Episode 220 Discussion: 15th March 2013 - Page 5

Originally posted by: Angeena

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Very well said.

Originally posted by: dramacrazy12

From where I stand while everything Radha said was correct and justified but it was an over-reaction given the circumstances. However I feel for her since she is frustated with her obstinate son and today her anger and frustation runneth over. Why did she have to ask forgiveness from Madhu? How exactly is RK inhumane in today's context? Yes...madhu did save RK's life but RK returned the favor in full in Ballu incident...why does everyone seem to forget that? Why did RK not ask Radha to question Madhu and see if anything he said was untrue about her spending nights outside and lying to everyone? What gave Madhu right to act superior and righteous when she was in wrong? Did I feel wrong when it seemed that Madhu was initially saddened but then gloated at RK's plight?

Today I felt an odd sense of disgust for Madhu ...something I have always felt for RK. I have always felt that RK should face the consequences of his actions and learn to value Madhu. Strangely today I felt the same for Madhu...I wanted RK to walk away from her and leave her with her own stupidity so that she can suffer the consequences of getting entangled with a gangster and understand what RK was trying to tell her in his own crude way.

Originally posted by: amrithas

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I was thinking this since I saw yesterday's precap! I saw everyone was riled and kept re watching it ! I could only see was him speaking the truth, that she was spending nights away from home and for all he knows with some man! What he implied was wrong, knowing Madhu so well but what;s to say he even implied it?He might just be gauging her reaction! Radhaji like i mentioned yesterday reacted a lot later than she should have, and definitely overreacted in the circumstance! Does she even know the whole truth or atleast as much RK knows, before giving him lessons on Dignity! Yeah, RK is right and Madhu should be careful if she wants to act all self-righteous in front of everyone!

Another point is even I would love to see what Madhu will end up doing, if in fact starts ignoring her altogether! No insults, no taunts, no care and concern and no tantrums! I think slowly she would be doing the attention garnering attempts he's doing now! Hope that day comes too!

Originally posted by: dramacrazy12

@Bold: I sure hope so...infact I want him to walk away from her and leave her to her own devices .

Originally posted by: dramacrazy12

So what has me so confused- I am trying to understand why everyone was pointing fingers ar RK and how did he stoop low? In fact for the first time I felt RK was right on every count and Madhu was wrong today.

So far RK and Madhu have kept thier disagreement and fights between them - He only dragged Paddy in Sultan issue when he felt helpless and frustated with Madhu's pigheadedness. Today Madhu broke the rule when she dragged Radha into the picture.

From where I stand while everything Radha said was correct and justified but it was an over-reaction given the circumstances. However I feel for her since she is frustated with her obstinate son and today her anger and frustation runneth over. Why did she have to ask forgiveness from Madhu? How exactly is RK inhumane in today's context? Yes...madhu did save RK's life but RK returned the favor in full in Ballu incident...why does everyone seem to forget that? Why did RK not ask Radha to question Madhu and see if anything he said was untrue about her spending nights outside and lying to everyone? What gave Madhu right to act superior and righteous when she was in wrong? Did I feel wrong when it seemed that Madhu was initially saddened but then gloated at RK's plight?

Today I felt an odd sense of disgust for Madhu ...something I have always felt for RK. I have always felt that RK should face the consequences of his actions and learn to value Madhu. Strangely today I felt the same for Madhu...I wanted RK to walk away from her and leave her with her own stupidity so that she can suffer the consequences of getting entangled with a gangster and understand what RK was trying to tell her in his own crude way.

Originally posted by: dramacrazy12

@Bold: I sure hope so...infact I want him to walk away from her and leave her to her own devices .

Originally posted by: anastasia21

This is what my understanding is about the situation, and it may be so that I'm absolutely inaccurate. Feel free to correct me.

Madhu's world doesn't center around RK anymore. Superficially atleast. Deep down she may love him (or not), but she is not answerable for her actions to RK of all people. If I separate myself from the hope and expectation I have for Rishbala and look at this clinically (for the record, I hopelessly root for Rishbala and am an RK lover), I find Madhu's actions for the last few days atrocious and horrifying, and yet, she can try to drive off a cliff and not utter a single word of explanation to RK. She owes an explanation to Padmini, Malik, heck maybe Trishna even. But why RK? RK took her life in his hand and squashed it himself without even a flinch. Now whatever concern he has for her, confused or genuine, his word will always come across as hollow to her. To her, but not necessarily to us.

And as for RK, as much as I felt bad for him today, he has lost his credibility. He's situation is like 'the boy who cried wolf'. His intentions, may be in the long run would have benefited Madhu, but how is he going to make everyone believe him now. Because for the last 6 months, he had not only deceived Madhu, but also every single person in that house. And add to that, he was not even earnest. He was spiteful and tactless in his approach. His curiosity and malice is not exactly stemming from the future danger that is closing in on Madhu, but from the fact that Madhu has found a reason to smile again and he might be slowly fading away from her world.

Originally posted by: dramacrazy12

@Red: He did seem to imply it but then he saw her getting down from a car with a green eyed man. He saw her in arms of another man. From what he knows and has seen- his accusation is justified. As for knowing Madhu, this is not the Madhu he knew. His wife was a straight shooter , dignified and madly in love with him...This Madhu is evasive, lies and seems to able to move on from her supposed one true love without any hardship.

@Bold: I sure hope so...infact I want him to walk away from her and leave her to her own devices .