Originally posted by: CHAKKU_DAAYAN
@TM- What is so ABUSIVE in what RK does? Does Madhu take any kind of physical crap from him? Did you not see how she was jumping in his arms? That is called FIGHT and not abuse. By calling RK abusive, you are indirectly calling Madhu weak, which she isn't. And rather Madhu has been physically abusive with him most of the time lol. And same is the case with emotional abuse. If Madhu can move on just the next day after her break up, then sorry but she isn't even emotionally weak also.
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WHAT IS THE ABUSE IN WHAT RK DOES??? I AM GLADDD YOU ASKED THIS QUESTION. So many here don't know what abuse it. Abuse isn't just physical it is emotional and pychological too. Here you go honey...read this and remember it. It might be one of the most important things you will learn, seeing as you like bad boys.Abuse Definitions
The widely used Conflict Tactics Scale measures roughly twenty distinct acts of "psychological aggression" ie abuse in three different categories:
- Verbal aggression (e.g., saying something that upsets, hurts, humiliates or annoys someone else);
- Dominant behaviors (e.g., preventing someone from leaving if they wish, or to have contact with their family or friends);
- Jealous behaviors (e.g. thinking that the other person belong to them and/or accusing a partner of maintaining other parallel relations).
The U.S. Department of Justice defines emotionally abusive traits as including causing fear by: intimidation, threatening physical harm to self, partner, children, or partner's family or friends, destruction of pets and property, forcing isolation from family, friends, or school or work.[5]
In 1996, Health Canada argued that emotional abuse is motivated by urges including but not limited to: "power and discontrol",[3] and defines emotional abuse as including rejecting, degrading, terrorizing, isolating, corrupting/exploiting and "denying emotional responsiveness" as characteristic of emotional abuse.
Several studies have argued that an isolated incident of either verbal aggression, dominant conduct or jealous behaviors does not constitute the term "psychological abuse." Rather, a pattern of such behaviors is a more appropriate scenario to be considered, unlike physical and sexual maltreatment where only one incident is necessary to label it as abuse.[6] Tomison and Tucci write, "emotional abuse is characterised by a climate or pattern of behavior(s) occurring over time [...] Thus, 'sustained' and 'repetitive' are the crucial components of any definition of emotional abuse."[7] Andrew Vachss, an author, attorney and former sex crimes investigator, defines emotional abuse as "the systematic diminishment of another. It may be intentional or subconscious (or both), but it is always a course of conduct, not a single event."