Indian Sanskar NOT to defend a married lady?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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So is it an Indian value, sanskar, tradition, moral, ethic...call it what you will, not to defend an Indian woman if it is her husband who is abusing her?

Am asking genuinely - so many here saying that what rk did is understandable since what sultan did was VERY VERY wrong...defending madhu against her husband!!

Ummm wasn't Dhraupadi a married lady? Heck she had FIVE husbands! Didn't Krishna come to her aid when she was being humiliated? And YES her 5 husbands were indirectly responsible AS WELL for what dushaasan was doing. They should not have treated her like PROPERTY in a game of dice.

Why did Vishnu take avatar as Krishna..oh yes!! To play with the gopis so that tellywood and bollywood can make nice romantic scenes!! Gita Gyaan and Vishnu bhagwan taking avatar to SHOW PPL HOW TO LIVE. What VALUES to have , gaya bhaad mein.

Waise hona hi tha...arrey kaun Gita padhta hai har roz? We all take our instructions from daily TV soaps!! No no we don't...WE ALL KNOW ITS NOT REAL!! RIGHT??? OUR POV IS NOT INFLUENCED BY TV RIGHT?

Indian society in India has correct value in this regard? DO NOT defend a married woman from husband abuse. Its between husband and wife. Krishna...you are everywhere and know everything since you are God. So Im sure you have heard me. Next avatar dhyaan rahe!!!

ps..Those of you who might jump on the bandwagon of me bashing Indian values..NO I am not. I am questioning ONE, CURRENT and COMMON new value tradition of a lot of Indians. Have said nothing about Indian culture or tradition in general. So pls stick to topic if you post.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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cat i want to kill you..our gangy is not krisna re...he haven't any gopiya re 🤣
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: DHANJAY

cat i want to kill you..our gangy is not krisna re...he haven't any gopiya re 🤣



Im talking about krishna helping draupadi (a married woman) even though her husbands were responsible for her abuse, be it indirectly AND they were present. The gopis bit was me being facetious/flippant.

As an aside.. the gangster may not have gopis in the show but he has PLENTY of "gopis" outside of the show who eagerly wait for even a 1min of his presence in each episode!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I am not familiar with the indian culture and what U said in the post.

But something I know being a married woman is I would not tolerate or stay even for a single second if my husband insult me like that infront of everyone.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: DHANJAY

cat i want to kill you..our gangy is not krisna re...he haven't any gopiya re 🤣

aajkal ke samay mai achche loogo ki bhagwaan khud nahin aate sahayta karne woh kissi na kisi roop mai bhaijte hai sahayata karne ya koi na koi aisa sanket dete hai ya uski musibat talne ka rasta dikha dete hai.deko jo sahayata kare dossron ki musibat mai help kare sahara de doosron ki takleef samjhe aaj ke samay mai wahi bagwaan hai .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Why even debate this matter? it clearly will have no resonance with any group that has nothing at all to do with logic or reasoning or honest justifications darling.. Its clear that this show is for 'entertainment' purposes alone.
Although how 'having a woman humiliated and degraded publicly in the worst manner possible by her own so-called husband again and again' counts for entertainment, is beyond me.

anyway, somehow in the same entertainment measure though, 'Gangster can be a decent human being too' fails to make the cut..

so you see.. there are no fixed rules;) and the universe and its laws revolve to serve just one (demi)God;).. and in his world, woman don't count for sh*t, unless they are at his feet to be trampled upon.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Oh_No_Soaps



Im talking about krishna helping draupadi (a married woman) even though her husbands were responsible for her abuse, be it indirectly AND they were present. The gopis bit was me being facetious/flippant.

As an aside.. the gangster may not have gopis in the show but he has PLENTY of "gopis" outside of the show who eagerly wait for even a 1min of his presence in each episode!!!

in fact they watch only that minute of the episode😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shahisthi

I am not familiar with the indian culture and what U said in the post.

But something I know being a married woman is I would not tolerate or stay even for a single second if my husband insult me like that infront of everyone.



Hindus believe that god takes birth on earth from time to time, to show ppl the right way to live, what values to have etc, by living here himself and setting an example. Krishna is supposed to be one such birth.

There is a story during his lifetime that a woman (draupadi) had five husbands and they bet her, as if she was mere property, in a gambling game and lost. The winning side dragged her out in front of a whole assembly of ppl and one of them tried to pull her sari off her. Krishna saved her honour by making the sari longer and longer so that no matter how hard it was tried to get to the end by pulling it, it wasn't possible.

Basically even though it was between wife and husband(s) and none of his business...a 3rd party intervened!! A man at that!! Oh and he was a right ROMEO!!! Sultan's roadside romeogiri's got nothing on him!!! 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Don't even go on Krishnaa. He was a sick political manipulator who had turned brothers against brothers despite knowing everything which paandvas themselves didn't know! he is the reason why karna was humiliated so much in draupadi's husband conquest thing! krishnaa had provoked her to defend her brother despite her brother humiliating karnaa of being a chariot driver's son.krishnaa knew what was in Draupadi's heart and he still provoked her against karna for the sake of her brother.she wanted the love she deep down inside had for karna without her permission to be fulfilled from arjun as the image of arjun appealed her with all the battle scars on his forearms .She wished to get love from Arjun so that she forgets Karna but it never happened. Krishnaa knew Draupadi from childhood and KNEW what she felt.He is the one who knew everything and used it manipulation instead, having a ball instead of resolving matters righteously! sadly arjun was not able to give her the love she wanted the minute draupadi got shared between the 5 brothers , and her silent love for Karna without her permission remained. Krishnaa had provoked a brother against another brother to kill him in a battle despite knowing they are half brothers.Krishnaa knew Karna was a Pandva but just causeof Karna's loyalty had the best of him he didnt join their force!what did krishnaa do DESPITE arjun not wanting to hurt in the last battle between them? he provoked arjun telling him the only way to kill karna.in the end all the pandvas broke down in killing their only brother, since they did not know then but KRISHNAA DID. draupadi got heart broken and kunti broke down knowing her sons are killing each other and she feeling helpless! all because of MAHAAAN KRISHNAA who couldve easily resolved matters!!!!!!!!!
He would have been a better corrupted politician than sonia gandhi and sheila dixit if he was a politician as a human in present india. dont even start on the "ever good" krishnaa. where is the women respect when you fling around with more than 3000 of your girlfriends and make girls like Radha and Meera hopelessly in love with you , become psychos bhatkaaoing in jungles just for you. Don't even mention THAT CURSE IN THE NAME OF A GOD AND CURSE IN THE NAME OF A MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 😡
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: meenji22

aajkal ke samay mai achche loogo ki bhagwaan khud nahin aate sahayta karne woh kissi na kisi roop mai bhaijte hai sahayata karne ya koi na koi aisa sanket dete hai ya uski musibat talne ka rasta dikha dete hai.deko jo sahayata kare dossron ki musibat mai help kare sahara de doosron ki takleef samjhe aaj ke samay mai wahi bagwaan hai .



Meenji i have to 🤗 you!!

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