Disagreement for dummies - Page 2

Originally posted by: -Madhubala-

and u want me to like that😡

it made menot bad though..😆

Originally posted by: DANGGG

i take a bow.😆 no seriously i totally agree with u, awesome post.

Originally posted by: PrittB

Res.

I read this post and am in love with it. I'll expand later, kind of typing with one hand, food's in the other. 😆

Originally posted by: Vijju-15

completely agree with you

if only everyone understands

Originally posted by: -GhostOrchid-

this post deserves to made a sticky..a must read for everyone
Hear that? Listen to the scholar people.
generalizing everyone into categories..feminists if you like what Bala is doing or immature fan girls if you understand RK better or traitors if you like Sultan instead of RK..huh..dont act like you have got me all figured out thanks to a few comments..there is a possibility that my are dictated by situations and actions of characters and not misgiuded sense of loyalty to prove someone I like right no ,matter how wrong they might be

if you think you are right, your opinion is right doesnt make me automatically wrong if I happen to disagree..argue reasonably and I am all ears..

and last one..I so agree..not everything is about Sultan..I try not to bring him into discussions because I have never warmed up to him (not for the lack of trying) and know I might be biased against him because I never care enough for him..but every time I call RK's actions action what they actually are, Sultan is thrust into discussion even when he is not required..
and the arguement of if RK is wrong, Sultan isnt right either makes me want to laugh..
so that is how you want to defend RK..by comparing him with someone whom you yourself dont consider right..says so much doesnt it
and this goes the other way around as well

Originally posted by: DonnaHarvey

Here is how you should disagree in a CIVIL manner.

You tell em Jassu!

1. STOP mansplaining. I have seen it with both Rishbala and Subala and any other bala. You are not entitled to looking down on another human being.

Bahaha "Any other bala". 😆 @Bold: Ohmygod, I couldn't agree more. I wish some people understood that! Like...everyone in these forums are/should be seen as equal. No one is above anyone else. So no one can just look down on anyone else. It bothers me when people do that...

DISCLAIMER: I will NOT swear because someone asked nicely.😊

2. STOP getting so personal. You assume that the Madhu supporters are lesbians or old career women and the RK droolers are teenagers who enjoy Vampire Diaries. May be that is true but, you cannot assume that. You are displaying your lack of intellect and/or control over emotions when you do that. See how that last line made you feel? That is how I feel everytime you hate on me for jotting down an innocent comment on the internet.

Thank you to whomever asked Jassu nicely not to swear. :)

Kay, I love you. I've seen so many people calling others lesbians and stuff and I honestly thing it's extremely rude for someone to use that as in insult. But I don't think you're getting at that point, oh well. I had to say it.

LOVE @bold. I feel that feel. Sometimes...I mean at times when I accidentally support one side or the other when everyone knows I'm pro everyone minus Radha. KIDDING. I won't single her out. Wait what was I talking about? I don't know, I'm going to move onto the next point.

3. Your opinion is NOT the ultimate truth. Hard to believe, isn't it? You are not the fuhrer and we do not all love you. So if I disagree, argue back without commenting on my relationship status or what I do for a living because that just tells me you have nothing valid to contribute, Just going off on tangents like I do when I have to fill in the word limit on my essay.

@Bold: If only people understood that. Like...I don't even know what to say about this point because I just agree 100%.

4. Every thing is NOT about SULTAN. If I argue that RK is wrong, you say but Sultan is not right either. That's right, he is not. But you just made an assumption I actually like Sultan (which I don't). If you have nothing else to talk about, don't bring in Sultan to make RK look better by default. Madhu should not have to choose between these two men. There are plenty of men in India and elsewhere.

I feel like ignoring this point because I'm confused and I don't want to say something which will make it seem like I'm on one side or the other. So I shall be mute for this one!

Okay if someone finds a way to attack me now, welcome. I made cookies.

COOKIES! <3

And your previous reply to my comment. LOL I'm glad you don't know where I live, because it'd take you a mere 2 hours to come tell my mom about my spicy noodles craving...!

And I glove you more! 😆