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Posted: 12 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: AreYaar



LOL if we go by the "if I was treated in this manner" argument then umm no normal girl would fall for RK to begin with...the man did a 4 phere shaadi with Madhu and Madhu took that as a license to fall in love with him, PRAY for him, give him her own blood...if anything is preposterous, it is THAT to begin with...a man who only gave her humiliation non-stop and treated her like dirt, that is the man she chose to be so sympathetic to...so she shouldn't have fallen for him to begin with.

So since Madhu already did that, why is it so unbelievable that Rishbala still work as a pair? Cuz the fact of the matter is, they are a twisted, angsty love story...RK is a very very twisted soul who loves Madhu in his own twisted way...the "unwed" drama and all thereafter has just added a darker tone to his obsession with her...this was never a roses and violins story...so those who were expecting that are maybe not able to appreciate this anymore...and Madhu is a strangely kindered spirit who GETS him...that is why they are bound together...new characters come and go but this strange dark bond b/w them draws them to each other regardless.

They hate and love each other with equal all consuming intensity...and that is why they are endgame.


I have no questions about the Rishabala love story...its a very unique one! No girl can fall in love with their tormenter and vice versa. And that is why people love them. No questions asked!

But my trouble is, what is the redemption to breaking somebody's heart so ruthlessly? One can clear misunderstandings but cannot mend a broken heart, because It will always leave its mark behind. How can one get back the trust of the person that you have shattered? Its impossible! And when they get back together will it still be the same?
For me, the answer is no. And there is where my whole problem lies...
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Posted: 12 years ago
#52
I am sorry I am very busy at the moment, but will definitely take my time and answer to all your replies.
Loved some of your arguments, thank you for commenting!
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Posted: 12 years ago
#53
I would not have forgiven someone who did that... but I guess that's why nobody writes a story about my life 😆
Perhaps their love will be their redemption, inspite of one person not - currently - deserving it!! And maybe love is about changing one person for the better (and yet men will not stop smoking for the love of their women 😃)

But yes... I want to see RK crawl. No man should get away with such behavior.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: ornellamg


I have no questions about the Rishabala love story...its a very unique one! No girl can fall in love with their tormenter and vice versa. And that is why people love them. No questions asked!

But my trouble is, what is the redemption to breaking somebody's heart so ruthlessly? One can clear misunderstandings but cannot mend a broken heart, because It will always leave its mark behind. How can one get back the trust of the person that you have shattered? Its impossible! And when they get back together will it still be the same?
For me, the answer is no. And there is where my whole problem lies...



But you've answered your own question...if an unlikely story of a girl falling for a tormentor of that sort is possible, then a broken heart can be mended too.

There is a dialogue from one my all time fav. shows...Laagi Tujhse Lagan..."Glass aur dil ek jaise thode na hote hain ki ek baar toota toh phir kabhi nahin banega?"...For reference, I'll post this amazing VM as well

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KODwXQyi_Sg[/YOUTUBE]

Yes, Madhu's heart was shattered in an utterly brutal manner by RK...and yes her trust is shattered...she herself asks him again how can she ever trust him? And THAT is the price that RK will pay...he's ALREADY paying it cuz Madhu is holding up a mirror for him when he tries to exercise HAQ on her.

The whole TWIST in all this is that RK DID fall in love with her in reality even if he thought he was faking it...and that is the KEY to the whole problem...when he realizes THAT, that will change the whole game and he will set about winning her back...yes it's a challenge cuz he went to such lengths to convince her the first time around and forgot when he was acting and when he wasn't...he's become the boy who cried wolf...so he will pay the price...but redemption is not IMPOSSIBLE...the suffering has to be drawn out to make it worthwhile...but I do believe redemption is very much possible cuz all is not lost in the darkness of RK's soul...Madhu has proven that she's brought that light into him...
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Posted: 12 years ago
#55

Originally posted by: lovebird-pahal

"Agar main Madhu ki jagah hoti toh kya karti?"...Tht's d bst part of ur post...so, my answer is, main RK ko accept kar leti..coz, RK ko uski sirf ek din ki harkat k liye nhi chhodti..wo banda jo meri mom ki life mein life partner de kar jaye, mere liye apni jaan daav par laga de dussmani mein hi sahi mere dad ka ilaaz karaye..use main ek mauka toh zarur doongi, agar woh apni galti except kare aur redem kare toh defintly..woh b tb jb main (yani ki Madhu) yeh achhi tarah se janti hu ki RK mujhi se pyar karta h...nd Deepz aur RK mein bahut fark h, RK charecterless nhi..use sirf Igo problem h joh main mitane ki koshish karungi joh ki show mei ho rahi h...nd waise b viewes jb pehle RK nein Madhu ko itna humiliate kiya fir b dono ka pyar except kiya Trishna jo sabko itni buri lagti thi ab bhli lagne lagi..toh RK toh show ka hero h, humein CV's par bharosa rakhna chahiye..unhone revenge track soch samajh kar hi plan kiya hoga..unhe pata h ab fir se RK ko hero kaise banana h.

ek din ka nafrat?? wait it was not ek din ka nafrat .. n all he has done was to make Madhu fall for him crazily madly n truly .. so that later she suffers more .. like in ancient time if a king used to chose a rabbit as his future food that rabbit used to be nourished every possible way but that is not aimed for it's good r8 .. RK did d same wid Madhu .. I agree he has fallen in love eventually but that doesn't give a reason to forgive .. can't talk about u but I guess in today;s world any woman with self respect will take a huge time to forgive a man like ds

me too want Rishbala but Madhu forgiving RK seeing his love or pain .. sorry just NOT done

Edited by sayaneegupta - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#56
Nice... But this is a story of rishbala... So cvs will end as rishbala only...

I liked each and every character in mb serial liking sulthan also 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
#57
Put yourselves in Madhu's shoes - would you ever go back to someone like RK after he betrayed you? All she's ever wanted is to love and be loved, like any other human being, and RK made a complete joke out of her feelings, her emotions, her entire life practically.
The girl suffers every minute at the memories of his betrayal, and now people expect her to forgive him and run back into his arms? What about her self respect? No woman I know would ever subject herself at the hands of such a man like RK (regardless of his underlying love, real intentions or whatever it may be) so I can't really understand why people condone such a pairing just because 'they're meant to be'
If Madhu is anything, she's a strong fighter, and I believe she should stick to her guns and not give into RK's ego.


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Posted: 12 years ago
#58

Originally posted by: CHAKKU_DAAYAN

@AreYaar- 🤣 Woman! I love you. Why do people relate every freaking thing with reality? Had the story been even a tad bit real then a superstar wouldn't have married a middle class girl for revenge. He would have just degraded her more through other sources. But they were and are bound to happen, that is why they keep crossing each other's path.



LOL thank you😆

Frankly speaking, there are other shows on TV right now that I guess I shouldn't mention where men get away with SLAPPING the female leads in BRUTAL manners and ppl are singing stories of their "undying love"

RK has atleast never been physically abusive towards Madhu in that sense.

This is a dark love story of obsessive passion...and a character like RK who is just unlike anything ever shown on Indian TV before...the writing on that level is so fantastic layering-wise.

Why are Madhu and him meant to be? Cuz Madhu is just as insane as him albeit in a different way😆...she gets his madness...matches it step by step in her own way and gives back just as good as she gets...When he tells her why he loves her, there was truth mixed in with whatever his plan was...He loves her not because she gave him blood...he loves her for the madness inside her that only he can identify with...and vice versa.

They are meant to be cuz the show comes alive with their clashes...be it love or hate...something that is just not there in the new characters.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#59
i respect ur point 😊
well if that happens to me i will never ever let the shadow of such person come infront of me
but dear it is fiction so everything is fare here try to accept it
well do you think CV's are such stupid to show the humiliation track without cause
humiliation track indicates or shows how a person can go to any extent to take revenge leaving moral and humanity behind well to be frank there are few people who more cruel and inhuman than RK in real world trust me on this if u need proofs i will give u
okay coming back to acceptance of rishabala well dear all i can say CV's will show RK redemption in acceptable manner by all set of people i have faith in CV's they have to do this not only for their loyal viewers but also for the character RK😉
RK character itself is with extremeness
his hate, love, trust, loyalty, acceptance, grace, cruelty, everything is out of boundaries or with no boundaries
example he letting bhatiyas stay in his house and not paying much attention to their deeds only cause of his mother whom he used to hate that is RK
chill maro and enjoy the show u will once again trust and love rishabala in near future u might accept them with more love and affection
if one bad/ill deed effected the good character of a person then one good deed may redeem some bad in him😉
thats it i want to say sorry for long post dear😆
Edited by sravani899 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#60
@AY- Seriously. Everybody here behaves like Madhu's mom and advises her not to act INSANE by going back to RK. My question- Have these two ever done anything which is NORMAL? 😳 The meaning of insane can be replaced with Rishbala any day. And I don't get why people don't get here that RK's character is LAYERED. It isn't one dimensional like Naitik ji. The fact that he was talking about his own pain even while he ws drunk explains y he did dat to Madhu. It isn't easy to break the ego of someone like RK.

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