RK's baggage is annoying me now

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Okay earlier it was fine to know what made him so bitter and such a janver, we found out about his father's suicide and the his step family problems, but now the CV's have given his character so much baggage, meaning his step family fake fasting in this case (Radhaji fasting for Kuku's shaitan antics for forgiveness from god rather then to prolong his life and Deepali also fake fasting) has made our hero RK not have any faith in this tradition of karva chauth. But Madhu poor thing now every single festival will have to struggle with RK's lack of faith in it because of hang ups with his step family and suicidal dad, his got too much baggage.

You know how men in society go looking for a pure bride (virginal, sanskar, pavarish etc) to marry, I swear it should also be in the reverse, we women always get a raw deal, marry these monsters that we need to butter up and make them normal sensitive human beings...uff

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Posted: 12 years ago
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that's not true..we must not judge a person by his reactions but his actions...RK was angry and he had his reasons ..he has a different thinking than his family & Madhu...now when he will think n think about it, he will take the right decision of going back home and breaking her fast n that's what matters to me...he's that kind of a person who needs shock treatment ..the shock of Madhu being unwell , keeping the fast, acknowledging this marriage will help him think rationally.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i think this was expected, given the marriages that is in his family or his step family...
what irked me was his term "jhoot moot ke pati"... i wonder if Madhu wud have insisted that he shud break the fast if he had not made that open statement that he accepted her as his wife.

don't get me started on marriages ... most men's ego are so delicate tha t you need to tread carefully as if on thin ice...😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: _charu_

that's not true..we must not judge a person by his reactions but his actions...RK was angry and he had his reasons ..he has a different thinking than his family & Madhu...now when he will think n think about it, he will take the right decision of going back home and breaking her fast n that's what matters to me...he's that kind of a person who needs shock treatment ..the shock of Madhu being unwell , keeping the fast, acknowledging this marriage will help him think rationally.


Yes okay, I agree with you charu, because even prior to today's episode I was singing very loudly to all who would listen on this forum that RK needed some reassurance that Madhu will not leave him like the three people in his life who betrayed him after he trusted them, that he moved from the bed because he is scared of his having made an error in disclosing so much of his past to Madhu and yet again trusting someone else (Madhu), that he is struggling with his feelings for Madhu and that her action of fasting for KC for his long life and being ill and not breaking her fast still, should reassure RK that he has placed his trust in the right person now that she won't betray him and won't leave him.

However, today's episode still annoyed me, because I'm thinking of the future, every single festival will have some baggage from his step family that will cause RK to have an adverse reaction to participating. That's what we have seen so far. Perhaps Diwali he will be loved up and will do all the necessary without too much fuss but still Madhu will have to tread carefully and manage him with kid gloves.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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remember rk have not changed.. that thing he does is his attatude.. he is like that.. a person who is short tembered could never change
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: bangalores

i think this was expected, given the marriages that is in his family or his step family...
what irked me was his term "jhoot moot ke pati"... i wonder if Madhu wud have insisted that he shud break the fast if he had not made that open statement that he accepted her as his wife.

don't get me started on marriages ... most men's ego are so delicate tha t you need to tread carefully as if on thin ice...😆


Hi Bindu, RK told Deepali that he has accepted Madhu as his wife and Madhu was right there listening to him, now all of a sudden he blasts her for being her fake husband, yes very well we give him the benefit of a doubt as his struggling to understand all the protective instincts he is feeling for Madhu, today they showed him wanting to make her drink and feel better also for her not to clear the broken glass because she might hurt herself, so he is protective of her and wants to take care of her, and he doesn't want her to fast for him because he feels her health is more important then prolonging his life, after all the hang ups with his step family and this KC rituals. Then he should have just clearly told her in a caring way, as we have seen him do when he was consoling her with the Malik shooting case, that your health is more important Madhu and though you believe in this KC rituals, I don't believe as I told you, you can start fasting from next year. Instead deny their marriage.

No doubt now that he is seething on the chair he will come to terms with his feelings for Madhu and their relationship and come to the decision to rectify all his mistakes and make their marriage fully legal, whether it will happen soon is questionable.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nafs it just shows how rk has been hurt been with his past to be honest today was about guilt i have said this in another topic, a girl out of no where comes n puts rk the superstar in jail she slaps him it was his ego that wanted revenge then the same girl whose life he made hell is the same girl who saved his life 3 times he tells everyone she is his biwi at first he did it to keep dips away from him but now he actually wants his biwi. today was guilt that was killing rk not madhus vrat it was her love that was killing him when he asked her does she believe that he is her pati that small nod just killed him he was angry not at her but at himself he is feeling that he does not deserve madhu
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Posted: 12 years ago
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He has never seen joy in his life and that is why this festivals doesn't matters to him. Madhu is changing him, but it will take time. And i'm also a men, but i will not select girl on basis whether she is virgin ornot, i will select on the basisof love
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Posted: 12 years ago
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yaar...he doesn't believe in rituals...n he expected Biwi to obey that...which she obviously didn't...so he got annoyed...plus i guess he doesn't want to bind her by such rituals which take a toll on her & make her do stuff by going over the board...shes tooo nice for him...n has done soo much for him already in the past...bcz of which he already feels soo obliged...and now this fasting for him...staying hungry all day for his life...just increases that baggage on him...he just doesn't want her to go thru more bcoz of him or for him...😊...now when he cools down...he'll realize what wrong he has done...n will rush to be by Biwi's side...😉
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Posted: 12 years ago
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ahh the issue of men here , why do women have to do the job to sensitize them? its not the question of gender here..anyone who has the power and undeniable connection with you to dig through your defenses is your sensitizer and that can be anyone , it is not always the wife ...and everybody has baggage and none of us ask anyone to dismantle that baggage neither do we need any help or any sort of caring gesture to normalize that trauma or baggage..it is like khud intentionally aag mein kud , aur phir jis pe aag lagi hai , ussi ko blame karo..kyun? jispe aag lagi hai , usney invitation diya tha uss aag ko bhujaaney ke liye? ajeeb hai yaar.lol. And what Madhu faced was hurt but her will did not give up , and rk has given up in everything long ago for the reason she is not giving up on him..isn't it simple? No one asked her to do it but she is willingly doing it , and making that poison sweet for her because she knows he is worth it , and her love is worth it.

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