RK-Systematically Victimizing Madhu While... - Page 6

TM,

Originally posted by: _innocent_

This is a fantastic post.

That's the thing, people think because its fiction ie the online fans, its ok to see the guy constantly humiliating the woman and using her as his punching bag. But what they fail to realise is illiterate people who watch this show takes this kind of message on board which is why scenes such as the court scene where MB spoke about women's rights are used in these so called fictional show. But alas according to some 13 year olds and of course not to forgot those in their thirties in this forum find it hot and whoever utter a word against the hero ~(in my book villain) is bashed or even better the fanatics start wishing for your death and claim to be saints the next day!! Just like the character of RK has been turn into a joker, so has the antics of his fanatics, who believe like them RK should be worshiped! It doesn't matter that he is yet to understand the consequences of his action. Just because his daddy committed suicide, the guy believes he has a licence to go around ruining other people's zindagi! He is an embarrassment to those who have suffered even worse childhood.

I find MB melting to his touch disgusting! Despite being her fan! I cannot digest her constant allowance of being humiliated. The rate of women who go back to their abusive partners and end up in morgues is shocking. BUT THEY SAY THEY LOVED THEM (always makes me wanna puke )And of course RK is yet to hit her (though he did come close to it when he readily wanted to smash a bottle on her head), the word abused is not restrained just to physicality, it includes emotional abuse, and quite frankly that is exactly what MB has been enduring. Humiliation over humiliation and not just on herself, but the guy even ensured he expanded his revenge mantra to her family, resulting in her foster dad nearly dying. But even then she forgave him dil se, aur what did he do? BACKSTABBED HER! And now to even expect her to go back to him should be like ERRMM NAH!!!.. Especially when according to RK, he is the one who has been hurt oups betrayed! Now using the girl to ensure his bruised ego is kept intact!

I am yet to understand whats so hot in a guy who humiliates a woman, but am sure the day I wear those specs I shall know.If rumours about cutting his wrist is true! Then if a character like MB cant tell him to screw himself and cut whatever or wherever he wants then that's disappointing. She sure as hell aint Ballu's daughter😆 If cvs want Rishbala as one they better start showing the guy repenting his deeds and giving the girl space to mkae up her own mind! Warna they can start waving tata-bye-bye to this show, as repetitive RK wont be carrying this show to the 1000 mark they want to go too.

But seriously, amazing post! Disgusting social message being sent by CVs! I hope the ratings are even lower.

Don't care who got offended!😃

Originally posted by: Siri22

TM,

Excellent post. The first time around when RK married Madhu and brought her to RK mansion no one complained too much as everyone thought RK had a past and he wold change with madhu's love as cliched as the story line was.

BUT since the cv's are hellbent on glorifying psycho RK's antics saying he's layered character which no one would understand, the Right Kameena,he would never change,his redemption is different and what not why don't they write showing Madhu to be a strong girl who rejects RK and moves on instead of showing her a weakling who melts at a man's touch.. Now that would be really path breaking on TV. But of course what about the endless eye locks and the so called sizzling chemistry?

Half of this forum are women and I'm appalled to see/read posts that are celebrating that Madhu is finally going back to her abuser.

Immature much?

@mozart66 - I for one would really like for Madhu to give the psycho another slap if he dared touch her instead of melting in his arms. How could she even let him near is beyond my understanding.

@ TM nice post. I agree on most of your points. And you are right if we truly look around we will find many RK s around us. In fact I can honestly say that I know a couple myself. But speaking as a viewer its precisely because its fiction and fantasy why most of us love it. I love RK as a character but in real life would I want a man like that -NO is the answer. In real life I think most of us have enough common sense to realise that a bad seed remains a bad seed- they never change. But the desire to see such a man being converted to goodness, and reforming himself is something that most of us would love to see. And we are well aware that it will happen only in fiction. As human beings we see so much of unhappiness and misery around us, for some in their marriages or relationships that we would like to see something good happening even after strife - as in a show.

Originally posted by: Oh_No_Soaps

Im afraid I disagree with you. This is EXACTLY what is dangerous and should not be done. I think most of the young naive girls who are rooting for the RK/Madhu jodi or think that awww...RK is so sexy so hot, ohhh how much he loves Madhu just look at the way he looks at her, look how possesive he is etc etc, all ALL agree that he has treated her badly.

The SCARY thing I find is that you all think that after a"redemption track" where he says sorry and feels remorse, and suffers a bit, its all ok for the CVs to write off Madhu and RK as ending happily. THAT IS WRONG. THAT IS THE WRONG MESSAGE and grooming girls for emotional abuse and control. Men (and some women) who show even 50% of the characteristics shown by RK SHOW NO REDEMPTION. IF THEY DO its an ACT. THEY NEVER NEVER CHANGE!

I want CVs not to show that LIE. The lie that they change because it influences young and impressionable people.

I will sound like a complete hypocrite when I say this but in my defence all I can say is I am mighty confused about RK.
One thing I guaranteed dislike is Madhu giving into RK's touch every time.
The catching hand - pulling back game they play every time is annoying.
For heavens sake Madhu can raise her voice enough to ask him to let go ( even then I doubt he would)
For long I have wanted Madhu to have a track free of any men.
Why be RK's or Sultan's?
Can't she lead a life of her own?
The woman is young and still has a lot of life to face.
RK's redemption I wish to see for I am a staunch believer of second chances and forgiving ( when God can forgive our sins on daily basis, why can't we humans forgive)
Madhu has choice to forgive RK in future if she wishes to , that will help her in moving forward truly.
On whether she should trust RK and go back to him , personally put in her place I wouldn't.
RK has protected her, saved her life etc.
But he did also play big time with her emotions.
And yes , his past maybe a reason for his actions.
But that's no justification for hurting others now.
Madhu should go a different way in my opinion.
Lead a life free of any man for a while.
As for being influenced.
I think partly you maybe right but it also depend on the viewers dear.
Reel and real are never exactly same.

Originally posted by: Oh_No_Soaps

...asli mei koi ladka aisa kare kisi k saath...

LOTS of ladkas/men are like this! In the serial its just shown in a more grander and exaggerated scale, that is all.

Consider the characteristics shown by RK:
The lying
The controlling
The manipulating
Lack of conscious
Lack of moral or ethics
Lack of empathy or feelings for others
Domineering
Intelligent
Egotistical
Funny
Has one or more Bittuji (I mean a sidekick/chamcha) who is good at heart but completely dominated.
Charming
No respect for girls
Hypocrite
Thinking they are better than everyone else
Looking down on others
No good relationship with anyone and its always the other persons fault. They wronged him inc family.
They have some "sad" story from past or difficult thing they have gone through
No respect for rules
Thinking of themselves as great and grand
No respect or regard for social norms
Do what I want when I want coz thats teh way I am and ...its not my fault...mai aisa hi hunn


Think carefully and you will know of at LEAST 1-2 boys/men who show a lot of these characteristics or have heard about them from family or friends!! We ALL know someone, its just that we don't add it all up! Coz they are funny and good company when they are good company. Add sexy and/or attractive to it and what happens??

Awesome post.

Originally posted by: FeistySoul

I will sound like a complete hypocrite when I say this but in my defence all I can say is I am mighty confused about RK.
One thing I guaranteed dislike is Madhu giving into RK's touch every time.
The catching hand - pulling back game they play every time is annoying.
For heavens sake Madhu can raise her voice enough to ask him to let go ( even then I doubt he would)
For long I have wanted Madhu to have a track free of any men.
Why be RK's or Sultan's?
Can't she lead a life of her own?
The woman is young and still has a lot of life to face.
RK's redemption I wish to see for I am a staunch believer of second chances and forgiving ( when God can forgive our sins on daily basis, why can't we humans forgive)
Madhu has choice to forgive RK in future if she wishes to , that will help her in moving forward truly.
On whether she should trust RK and go back to him , personally put in her place I wouldn't.
RK has protected her, saved her life etc.
But he did also play big time with her emotions.
And yes , his past maybe a reason for his actions.
But that's no justification for hurting others now.
Madhu should go a different way in my opinion.
Lead a life free of any man for a while.
As for being influenced.
I think partly you maybe right but it also depend on the viewers dear.
Reel and real are never exactly same.