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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: 0-SD-0

Test of Love - Never wrong to test when you actually love someone or trust someone. Sometimes its peremptory demand from the extremely loved one.

One thing is sure from today's episode, no matter how poorly they executed it by involving clunk plots such Dips entering RK's room to brainwash him and Madhu visiting Chawl to have Trishna curse her and tell about Padmini-Shamsher fallout...They showed that Madhu will love him, but will never completely put him above everything else. She is gonna always fail him and he(RK) will have to keep learning to live with rejection and yet loving her. And Madhu will always fail to understand his need until she realizes that she hurt him bad and tries to compensate that hurt by loving him more.

He(RK) will want her to love him in all trust and she will fail because she will always hold something back from him about her. If you see it is RK who has shared his past with Madhu and she has not shared anything about her to RK by herself. She instead shared with Rads rather freely (that's why I said lesbian tendencies in my Episode Discussion thread), but she doesn't share anything with RK. She only told him one thing...about her biological father who tried to kill her...and later it was RK who asked her for the whole story.

Madhu has problem trusting RK. That was shown this Monday or Tuesday I guess, when she said, "Dhoka to nahin doge na". You cannot be distrusting even before giving the person a chance. That is plain negativity as things doomed for bad. That morning RK was in super goner mood and hence did not get angry, but it was enough to hurt the sensitive Rishabh inside him, had Rishabh decided to raise his head.

Part of RK problem, which was poorly executed today in test of love was that he wants to be himself when with Madhu and hence will not fear to bare his heart and head before her, if he feels reassured by her that he can do it by trusting himself with her. That's where the complex subject of do you love Rishabh or RK. It was executed badly, because the writers can never be sure how viewers will understand complex subjects, so trying to show through RK as the superstar with material wealth and Rishabh as the real man. which is not actually true. RK can be real RK as well.

But that question of "Can I trust myself with you Madhu?" in the deeper sense of Test of Love from RK end is where Madhu failed him today. She couldn't freely give her hand and hold his hand and then talk her objections. Instead she chose to retain her hand, chose to keep quiet, maintain her problems as hers. In Ganesha track too she, went behind RK's back to restore his faith. Her folly almost cost him his life. This secretive missions of her are going to be detrimental to either. In Shamsher arrest case, she went against RK and left the house in dead of night. She landed into lot of trouble. She and her family got saved because of RK. If RK was not intelligent, would he have been able to trust and forgive her ?

When Madhu encounters problems, she won't share them with her husband, when as a wife she should share information with him so that level of trust builds up between husband and wife. Instead she will hide things from him and try to tackle everything by herself. That act would actually endanger her and RK as well and RK will have clean up the mess. This is going to be sore point between them, why Madhu would not trust information with RK ? Illogical she is, and in her illogic she is going to hurt RK a lot. Why he loves her is because, this illogical woman is the only one who will allow him to be spontaneous and not be the RK superstar as she is that dumb and naive to conspire against him.

Madhu needs to learn to share herself with RK along with her duties to others, Please note...Loving is not equal to sharing yourself.

RK will now always have to be careful with her because he loves her madly and can lose himself anytime and knowing that she holds back part of her self, his pride will also get hurt if he tries to bare himself when it is not needed by her. He may trust her bit by bit if she starts to share herself with him. And boy! I have not seen Madhu do it. Not that there is a lot Madhu can tell about her past...but she hardly speaks to him. Does RK actually know who Madhu is other that her being a goner fo him ?

They needed to know each other before they could have fallen in love. Alas, they fell in love without knowing each other. Ab bhugto !!! Now start learning about each other !!!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: manesha76

SD awesome post 👏 👏 👏 ,


First of all i am glad that you made a separate post . You have written everything so beautifully . I always felt Madhu's trust towards RK is very less . I would not blame Madhu for that . Their marriage happened in unusual circumstances & RK is also very unpredictable . Madhu has yet to understand RK very well . I think now in next Track Rishabala's understanding will reach next level . I think both will start trusting eachother more .


Thank you Manesha.

They trust each other for what they are individually.
They don't trust each other for what they are to each other. They need to teach themselves to become a unit. For that they need to work together by becoming a team.

The reason for them to become the team is what the love confession was about. They love each other to limits. Misfortunately it did not turn out the way each expected the other to respond to their love, nevertheless it cannot be denied that they love each other. And hence they shall be together with the bond of love and they should try to infuse trust in their relationship as a unit now.

You know marriages work more when partners trust each other. Some marriages work with trust and married kind of love. In Rishbala's case, to make things difficult, they have had a marriage that either of them took time to accept. So now they consider themselves married, they confessed to each other that they love each other, now they should know their personalities, accept each other as they are and allow the marriage to function. That is where the conflict is now. Both of them still want to function independently of the other, just because they feel they cannot burden the other for fear of disapproval(Madhu) or unwantedness(RK).

So is the coming up track really about this ? Let's wait and watch.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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nice post!!
hope mu gets cleared real quick!!😭
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Manonids

I guess its the situation./circumstances in which they got married that the trust factor could not be sowed in Madhu, from the very beginning. RK was the one who was leading the marriage, dominating her, taking every single decision on her behalf. She has seen extreme personalities of RK, and she is somewhat dwindling bw them to find peace for herself. Just like RK has his past issues, Madhu do have her own insecurities deeply sowed, which may be time will heal, as they will shed their past baggage with time.


Nids,

I did not get what kind of insecurities Madhu has ? She always comes across as self-assured person and that's why she was able to match upto RK.

Her baggage to me is only about her inability to answer back Trishna, which is partly Padmini's heritage passed on to her. The real baggage is her birth, but she cannot be insecure about it as she was loved and protected by Shamsher and Padmini.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: stressrelief

nice post rk and madhu love eachother but they dont trust eachother i think cvs are doing it wrong way


Infact they are addressing it the right way.

Love and Trust are not the same.
They aid each other, but are not the same.

Love is soft and tensile in bonding. It is endearing and emotional exaltation, pleasurable and can only exert so much.

Trust is about belief, making it work and nothing about softness or bonding. It is strength when present and weakness when absent coz to have it makes one reliant, dependable and confident to care, execute or binds you to execute.

After pleasure and playtime, its always the homework to be taken care of 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Shri this post calls for a 🤗 & !!! I loved every word and agree with every line. Today RK extended his hand towards the woman he loves in the hopes of acceptance; however, his love welcomed him with reluctance and refusal 😔. It was heartbreaking scene all together. Madhu claimed him as her world, but couldn't offer her hand to him to provide reassurance? No matter how hard I tried, I couldn't connect with Madhu's refusal today She could've place her hand in his, accepted his offer, and tried to convince him otherwise.
Dearest Shri, since you are the voice of reason here, I have a humble request: can you please send this post to MB's CV team, they have few things to learn from your brilliant mind and wisdom.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: vmpy

wonderful post.i hope dis is rks insecurity as regarding love and due to his harsh past he feels insecure.so dis is not a v gross or deep misunderstanding and after overcoming it may dat love letter plays its part then afterwards they will develop an unbreakable bond.


😃 I am hoping the same. And also excited for the love letter to resurface at the appropriate time.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: bips

Awesome, awesome post.

I have been saying this from the beginning. They are not developing madhu enough. She is pretty much like any ekta serial heroine whereas rk is operating on a completely different plane.

He needs that security, that someone loves him above all, before all. With madhu there are a lot of ifs and buts. You need to match the two.

And yes, i am so tired of this baatein chupaana and khufiya missions that heroines love. The guy forgave the man who tried to kill him, for you. Trust him.

They need to make madhu extraordinary. Her dialogues, her thought process require immediate update


I hear you. 😆 We once discussed Madhu as the soap heroine and that too the Soap world created by Ekta Kapoor.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: 0-SD-0


Nids,

I did not get what kind of insecurities Madhu has ? She always comes across as self-assured person and that's why she was able to match upto RK.

Her baggage to me is only about her inability to answer back Trishna, which is partly Padmini's heritage passed on to her. The real baggage is her birth, but she cannot be insecure about it as she was loved and protected by Shamsher and Padmini.


SD,

See my main point is, loving a man, who has ruined ur family to the extent that u are being held responsible for every single thing in ur own family, is not something she can accept so easily in all situations. She is not sure if RK will be accepted by her family in the way she wishes so badly. She is hoping against hope to have an ideal life with RK, but here she fails to understand how to make a bridge. Every time, she tries to make peace bw RK and her family, she fails. She is bound to be torn bw her family, and RK. Her loving RK, with whom as a daughter, she must have enmity to the core, is not something so normal. You need great strength to FEEL for such man. If Madhu closes herself from him, even RK ( not Rishab) doesn't share much about what he does for her in his twisted ways, which makes her fall in with him more ( Eg, Shamsher's case) . Remember .she once said ...woh Aam insano jaisa nahe hai ... She is inexplicably falling and she doesnt know how to stop her heart beating for that man. Its in itself a dilemma she experiences when she sees RK and repercussions of RK's actions on her family, thrown recently by Trishna. Madhu has seen little of Rishab and RK has seen little of choote choote sapno wale ladke. ..I hope they grow sensible from here on.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: leelaa9

'Test of Love Track'
Outstanding analysis, SD.😳⭐️👏


Originally posted by: Red_Opium

Shri this post calls for a 🤗 & !!! I loved every word and agree with every line. Today RK extended his hand towards the woman he loves in the hopes of acceptance; however, his love welcomed him with reluctance and refusal 😔. It was heartbreaking scene all together. Madhu claimed him as her world, but couldn't offer her hand to him to provide reassurance? No matter how hard I tried, I couldn't connect with Madhu's refusal today She could've place her hand in his, accepted his offer, and tried to convince him otherwise.

Dearest Shri, since you are the voice of reason here, I have a humble request: can you please send this post to MB's CV team, they have few things to learn from your brilliant mind and wisdom.

Thank you Leela. Zoe. My pleasure. Absolutely 😆

But let me give credit to Zoya also. If we had not been talking for more than an hour or may be two hours losing all sense of time😆, I wouldn't have known how much actually it had been upsetting to all. For me, I was not upset with the outcome and just lamented the poor execution of actually a valid development in their relationship. It was flawed by bringing in all unnecessary elements and was getting apprehensive altogether on RK The Superstar character after this perceived rejection and upcoming agenda that he has to deal with ...Trishna's nepotistic favours from RK, Balraj Chaudhry and the rival entry. For all these 3 agendas on the table, Rishbala need to work as a team. And where is the team now ? Where is the trust ? Nowhere. They just have love and better they learn working together through information sharing, Trust will develop by and by...

Zoe,
I don't have any CV's addresses. But I try to give my feedback over Colors Twitter acct and website and MEIEJ-Colors Facebook page. I shall do that tomorrow.

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