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alina.b

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Posted: 12 years ago

#61

Originally posted by: ninand

One doesn't need someone's history before helping them.Not in an emergency at least! Besides Madhu herself told him there is nothing between them, and her mother gave him the impression that Rk is a bad person who may have forced her.
that's enough history for him to go see if she needs help.
And what can he spoil between them?! No one till date has done anything to spoil anything between RK and Madhu. Its only RK who did everything intentionally. He ruined everything between them already.

Emergency?? Was RK dangling Madhu off a bridge?? History is important! Please read my post above and think about it. Would you appreciate it if somebody who you do not well interfered in your life and personal matters? If Madhu's mother or father came to the rescue it would have been acceptable.

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ninand

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Posted: 12 years ago

#62

Originally posted by: shweta2728
@gurtiluv I agree...the gun could cause the situation to get out of hand. But this is how I ask you to see it. I'm pretty sure you have gotten into a fight or an argument before with someone close to you. Husband(if married), friend, sibling, parent, etc. So if someone you have known for a couple of days saw you fighting with a close one and interfered...how would you feel? Would you appreciate it? I believe that if there is a conflict between two people ...then it should remain between the two and TRY not to involve others because it can get out of hand. This is an advice given by professional counselors too. I am not trying to force my thought upon you but I would like you to consider my thoughts.

Excuse me for butting in but cant help myself. We aren't talking about the regular tiff, the 'nok'jhonk' or the even serious fights that couples have, cause they keep it to themselves.

RK humiliated and discarded her in 'public'. He renounced their relationship, 'over a mike'. He left her to her own devices and told the 'chawl waasis' to take care for he's finished with her and there is no link between them.

Now, that he suddenly proclaims she's his wife without even making an effort to make amends, everyone is supposed to automatically consider their boundaries?!

and when the next time he does it, then again its a public affair, until he again comes back and picks her up and declares her his?!

how come everyone else should fall in line when there are no lines for RK? there's no sense of decorum , no sense of honor even of his wife?

For that matter, I would love to know what the word means to him , cause if Biwi still means what i think it means , RK lost the right to call Madhu his Biwi the day he so meticulously 'unwed' her.

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ninand

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Posted: 12 years ago

#63

Originally posted by: shweta2728

Emergency?? Was RK dangling Madhu off a bridge?? History is important! Please read my post above and think about it. Would you appreciate it if somebody who you do not well interfered in your life and personal matters? If Madhu's mother or father came to the rescue it would have been acceptable.

Kidnapping/abduction is not emergency?! did you not see the worry on the faces of her mother and sister? acute emotional distress caused while the fate of their loved one is uncertain and unknown is an emergency dear.

He cannot wait for Madhu to call 'bloody murder' before he should consider going there! For him , knowing that she may have been forced is enough!

Are you telling me he should have waited , and mulled over boundaries while she may be distressed.. remember this is Sultan , who has been saved by Madhu thrice, and he owes her his son.. She stood up for him and his son against everybody, even her mother!

He will not stop to consider 'limits' if he thinks she needs help. and whats more he has the confirmation form her mother that RK is not good news! don't you remember, he backed off in the holi sequence , when RK forced Madhu but she did not say anything..?

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swapna555

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Posted: 12 years ago

#64

Originally posted by: Gurtiluv
Yup so RK kidnaps Madhu and takes her home forcefully in front of everyone he forces into entering his house. He takes her phone away so she cant privately contact anyone not the police or her sister in private. He emotionally blackmails her so she can stay with him against her will. He chains her to the bed and than to himself like she is an animal. He calls her and treats her like she is his private property. Radhaji considers Madhu her child besides one attempt to help her exit the house she never bothers to explain to her son that what he is doing is grossly wrong. Bittuji considers Madhu his sister that is why he lets Madhu be treated like an object in front of his eyes. Half the time both of them stand there looking constipated. Why should Sultan help Madhu when she has been kidnapped? Why should he help the person who saved his life? How irritating of him? When someone gets kidnapped just sit back and watch them be mistreated like Bittuji and Radhaji the true hereos of the show.

Exactly !! :-) I have been in this forum long enough not to be shocked to see people's comments and reactions to these events but I still end up being stunned, shocked at some of their comments.

U would think that since they themselves r girls that they would understand and sympathize with another girl's plight and be glad if some one tries to help instead they themselves r the first ones to throw stones at both the girl and the helpers and go all hail the abuser for putting up a puppy face just after shackling her to furniture.

RK makes me feel sick and so do Radhiji and Bittuji. 🤢 Radhaji calling her daughter and Bittuji calling her sister r a dabba to a mother and a brother.😡 And in spite of everything, I am still happy that there is at least some one who has no relation whatsoever to her, tried to help Madhu for the sake of humanity ( as AR said in his interview ) instead of standing by silently.

Although I do wish Madhu could have upped and helped herself instead of being a malleable doll.:-(

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alina.b

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Posted: 12 years ago

#65

@ninand I would like to point out to you that the topic is about sultan coming to "rescue" Madhu. I don't mind you butting in...everybody is entitled to their own opinions. Sultan doesn't even know what happened between the two. And obviously "psycho" RK is not going to kill Madhu because then Madhu could have easily escaped. I am saying this for the for the third time. PADMINI SHOULD HAVE COME TO THE RK MANSION.

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alovi_21

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Posted: 12 years ago

#66

he is interfering as he came to know about Madhu she is being forced , and Madhu is already made gt place in their life after her helping them out of the way, she even not think about herself , for such girl why he should not go when he knows she can be in trouble n he himself saw forced dance in holi MAdh uclearly told him that I moved of on jis insaan se main nafrat karti shakal bhi nahi dekhan chahit hu aaj mujhe tumhari wajah se kya kuchh sunna pada have you remeber these word which Madhu clearly said him ki mera usse koi lena dena nahi hai abe, so after listing all this still he should not go to help her n found that she can be in problem he has listen rakshas word from Padmini mouth. who was Madhu to mukku when she help him who was madhu when she went to safe sultaan all because of humanity same if same Sultaan is doing to logon ko kya problem hai, gun is there ok he has control the ppl with that way only so same he is doing but can be wrong from our side but for him it is not wrong,

Madhu is modern n strong girl but still she is unable to go from RK mansion with her wish due to RK Behavior like blackmailing n forced behavior as she is women so weak physically tabhi to RKne use baandh diya tha n RK is making her weak mentally too. if his presence create problem than how can you trust RK. n the relationship which can break due to somebody presence. ese time per hi apka love n trust test hota hai that's what I want to see. kisi bhi relationship main sirf love kafi nahi hota to the relationship continue only when trust is there MAdhu love her but she can't trust RK the same way that is big truth

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alina.b

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Posted: 12 years ago

#67

Originally posted by: ninand

Kidnapping/abduction is not emergency?! did you not see the worry on the faces of her mother and sister? acute emotional distress caused while the fate of their loved one is uncertain and unknown is an emergency dear.

He cannot wait for Madhu to call 'bloody murder' before he should consider going there! For him , knowing that she may have been forced is enough!
Are you telling me he should have waited , and mulled over boundaries while she may be distressed.. remember this is Sultan , who has been saved by Madhu thrice, and he owes her his son.. She stood up for him and his son against everybody, even her mother!

He will not stop to consider 'limits' if he thinks she needs help. and whats more he has the confirmation form her mother that RK is not good news! don't you remember, he backed off in the holi sequence , when RK forced Madhu but she did not say anything..?

If they were so worried...why didn't they come to the RK mansion? Where is Malik? Why didn't Madhu run away?

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ninand

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Posted: 12 years ago

#68

Originally posted by: shweta2728
@ninand I would like to point out to you that the topic is about sultan coming to "rescue" Madhu. I don't mind you butting in...everybody is entitled to their own opinions. Sultan doesn't even know what happened between the two. And obviously "psycho" RK is not going to kill Madhu because then Madhu could have easily escaped. I am saying this for the for the third time. PADMINI SHOULD HAVE COME TO THE RK MANSION.

arey but she doesnt even know what transpired! Padmini and Trishna were still trying to figure out what was true and what was not. trishna turned to ask Sultan , and confirm what Madhu said but he had left already.

As for Sultan, the point is- why will He wait for the 'entire ' history? its not about killing man! murder or rape aren't the ultimate crimes! there is more to 'torture' abuse and oppression than just those two, or just the physical torment!

doesn't psychological torment or emotional upheavel count these days or what?!

Once again, just cause she is not about to die does nor mean its not an emergency. and just cause he does not know the entire history does not mean he cant or should not help.

Madhu didn't wait to hear his entire life history before helping Aaryan or him.

The chawl people didnt ask for Padmini's bio before they gave her shelter.

Sultan knows she's abducted, and the first thought is to see if she requires help in escaping RK's clutches. Simple. he runs to see her.

what's so wrong about that?

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honestyfirst

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Posted: 12 years ago

#69

Sultan got a misunderstanding that rk is totally a bad person ...
He dont know history of rk n madhu ...he dont know that rk loves madhu n madhu loves rk ...

Madhu saves his n his son life ...he promised padmini that he will help them anytime if they need ...

Rk said aryaan that he will brake his legs n all ...
Sultan broke rk car glass ...
Madhu confirmed to sultan that she is not his wife now ...

Wen madhu took aryaan at sets ...
There sultan saw how everyone points out finger on her ...
If she is rk wife then y all pointed finger on her ...

Sultan saw how forcely rk danced with madhu ...but sultan did not saw madhu too danced ...

He went chal for his son ...

He came to know about rk forcing madhu ...

Soo he went to rescue her ...

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ninand

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Posted: 12 years ago

#70

@shweta2728- I answered the questions in the prev post except this one- why didnt Madhu run away?

Did you see that knife drama rk pulled? do you think its sometihgn very normal or ordinary? Any sane regular person would be shaken by such a display. As rk himself knew and says to madhu ' i know you re too delicate'.. he says that, .. he knows how that could shock someone, and to further drive his point home he proceeds to harm himself.

Now who wouldn't be intimidated by such a grotesque scene? Of course she was successfully blackmailed that he would harm himself if she left.

actually even later she was leaving , but then she saw that radhaji too had no control over him.. he so callously went on with his threat even when his mother was pleading. can you imagine the psychological torture? If the man could previously endanger his own life to save her just so he could fulfill his revenge, why wouldn't he hurt himself to keep her from going?

that is why she has not left.

Edited by ninand - 12 years ago