Episode 203 Discussion: 23rd Feb 2013 - Page 10

Originally posted by: Soundarya22

@bold - Agree. yesterday was a watershed moment for him and a cathartic one for Madhu.

To add:

He is clearly not able to handle her grief, which is why he wanted her far away, safe with her mother. And for her, I suppose in some corner of her heart, she thought she would find a clue to his changed behaviour by staying around.

She knows him very well .. too well ..to not recognise his care but yesterday she saw how far he is willing to go for his ego, and that was a huge realization for her. Her daring him to do what he wants with her, was actually an indication of the limits she had said she is willing to cross.

I am curious...what next for him...and for her??

Originally posted by: kodai

Soundarya, I don't think he's doing it only for ego. He's very egoistic, but I feel his actions after the "unwedding" are all to make sure Madhu stays away from him. He's doing everything in his power, including humiliating/hurting so she quits and that they don't have to meet. His ego probably prevents him from getting her fired.

Again, I am going by the premise that it's not revenge at all but some psychological/circumstantial reason for breaking the relationship. Only way to achieve is to hurt her badly and negate the relationship and it's very foundation. Or maybe I am deluding myself as I need a hero who's inherently good !

Originally posted by: kodai

charu,

Here it has nothing to do with clothes, wearing a gown is not insulting.

I think here the war is psychological - she feels insulted because he coerced her, used his power over her helplessness to makes her do something as personal as exposing her body in front of everyone in a way and to an extent that she's not comfortable doing.

In the eyes of the whole crew, there was no insult happening- bur RK, Madhu and Bittuji knew he was deliberately using his power - touched her knowing how invasive it would feel for her and removing the stole would have been the last straw.

He has taunted her about how willing she was, it's like I refused you but I still can touch you whenever I want - plain disgusting. Her tears were for all that humiliation that it represents. Her slap is so justified.

Originally posted by: Soundarya22

We as 'neutral' viewers, we now know it is not ego.., the Cvs are giving us indicators that it is not ego, there is a reason for this break up. I am sure they will also justify it brilliantly.
@bold - That is true for us. We're not being allowed to hate him completely, though his behaviour disgusts us.

But at this point, or rather yesterday Madhu probably reached the conclusion that he is doing it for his revenge and ego.

We can see very clearly how he is trying to push her away from him, she cannot see it as yet.

Again, mercifully for us, CV's are beginning to differentiate between madhu and us viewers.

ETA- My husband who by default watches saturday episodes...commented when he saw the dressing room scene...'he really loves her'😊. This coming from a person who predicted he was faking his love long before the track began, while we were all in 'dream land'.

Originally posted by: _charu_

🤣 he does na? otherwise why wud he want to send her away? nafrat pyar ki sauteli behen hi toh hai ... Radha was right 😆 kuch toh acha hoga as a result of all their bewakoof harkatein ...I was waiting and waiting for Madhu's reaction but shayad monday we'll get it...

Originally posted by: Soundarya22

We as 'neutral' viewers, we now know it is not ego.., the Cvs are giving us indicators that it is not ego, there is a reason for this break up. I am sure they will also justify it brilliantly.
@bold - That is true for us. We're not being allowed to hate him completely, though his behaviour disgusts us.

But at this point, or rather yesterday Madhu probably reached the conclusion that he is doing it for his revenge and ego.

We can see very clearly how he is trying to push her away from him, she cannot see it as yet.

Again, mercifully for us, CV's are beginning to differentiate between madhu and us viewers.

ETA- My husband who by default watches saturday episodes...commented when he saw the dressing room scene...'he really loves her'😊. This coming from a person who predicted he was faking his love long before the track began, while we were all in 'dream land'.

Originally posted by: kodai

Now I get u referring to Rk as understood by Madhu !

CV's must be so happy to have generated so much speculation :) Hope it shows in the TRP's.

I really need a closure for this track - too muddle-headed for me. I don't want to watch next 6 months of Madhu thinking it's revenge and showing her nafrat and saintly RK putting up with it.

CV's, Please let Madhu also see that he has some self-destructive motive and she can, as usual barge in where saner minds fear to tread.

Originally posted by: _charu_

got that yaar..but if she walked in confidently and gave the shot, any of us wud have termed it "humiliation"? not saying there was something wrong with Madhu's predicament..it's a matter of personal choice & mindset (i dun agree with it , that's a diff. issue )..but the way they presented the whole scenario was utter bewakoofi...and it goesn't go with her character, specially with the way she challenged him a day back...did she give him back massage? nahi na... she cud have easily got away with this one also..acting miserable in front of him ? did she want that? can he stoop lower than this? isn't it obvious ? public humiliation in the chawl wasn't sufficient proof? anyhow, it was highly contrived..i didn't like yest. epi..i.e. in terms of execution of the track..

Originally posted by: Soundarya22

Quick question...did he lock her up or did he send her out of the studio?? I am confused...I thought he deposited her safely outside the studio...but some others feel he has locked her up???