Episode 220 Discussion: 15th March 2013 - Page 4

Originally posted by: anastasia21

Radha slaps RK and says some things that for the longest of time, I have wanted her to realize, not necessarily voice it. A mother loves her kid beyond all means and reasons but there's thin line across which love becomes blind. She didn't nurture his cruel side, but she didn't stop it from spreading like a weed either. She simply conditioned herself to live with them in the hope of reconciling with his son one day. The other day, we're talking about tough parenting in this EDT. If pure love and patronage were what Rishabh needed in his young age, then tough love was what was necessary for him when he became what he became. Instead he just slipped out of his mother's hand right in front of her eyes. And she is to blame to some or more extent.

I am really disappointed in Padhaji today. I really loved the slap, well deserved RK. But why is Padhaji so dumb?Is it so hard for her to understand that RK is like this because of her constant ignorance towards him? Even now she is leaving him? Can't she for once instead of crying like a helpless woman or taunting like others, go to her son and TALK to him? Has she ever cared to make an effort? Even their reconcillation was initiated by RK. The more she ignores him, darker and wilder he'll become.

For the first time in a long time, I actually felt sorry for RK today. Indeed, VD and DD's acting, along with the actress playing Radha almost bought tears to my eyes.
The whole 10 minute monologue for me was all about RK gauging Madhu's reactions. He knows she is not a good actress and wanted to see how she would react to his words, especially the taunts about the new person in her life. And lets be honest, in his mind, what else would she be at his house for? In a way its sad that the RK was old has been reduced to breaking things in order to retain Madhu's attention. But at the same time, it makes sense too- in his mind Madhu does not rise to his taunts about their past anymore (what 2 weeks after the revenge drama in MBverse? Fast recovery time, especially in RK's eyes), so he has to become physical in order for her to react. So the taunts about the phone. Like Shri said, I loved how he went back to the old definitions of their fights- it is between him and her. A welcome respite from when he included the rest of the world, including Dipali, to make her suffer. And the funny thing is? I got the sense that he welcomed that- that the fight was about the two of them. RK has moved on in a sense. Its no longer about humiliating Madhubala. Its about getting her back into his orbit, getting her to focus on him again. And to do that, he's blocking the rest of the world, like he did before.
The she talked about the detectives, then she talked about how there is nothing between them except poison. And RK lashed out. In his mind, how could Madhu say there was nothing between them, when not ever 3 weeks (?) ago, she was ready to leave her entire world behind for him? Can you imagine, for someone like RK, who already had abandonment issues, what that statement would have felt like? Before, he had seen her with a man. But now, he had seen Madhu laugh and smile again- something he was had said with confidence would never happen, because, he, RK, had shattered her. So of course, he lashed out. And he aimed at the one thing Madhu thought she had left- her self-respect. It's a big flashy neon sign, and RK will always go for that area because it is one that Madhu always reacts to.
But Radha was there today. And she told a few home truths. VD's expressions were amazing in this scene-pain, but hiding it. And you could tell Madhu hurt for him. But Madhu is like RK- we can talk about how she poked the wound-of course she did? Why wouldn't she? RK played with her life and broke her, and she has not put herself back together. And whoever she will be afterwards, she will never be the Madhu of before. Its only natural that she wanted to cause him pain. I don't think she really meant a single word. She might feel disgusted with herself, but for being fooled by RK, not for loving him. If she had hated herself for loving him, then she would stop herself from putting RK before her families safety, which she has done by lying to them about her encounter with Sultan and why she did not go to the police.
I do wish though, that the CV's would move on and start the realization track- even the bare inklings of RK realizing that Madhu means something to him. Forget the emotional drain of watching a couple you have invested in for more than 5 months go down the drain, forget the fear that gangsters are taking over the show, watching RK keep hitting the bottle gets tedious very very quickly.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Shri, I had a question in mind..Is RK really jealous ? is it love or his ego who cannot accept that therez another man in Madhu's life? bec. in his dreams, he tried to tell us that he cannot lose Madhu to anyone else as she's his biwi...but what Puja said confused me n I felt she's right..he has a problem accepting that she has moved on while he's burning in hell ! and like u said, her resilience is not allowing him to revel in happiness of completion of revenge...i want to ask Bittuji's question here..what is there b/w the 2 of them and why wud they want to get back to each other now? bec. with passing time, their relationship is hitting a new low..and when Madhu said that she's disgusted that she ever fell in love with him, wherez the hope that she can love him again😭 until n unless he changes completely...turns into another Mukund 🤣

sorry for the long rant

it was a good episode I had written to Raghuvir Shekawat about the discrepancies with what RK had told Radhaji earlier that he could never do anything that would offend his father. Once he said that I thought the revenge track was over since no one would say something involving there dead parent and lie about it. But than he did the whole unwedding drama and I wrote to Raghuvir ji about my confusion. Would Mohan Kundra approve of this? Doesnt RK know that? I think in today's episode they tried to show that he got so involved in his passion for revenge, love jealously that he sometimes forgets who he is and what he wants to become. This is no justification but I thank the cvs for providing a explanation.

I've not read any other reviews, wanted to give my "untainted" opinion 😊

Don't know why u guys r feeling so bad for RK in my opinion he deserve all this hatread he need to realise what he is saying he can't always hurt person with his shameless words whatever might be the reason he don't have any right to decide abt Madhu's character there is always limit of everything. I purely loath his statement to come think of it he and his ego will never satisfied and it will burn with loneliness till eternity because he had habit of throwing out most precious persons from his life who truely cares for him this is called self destruction. Iam not seeing any self realisation or reedemption here

shri iam disagree abt Madhu need to realise abt her public image means its not going to be breaking news on front page (which happen last time ) that she was away from her family for two nights people who need answers they got it and for rest of the people i will say go to hell because anyway people don't look at divorced girls with sane mind, she needs to lead her life with dignity which she is doing. And what public image we r talking abt her so called affair, marriage and unwed everything was tamasha what more damage can happen now.

P. S. Sorry if i offended anyone here but somehow i relate to Madhu more.

Another superb episode from drama perspective ...however I for one was left confused trying to understand what was going on...

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