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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: CHAKKU_DAAYAN

@TM- What is so ABUSIVE in what RK does? Does Madhu take any kind of physical crap from him? Did you not see how she was jumping in his arms? That is called FIGHT and not abuse. By calling RK abusive, you are indirectly calling Madhu weak, which she isn't. And rather Madhu has been physically abusive with him most of the time lol. And same is the case with emotional abuse. If Madhu can move on just the next day after her break up, then sorry but she isn't even emotionally weak also.

Exactly what i have been saying there is a constant battle of power relations between the two where both of them try to shove what they think is right down their throats and dominate..madhu used to do it by morals and rk does it by just domination without using any tool. It was form the very beginning. Remember what Paddo said after Rishbaala first meet to Madhu? That she will not support her now cause she is not fighting for the rights of a stranger anymore! She is having another battle in showing a man's pride , ego and fake world it's place altogether. She is making it personal and not a fight against injustice anymore. Padmini was bang on right about her daughter. Both of them always tried to cower over each other and dominate each other through what both of them individually believe. And thus begun the power relations between them ever since. The edt discussion thread has always mentioned this. Moreover , what Rishbala have is called MVC-Mutual Violence Control in the category of Johnson's violence forms.It is said to be the most rare kind of domestic vilence where BOTH partners use violence- physical and emotional as a mean in showing each who is in greater authority as a person over each other. Madhu uses emotional abuse as well because covert abuse- like ignorace and avoidance is also said to be a big part of emotional abuse. I am just stating a fact, and NOT an opinion. So abuse is from both sides.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: Oh_No_Soaps



Some are support RK coz its Vivian essaying that role. Some like you, watch because of the character. In this case RK. Fine, there is nothing wrong with either way round.

What is wrong is not naming abuse as abuse. Not recognizing abuse. Watching abuse EVERYDAY and getting a buzz from it AND thinking its NOT affecting you in real life!

Oh and my post is spewing all the reasons rishbala fans have given to show this jodi finishing together. The sarcasm is extra. I was in a generous mood. Glad you liked it! 😉


My venom is in reserve

Thats not true. I hate the mere allegation on girls here that they squee over rk because of vivians good looks. why the heck brand a particular sea of females to be nothing but hormonally high teens without brains? i have been hearing this allegation on girls almost ever since the show started and i am sick of it. If one talks about respecting women so much then why not respect real girls and real women and not judge their preferences over fictional things? I am not arguing , I am just questioning something thats been bothering me , so please don't mind.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: Zinnia.TaaRey

Agreed, TM. Agreed :)
I think I'm beginning to find this show disturbing 😆 I will reiterate points made by me in previous threads - RK does not use violence. It is not physical abuse.But abuse does not involve force alone. What he does is abuse on a mental and emotional level. The guy has issues! I don't find his actions even the slightest bit romantic.

Some say they are fed up of people complaining and analysing RK. I say I'm fed up of members that tell you to shut up. Er, no thank you. If we can shower love and adulation over a show and its characters, we can most certainly object and voice displeasure over certain aspects to the show aswell.


This. Every time we say something, we are negative or delusional or spoilsports. What about the fact that their posts make me wanna throw up on my screen?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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1St u differentiate between real nd reel.we r watching a fictional show.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: devilish-grin

1St u differentiate between real nd reel.we r watching a fictional show.


We know we are watching a fictional show. If fiction didn't affect life, so many people wouldn't ahve wanted people like Salman Rushdie dead. The fact is that fiction, and mass media in general has far more power to affect societal attitudes than moral science book. That is why, we are worried about the kind of message this show is giving out- that it is okay for a guy to mistreat a woman, nver apologize and force her to come back to him.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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dis creation is jst awesome...she looks gorgeous even while crying...i know i am off topic but i love dis rishbala track ...its jst a fictional show which provides entertainment...i loved rk when he was making madhu cry because der i could see high dramatic awesome action by drashti...madhu ruled dat scene...n now i like dis track not becoz i am psycho its becoz i find it entertaining...moreover i could see my madhu in designer clothes...🤣
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Your tongue in cheek answer was too good.

There is a saying that "If you bang your head on a brick wall, The brick wall will stay intact but you will come away with a bloody head"

If people cannot see R.K. as an emotional and verbal abuser there is nothing anybody can say that will change their minds.

People see only what they want to see.

You keep making good posts.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Oh_No_Soaps - Can you start discussion without targeting/being sarcastic toward any specific fan base? Just like how you are enlighten to have your opinion, others are allowed to have theirs hence no need to pinpoint or take dig on them:)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aahaana

Oh_No_Soaps - Can you start discussion without targeting/being sarcastic toward any specific fan base? Just like how you are enlighten to have your opinion, others are allowed to have theirs hence no need to pinpoint or take dig on them:)

exactly and calling a sea of girls to be high on hormones without brains only cause they like rk as a character.heights.

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