Disagreement for dummies - Page 6

Originally posted by: DonnaHarvey

Yes, PEOPLE: you and I need to learn this. Isolating PEOPLE as otherness is not okay because I and you are also sometimes these people. These are guidelines for me as much as they are for others😊

Originally posted by: faria86

thanks for reply totally agree & whatever i say i always try my best to implement it on myself too

as u said these are guidelines for me too as much as they are for others😊

bcoz we all including me make the ppl 😊

Originally posted by: DonnaHarvey

Here is how you should disagree in a CIVIL manner.

1. STOP mansplaining. I have seen it with both Rishbala and Subala and any other bala. You are not entitled to looking down on another human being.

I will NOT swear because someone asked nicely.😊

2. STOP getting so personal. You assume that the Madhu supporters are lesbians or old career women and the RK droolers are teenagers who enjoy Vampire Diaries. May be that is true but, you cannot assume that. You are displaying your lack of intellect and/or control over emotions when you do that. See how that last line made you feel? That is how I feel everytime you hate on me for jotting down an innocent comment on the internet.

3. Your opinion is NOT the ultimate truth. Hard to believe, isn't it? You are not the fuhrer and we do not all love you. So if I disagree, argue back without commenting on my relationship status or what I do for a living because that just tells me you have nothing valid to contribute, Just going off on tangents like I do when I have to fill in the word limit on my essay.

4. Every thing is NOT about SULTAN. If I argue that RK is wrong, you say but Sultan is not right either. That's right, he is not. But you just made an assumption I actually like Sultan (which I don't). If you have nothing else to talk about, don't bring in Sultan to make RK look better by default. Madhu should not have to choose between these two men. There are plenty of men in India and elsewhere.

Okay if someone finds a way to attack me now, welcome. I made cookies.

Originally posted by: DevilClan

U r right dear. Thats y I stopped visiting the forum. Cause there people r always in bashing mode.

Originally posted by: heart1

Damn girl! About time people read these golden words of yours.

If you side with RK; your automatically assumed to be a teenager 😆

If you side with Sultan; you suddenly become a traitor 😳

If you think Madhu is wrong; suddenly you are accused of thinking RK is your idol 😛If you think Madhu is wrong; suddenly you are accused of thinking RK is your idol 😛

One cannot express their opinion without being attacked, accused or personally insulted. Sigh.

Originally posted by: ehmmbhvirman

agre

Originally posted by: vaani21

Nice post Donna👏