RK's baggage is annoying me now - Page 2

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Posted: 12 years ago
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RK was never wrng regarding KC...cause he saw until now was all fake but, Biwi will make him learn that even there are ppl who keep kc with full faith...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I just don't like how he punished the staff in not leaving, I mean he sent them home only when the girl fainted. All that wasn't called for.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nafs_Sweetheart



However, today's episode still annoyed me, because I'm thinking of the future, every single festival will have some baggage from his step family that will cause RK to have an adverse reaction to participating. That's what we have seen so far. Perhaps Diwali he will be loved up and will do all the necessary without too much fuss but still Madhu will have to tread carefully and manage him with kid gloves.



i don't think so...bec. by that time, he wud have fallen in love with Madhu..love itself adds joy to the life..he wud have changed by then...yes, he might not want to celebrate any festival with his mad family which is completely justified..Madhu must not force him to do this otherwise 😡😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: FIRESafiReFIRE

remember rk have not changed.. that thing he does is his attatude.. he is like that.. a person who is short tembered could never change


One thing I hope when he is in love and realises he is in love, is his arrogance, he mustn't become a joru ka ghulam type of husband, because we enjoy him challenging Madhu and their cute fights. 😊, so his attitude is nice because it makes it easier for us to accept those damaka dialogues of his.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: suk19

Nafs it just shows how rk has been hurt been with his past to be honest today was about guilt i have said this in another topic, a girl out of no where comes n puts rk the superstar in jail she slaps him it was his ego that wanted revenge then the same girl whose life he made hell is the same girl who saved his life 3 times he tells everyone she is his biwi at first he did it to keep dips away from him but now he actually wants his biwi. today was guilt that was killing rk not madhus vrat it was her love that was killing him when he asked her does she believe that he is her pati that small nod just killed him he was angry not at her but at himself he is feeling that he does not deserve madhu


Yes no doubt, he is feeling he doesn't deserve her, after saving his life and taking care of him, now he is trying slowly slowly to return the favour, protect her from those that would hurt her, and also rectify the rash decision of their half marriage, of 4 phere only. I was thinking yesterday when I made my prediction that he would tear up the contract that his ego was bruised that caused him make the decision to marry her in the half marriage infront of the witnesses to his shame (when she slapped him) and again to humiliate her with the amendment to their marriage with the repayment of the funds with the contract to Malik when she challenged him by blackmailing him with the pictures. Nice take Suk that the anger is directed at himself.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: -CoolChick-

yaar...he doesn't believe in rituals...n he expected Biwi to obey that...which she obviously didn't...so he got annoyed...plus i guess he doesn't want to bind her by such rituals which take a toll on her & make her do stuff by going over the board...shes tooo nice for him...n has done soo much for him already in the past...bcz of which he already feels soo obliged...and now this fasting for him...staying hungry all day for his life...just increases that baggage on him...he just doesn't want her to go thru more bcoz of him or for him...😊...now when he cools down...he'll realize what wrong he has done...n will rush to be by Biwi's side...😉


Nice calm take @coolchick...lol, after thinking about it a bit more I came to that conclusion myself, see my reply to bangalores I posted earlier, in this thread. But I was really annoyed initially with RK and the CV's also for dragging the KC track. 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Escape.My.Love.

ahh the issue of men here , why do women have to do the job to sensitize them? its not the question of gender here..anyone who has the power and undeniable connection with you to dig through your defenses is your sensitizer and that can be anyone , it is not always the wife ...and everybody has baggage and none of us ask anyone to dismantle that baggage neither do we need any help or any sort of caring gesture to normalize that trauma or baggage..it is like khud intentionally aag mein kud , aur phir jis pe aag lagi hai , ussi ko blame karo..kyun? jispe aag lagi hai , usney invitation diya tha uss aag ko bhujaaney ke liye? ajeeb hai yaar.lol. And what Madhu faced was hurt but her will did not give up , and rk has given up in everything long ago for the reason she is not giving up on him..isn't it simple? No one asked her to do it but she is willingly doing it , and making that poison sweet for her because she knows he is worth it , and her love is worth it.


Nice explanation @Escape My Love, Yes it will be worth it in the end for Madhu to invest all this effort in RK. His got big bucks and deck her up 😳
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Posted: 12 years ago
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You have a point...he still has trust issues. May be he thinks that Madhu is still in the pitying mode and is trying to make up for her father's deeds...that dad trying take his life and the daughter trying to prolong it.

What I don't get at all is why he's even letting the so called family live in his house! Every time he sees them, he's reminded of their individual and collective betrayal.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: pippa

You have a point...he still has trust issues. May be he thinks that Madhu is still in the pitying mode and is trying to make up for her father's deeds...that dad trying take his life and the daughter trying to prolong it.

What I don't get at all is why he's even letting the so called family live in his house! Every time he sees them, he's reminded of their individual and collective betrayal.


Yes he does have the trust issues.

About Madhu trying to make up for Shamsher shooting RK, possibly Radhaji is thinking something similar, as she said Madhu wants to fix her reputation in the house by doing the KC natak. But RK I'm thinking having seen Radhaji and Deepali fasting for KC hates the ritual as it's obviously not for what it was intended, to prolong their husbands lives but for asking forgiveness in one case and other Deepali she does it because if she doesn't she will be questioned by others, so she does it out of almost peer pressure I feel rather then wanting Sikki to live longer, as he is an annoyance to her.

I think he lets them stay in the house because of the love he still has for his mother, he knows if he throws them out his mother would suffer for it. But still he could pay for another flat/house for them and not have to see their faces everyday.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I see where you are coming from, but I sort of disagree.

His baggage is what has caused him to lose belief, but reason aside, he does not believe in these rituals with good reason. His reason that people try and follow them for one day to fool God is quite accurate. His opinion is well-founded. While it is also acceptable that Madhu believes in these rituals, one cannot force the other to comply. Madhu can fast, but she can't expect RK to break it.

Why is it that we find it unacceptable that RK would not believe in rituals or does not want to kowtow to Madhu's beliefs but it is fine that Madhu would not bow to RK's wishes and not follow these rituals? That's guided completely by the way we look at situations. We feel these rituals are right, and hence not following them is wrong. And we feel RK is wrong.

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