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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: ABBY_JERAN

when the slapp happnd even i was thinking that was that really needed or was it too unnecessary...but now that i thought abt it for a while...2days slap was More justified than the 4 slaps b4...it was not for jus one incident neithr was it for mking her the duplocate or removing the dupatta...this grudge n frustration had been culminating since the night of the betrayal...

after what RK did on the wedding night...now the care RK shws for her disgusts her even more and its so understandable...as she very aptly said 2day that DARKNESS doesnt affect her nymore...she is more afraid of what she saw in the light...BRAVO to raghuvir sir...

.the last persons support whom madhu needs now is RKs and its always him who is around...2day he was kinda forcefully holding her bk whicch ended in the tearing of the sleeve but THATS NOT the REASON of the slap...it was jus to let him know TO SAY AWAY from her and NOT to shw care for her after what he did to her...

we as viwers r feeling Bad for RK coz we KNOW WHAT TORMENT HE IS GOING THRU after she left...how his life is haunted by madhus memories BUT MADHU DOESNT KNOW that...all she knws that RK HATES HER nd hence when he shws care for her it disgusts her even more...

.2days slaps build up had started since the night he betrayed her and 2day she jus blurted out the frustration for EVERYTHING he did to her...not for any one particular action...

cuming to the removing of the dupatta...it was not coz she was telling RK to get phyysical coz she very well knws herself RK bevr had the intention...it was a gesture to tell him to fulfill his Revenge of insulting her...

.luved the precap...cant wait ay

agree on the part that this slap was MORE justified than the 4 slaps earlier
hey but the darkness still affects her and u will see this on Monday's epi itself when RK leaves her in dark ๐Ÿ˜†
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: naina2010

Slapping is sad and bad, everyone knows it. But you have to show a man his limit when he manhandles a women. Whoever it may be

@RED - obviously NOT!! everyone doesnt know it, thats why i made this post ๐Ÿ˜†
firstly he was NOT manhandling her...he was trying to help her...But it was obvious that after so much Madhu wont b able to accept his help...hence it resulted in her outburst
hello? i am not saying when someone hits u, u have to keep quiet...u only attack someone physically when ur toleance limit is crossed and u become too weak to handle that person in an intelligent and brave way...and same goes for men and women both...
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: devikamd

Well..i think it could go either way...!!


If someone insults me on my face...i just stand there doing nothing..
that doesn't make me strong ...does it???
You have to be really strong hearted to be able to slap someone...!!

Slap is sometimes a way of saying..Enough..!!
it also depend on the situation...!!
That doesn't necessarily mean...that person is weak..!!

Nice post...but i have very different opinion..!!

well there r other ways of answering back instead of getting physical with that person
okay u slap someone to say its enough!...But what if that person slaps u back and says - u too ๐Ÿ˜›...noone is follower of Gandhi ji ofcourse ๐Ÿ˜†
what i want to say is its not the right to deal with anyone...it neither helps u nor the person u r hitting
RK wont do any such thing to Madhu...but if it was a total stranger then u cant accept him/her to start repenting for being hit..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
Agree with you, slapping someone does prove your weakness! Good instance pointed out by you of RK slapping Bittuji, when he was asking him to face what he had done!
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: nikita59

I agree!! If a person is just going to go in front of my face and humiliate me, and making me question my self respect, I would certainly slap him, and yes that make a person strong, b/c he is more stronger than me physically, and it would take guts to slap him. But on the other hand, yes the things that happen cases like domestic abuse and all, in that case when a man is hitting on a woman and it can vice versa too, yes that is weak!! But in case of my honor and self respect slapping someone doesn't make that person weak at all... I too have a different opinion than the TM...:)

And, to the TM, I don't think I wrote anything that made you reply so strongly as what kind of people are there who think that slapping makes a person strong? I can't let someone mistreat me by thinking that I am weak, and let them continue doing what that person wants to? Can I?! Not always words are enough to retaliate. So ofourse, I would retaliate back, and if slapping works for the situation, I don't think that makes any one weak does it?! Better to save my honor and react back than to let someone else ruin my whole life..:)

I wanted to clarify, b/c I felt I needed to when these things happen around us, and it does take guts and strength to physically slap someone not knowing how he is going to react...

i reacted strongly bcoz u r bringing all kinds of IRRELEVANT things in my post...is my post abt physical abuse and women issues? why r u bringing those stuff up?
has RK ever tried to physically abuse Madhu?? obviously NOT!
retaliating is fine but there r other ways to do it, u dont have to get physical...here it was only Madhu's outburst, not that she actually wanted to revenge him or anything like that...
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Vipisa

I never understood the connection between slapping and a strong character. The indian shows treat the heroine slapping the hero as if it is something wow. ๐Ÿ˜ณ

The humiliation of Madhu done by RK is of course wrong, so is Madhu slapping him. It is quite sad that many people are celebrating Madhu slapping RK as if it was a victory for her. Humiliating as well as slapping should not be encouraged in any case!

lol exactly my point ๐Ÿ˜†...u go girl!
i dont believe these things can make anyone strong
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: .Shiva.

agree nishi๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ

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Posted: 12 years ago
Nishi in froum i always read only ur post.awesome post,agree with you

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