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Posted: 12 years ago
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i am not saying he did good with her. i am the last person to say that, it was very cruel what he did to her and still am not able watch it again. i am just summing up facts here. and fact is she fell in love with him and even after the revenge drama she had many opportunities to stay away from him even when he brought her back to his house and Radha asking her to leave, why did she stop when RK spoke to his mum?

as i said many times i am not anyones hater and not intend to hurt or bash anyone.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: afghangirl

i am not saying he did good with her. i am the last person to say that, it was very cruel what he did to her and still am not able watch it again. i am just summing up facts here. and fact is she fell in love with him and even after the revenge drama she had many opportunities to stay away from him even when he brought her back to his house and Radha asking her to leave, why did she stop when RK spoke to his mum?


as i said many times i am not anyones hater and not intend to hurt or bash anyone.


It's fine dear. I understand your peerspective. I'm not sure if you watched the episode after that (or was it two episodes later?) But Madhu told her mother that the reason she will remain in RK's household, is to teach him a lesson, and take revenge on him for the bullshit he pulled on her.

She has a reason for her kindness towards him.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: likarsh


My answer is in my first reply itself.
I think the makers here have done something that other shows that show similar things would never have dared to. They took that romantic notion and then broke it. They are continuing to show just how far-fetched that romantic notion is.

I'm not answering bitchily here, but I am talking about the notion that's embedded in the serials. Male lead treats female lead horribly, forces her into marriage and continues treating her horribly. And voila, they both fall for each other. Female lead sees the man he really is, and the male lead softens and realizes her true worth.

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Now the question of Sultan's change with Mahdu will come about. 😆 The difference is that Sultan didn't force and blackmail her into marrying him. And they didn't show a love story with the guy being a jerk throughout.


😕 did you forget that Sultan is a gangster and was holding a gun on her waist? he also threatened to harm her family and RK.its good he changed through Madhu and for Aryan, but does this make him better. on a very serious note and in real life both are unfit for her.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Awaarapan,where were u all these days,
uve given a good reality check indeed.
As days go by,with the contrasts in RK's and sultan's characters,it will be difficult to justify the acts of RK,even for hardcore fans,cos like u said there is no character developement for the better.
Whereas ,there is always a chance for redemption for sultan,bcos he is a self built man eager to imbibe good things into himself.
Its like unless one is willing to change,no amount of life's lessons are gonna be working.U can only take the camel to the oasis to drink but cannot make it drink,sameway,u can only show the path to life and blessing to a person,he makes the choice whether to walk on it or not.
Hope madhu shows the mirror to RK and removes his blindfolds.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: awarapan.


It's fine dear. I understand your peerspective. I'm not sure if you watched the episode after that (or was it two episodes later?) But Madhu told her mother that the reason she will remain in RK's household, is to teach him a lesson, and take revenge on him for the bullshit he pulled on her.

She has a reason for her kindness towards him.


yes, i did. i meant the episodes after the unwedding.Madhu could have taken up a job somewhere else.i was shocked she moved on so quick(at that time i really tried to hate RK).

but what does she gain by teaching him a lesson or revenging him?she has every right to do so, but i dont think she would be the old Madhu when she fullfills her revenge and breaks him. RK wasnt happy by breaking her, Madhu wouldnt be either.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: afghangirl

😕 did you forget that Sultan is a gangster and was holding a gun on her waist? he also threatened to harm her family and RK.its good he changed through Madhu and for Aryan, but does this make him better. on a very serious note and in real life both are unfit for her.


GIRL, tell me this. What episode was this? The initial ones, correct? This was when Sultan had no consideration of right or wrong, moral or immoral. He didn't care. He was inconsiderate. But slowly he learned to be a better person by being with Madhu. He learned to be HUMAN, to accept the downfalls of life, and continue on. What he did was wrong, correct, but who he is now matters. His change, his development, it matters.

I feel as though I'm repeating myself so much now, it's getting quite redundant.

Also, apologies to the lovely likarsh because I'm answering all your replies, lmao.
Edited by awarapan. - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: afghangirl

i am not saying he did good with her. i am the last person to say that, it was very cruel what he did to her and still am not able watch it again. i am just summing up facts here. and fact is she fell in love with him and even after the revenge drama she had many opportunities to stay away from him even when he brought her back to his house and Radha asking her to leave, why did she stop when RK spoke to his mum?


as i said many times i am not anyones hater and not intend to hurt or bash anyone.


My Edit wasn't meant for you specifically, and I understand where you're coming from. You are seeing it from the perspective within the story. I was talking about the perspective from outside the story.

You are right, she did fall in love with him. And I even agree with you that even now she has feelings for him. She says it's to teach him a lesson but she told Sultan that she lied to herself. I think that's implying that still has some part that softens and falls for him. You can see this in the episodes too. I'm about two episodes behind but one example is when he unveiled the painting to her and talked about how he couldn't handle it when she was away from him. She was falling for it again, but then he again spouted his possessive dialogues and reality hit her again.

The narrative, as I see it, is that of an abusive relationship.
Edited by likarsh - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: afghangirl


yes, i did. i meant the episodes after the unwedding.Madhu could have taken up a job somewhere else.i was shocked she moved on so quick(at that time i really tried to hate RK).

but what does she gain by teaching him a lesson or revenging him?she has every right to do so, but i dont think she would be the old Madhu when she fullfills her revenge and breaks him. RK wasnt happy by breaking her, Madhu wouldnt be either.


She was trying to overcome the drastic tragedies in her life by facing them and acknowledging that yes, shit happens, but you face it, and overcome it. She was being logical. She was being brave.

Honestly, I don't know what will happen after, but she needs to teach RK the realities of life. Not everything goes according to his wishes. Not everything happens at the snap of his fingers, nor is he the God damn king. She's showing him his place. He needs this lesson. He needs it from Madhu.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree with absolutely everything you said about RK. However, let us get one thing straight what is in between your legs does not automatically define your stance on an issue. Recognize that mansplainers can come from both genders and also, there is no such thing as women's opinion (there is a woman's opinion but for anyone busting their head over this, ladies do not have a secret bunker to make their decisions as a group). Not all women support RK just like not all women want babies. Hard to believe for some but true.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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great point! Even Im disgusted with the way women applaud RK on this forum! Than ppl point fingers at us for targeting women over fiction. Im fiction is usually written as a commentary and almost always has an opinion in it. What opinion this show has is the a rich stubborn man should have the license to do whatever psychopathic things he wants to? And than women applaud him for it saying we also want husbands like that and that he is so awesome also says something about their mentality? When women think that fictional characters should act like doormats and not stand up for themselves it must mean if they came across a man like RK in real life they would do the same? And if women think like that than this world never going to change!
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