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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sorrry for long post but this is because it covers from past whole oone week act of RK-Mom-Madhu.
This is only my POV so before letting known I expect no bashing on me. If you disagree ignore the post.
I felt Madhu's demand for RK to go for Radhaji and place his head on her lap is not acceptable by me. First he condition was wrong RK was saying about Shammo-Padyy's future. He was just saying to give them name so no one can question and they will be free to give each other's companion in front of whole world with proudnes. No other RK will question them on their relation on press conference. As we remember RK asked Bittuji to remove as many information on Madhubala before press conference. So he told what he heard thats mean he already people questions their relation. Also Mukund;s mom use to question. RK is 29 year old young person who had faced each crucial part of life and he does have experience of relations all this here. Not only this he said it very sophisticated and polite manner but Madhu seriously reacted wrongly according to me.
Now her challenge - just a thing Radhaji was never with her all this while. Why she not took a stand before in all this years to come forward. If we see yesterday's episode on Radhaji's arrival on party he was not angry and while feet touching he was saying why not all this year you came mom? Why?
Radhaji is one weak women and so even weak mom who had never stand for her son. There is lot darkness - behaviour of step father and brother to him and still Radhaji kept crying. RK gave himself to drinks and she just tried but never stand to bring. She accepted to in front of Madhu's that she lost him but even once he looked back to see RK was waiting for her. Relations and trust is not broken like this they are broken and so that happen to RK. All this year he has to stand and handle all torture from Bhatia's family just for her mom. Why he stand so much torture of Mr. Kuku, Mr. Sikki and Dips just he still love Radhaji. I feel it was always Radhaji who left and so on Radhaji giving tea he drank, on Radahji coming he touched her feet and feed her cake. While feeding too his eyes want to capture his mom's image on his mind.
He nver went away from mom it was always Radhaji's weakness that leave him alone on middle of road.
So for me Madhu's condition was worng. It is not that I say he should not reunite with mom, instead he should always just for sake of his dad and to start new relation he should forgive his mom so he will remain happy lifetime or else always his mom thought's will torture him. But all of sudden Madhu cannot expect this from RK. She only seeing standing on one side but also she should see standing from RK's side.
Today the hug was all together supprt and relation from RK, it shows in this relation RK will be calm till time she is with her but a moment she is not with him, he will change to very bad. On other hand Madhu will always be aggressive wether with RK or without him, she will never understand in calm way.
At hug scene I think DD sounded too loud and too aggressive than required and I think today Vivian handled the hug scene and situation.👏
Please no bashing on me for this and remember this is only my POV and I am not forcing anybody to accept it or nor I am bashing either of actor.
First let me clear on word torture before that word take a unecessary fire.
Torture - relax torture means sleepless night over here. I mean it always effected RK somewhere and will effect him. Instead of writting sentence I used one word for it. So relax I am not strongly pointing by word torture. I mean if he not reunite her he will always pass sleepless night painting and giving himself torture to leave without his mom. Hope you understoond what I want to say.😃 It is always be sleepless night for him and it is always a restless life that one person not talking even when he\she wants to his or her mom or dad who is alive and always around you.This is a punishment that person gives to himself\herself. That is what torture to ourself by ourself only.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i m not in support of RK asking forgiveness from Radha ji ever...he doesnt need to...its bcoz of her that he is tolerating the whole Bhatia family in his house...proves he still cares for his mom...but if he cannot forgive her, he has his own reasons for the same
Madhu cud forgive Malik but u cant compare Madhu-Malik case with RK-Radha ji here...Malik did bad to RK and RK himself forgave him...and here Radha ji did injustice with his own son so only RK has the right to forgive her
i have the same question too - has Radha ji ever tried to understand his son?
i doubt ppl will b even satisfied with this hug from RK's side 😆
Edited by Nishi.Singh - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Torture is a serious word.
Well yes, I too think its not acceptable to me as well,Madhu should put herself in RK's shoe this time,RK's hurt that's all,and it's a wound deep inside his heart so it will definitely take some time to heal,he cannot just go and sleep in his mother's lap,I will take RK's side,Madhu should give him some time like she asking him to touch Radha ji's feet and take blessings that was a correct thing to do,but its not good to set conditions like this.

Only at this point I agree with you,and please its not a torture.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: M.Hurr

Torture is a serious word.

Well yes, I too think its not acceptable to me as well,Madhu should put herself in RK's shoe this time,RK's hurt that's all,and it's a wound deep inside his heart so it will definitely take some time to heal,he cannot just go and sleep in his mother's lap,I will take RK's side,Madhu should give him some time like she asking him to touch Radha ji's feet and take blessings that was a correct thing to do,but its not good to set conditions like this.

Only at this point I agree with you,and please its not a torture.

relax torture means sleepless night over here. I mean it always effected RK somewhere and will effect him. Instead of writting sentence I used one word for it. So relax I am not strongly pointing by word torture. I mean if he not reunite her he will always pass sleepless night painting and giving himself torture to leave without his mom. Hope you understoond what I want to say.😃
Rest Thanks 😳🤗
Edited by emptyworld - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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awsome post...well written
I totally agree with u.
First I thought I'm the only person who is thinking like that but than I read many posts here.
I'm happy that I'm not the only one who thinks like that. :)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: M.Hurr

@emptyworld:I do understand now,thanks

I should thanks you 🤗 so I updated in my post too. it is always be sleepless night for him aur kisi bhi bache ke liye ye pareshani wali hi baat hogi ke woh apni ma ya papa se jo zinda hai unse baat na kare. Iss tarah woh khud ko punishment de raha hai apne ap. That is what torture to ourself. You can call me shahi.😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
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me agree with you totally👍🏼
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree with each and every point u made. Even I felt so, RK has never felt the unconditional love what Madhu has felt from her mom. If Radhaji was strong enough to raise her son by herself, RK would have had a much happier childhood, one filled with love. In that way, both RK's mom and Madhu's mom would have been similar. But Radhaji doesn't have a backbone, and she is certainly a weak woman, who needs constant support from someone superior. Madhu's mom, though had a very painful past too, but for her child, she was strong enough to atleast try and run away, even though the demons of her past have come in front of her again. So, yes I feel that Madhu should put herself in RK's shoes, and should realize that forgiveness doesn't come from force. RK has seen the worst in human beings, when he needed his mom the most she deserted him, but for love RK kept quiet but isolated himself from his mom. B/c his trust was broken and shattered by his mom. I am a huge DD fan, but like you today even I felt in the hug scene she was too loud and aggressive, and her expression were a bit too much for the situation. I have never criticized DD before on her acting, but in that particular scene, she did need improvement. But VD, I felt has improved since Madhubala started. He was bang on in that hug scene today! I have been loving VD's acting a lot for the past couple of days. So, that is also a small point for DD to look at today's scene and improve herself in that area. But, hopefully MB comes to see RK's point. Good post btw..:)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nishi.Singh

i m not in support of RK asking forgiveness from Radha ji ever...he doesnt need to...its bcoz of her her that he is tolerating the whole Bhatia family in his house...proves he still cares for his mom...but if he cannot forgive her, he has his own reasons for the same

Madhu cud forgive Malik but u cant compare Madhu-Malik case with RK-Radha ji here...Malik did bad to RK and RK himself forgave him...and here Radha ji did injustice with his own son so only RK has the right to forgive her
i have the same question too - has Radha ji ever tried to understand his son?
i doubt ppl will b even satisfied with this hug from RK's side 😆

Thanks 😳🤗 totally agree nishi we cannot force one to go and hug or maintain relation. It is always comes from heart. The day RK feels that he should go and love his mom he will go and reunite with mom. Shammo and Radhaji case is two defferent story to attach. I agree with you in this. For hug - it was a supportive hug and RK gave his total percent.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: abhaylovepia

me agree with you totally👍🏼

Thanks 😳🤗

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