too long...EYELOCKS you know...!!! Not allowed unless its between a psycho and his 4 phere wali BIWI.

She is MARRIED? Yes. Husband being a shi*? Well the stupid cow obviously did something wrong. GOd!! Woman these days they just do not have TRUE LOVE for their husbands! She must have asked for it. Lets see how much she can take..it shows how much she loves him if she takes LOTS of abuse and humiliation. 😳The husband obviously loves her and they are made for each other. (look there is the word HERO stamped on his forehead). I will stand here and watch this baizzati of a woman (but really its love) and when I get a chance i will tell her how she must never never never leave her husband. SEE! I HAVE GOOD sanskars coz look...I AM BITTU!!

Nahi nahiii MY sanskars are better than yours bittuji...aakhir mai hoon maaoon

...rishooo...rishooo...




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Posted: 12 years ago
Awesome post!! I don't know how I missed this one before :P
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: ha35_ad

Kat I love your posts!
I'm not familiar with the Hindu religion so I can't comment.
I guess first and foremost you need to have humanity in you to understand any relationship.
If you're publically humiliating your partner you're inviting people to get involved because it's not a 'domestic' any more ! I'm a woman but I'd still get involved if I saw something like this happening out on the streets and I highly doubt people would question my intentions so why should there be a different rule for a man who helps a woman?


In regards to Sultan, Madhu saved his life so the least he can do is stick up for her. This will obviously come as a shock because we're so used to seeing how other characters return the favour in this show !



Thank you for loving my posts! I know I don't have to tell you that you are in the minority! A small, brainless and heartless section of this forum who just want to bash rk for no reason.
If you are a woman and married too and its your husband committing the abuse then NOTHING and NO-ONE can get involved unless its god and he happens to be your brother!!

As for humanity..perhaps you can explain what humanity has to do with anything? Humanity just means a big group of humans. Didn't you know that?

I shouldn't even have had to bring god into my topic!! Not that it made any difference!!
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: paljay


You are right.

I am Hindu, and religious too, but I feel Humanity is the only religion one should follow, If a person is good at heart whether he/she is atheist or religious doesn't matter.



I think you are a nice person so am giving you a bit of adivce...Humanity means a LARGE group of humans. Don't follow them!! 😕
Its called stalking...

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Posted: 12 years ago
your post was awesome and excellently worded...I have nothing wise to add to it...hamara mamla nahi hai to hum khaey naak tudvayein Is the veru reason behind episodes like 16 th of December...
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: nobodyatnotime



Did you watch the episode? Sultan came because he got Madhu's message where she apparently told him she needed help. So he is supposed to ignore that? So according you, women abused by their husbands shouldn't be helped by outsiders? In which world do you live?
Krishna's relationship with Draupadi is not the point (mind you, Drupad didn't come to help, she called her "sakha"- yes, that is what she called Krishna- friend, not "bhratashri" or something like that.)- the point is, he came to the defence of a married lady for whose abuse her husbands were partly responsible.



Good point. Lost no doubt on the poster whose intention is to attempt humour and is failing miserably..
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: rusha4003

Oh-no-soaps ... 👏 👏 👏 ... take a bow dear ... Fabulous post ...


And you deserve another 👏 for keeping the post clean ... you have answered every post with patience, dignity and clarity !

I must say it's heartening to see so many like minded ppl here ... putting their foot down and calling a spade a spade ... not gushing over the "romance" in the abuse shown time and again ...

And I am baffled at the few who are harping on the "they-are-hubby-&-wife-so-all-is-ok" ... 😕 😲




Thank you! and thank you again re keeping my patience etc...I did good, even if I do say so myself ☺️...its rare...wonder what I've been eating thats different last few days!! 😆

As for calling a spade a spade...we are in the minority in this forum I,m afraid and strongly suspect in india too.

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