Why cant we reach a solution?*Note pg1&20* - Page 13

Originally posted by: deepak148

dear, calm down. Noone is forcing u to like DD ( atleast me ). It i your own view. Bur they are many who don't like VD ( i'm a huge fan ) .
You don't like DD; its ok. But when someone says they don't like VD some people will come for them. That is not gud. And i'm a DVD fan, so i love both.

Originally posted by: deepak148

Yaar i have no problem with fun posts.
But i got a fun post where i was the target. It was made to insult me, where she blamed me that i reported her. I confronted her and then she edited it. But it was an insult. i don't think it is an fun post.
Fun posts can be made and i love them. But targetting some people in the name of fun is not gud dear.

Originally posted by: --Udhay--

This comment hurts, and I'm getting all the worst/offensive words in my mind to bash u, and I feel like saying some thing bad about VD too, but I would not do it, as it is against IF rules! But remember, no one would with proper eye sight and Brains will say what u have said just now.. And I notice u r a Newbie? I'm suspicious regarding ur motive here!! Don't worry whatever fights/disagreements we DD fans and VD fans have will remain between us, and we'll never let down DD/VD in front of outsiders! And we will never ever allow fake people like u to take advantage of our disagreements and instigate a war between us..! Stay united all of u!!

Originally posted by: radt

I am a DVD fan although am a bit inclined to Vivu! Only reason, I find him very hot! (a single girl, straight... that's it)

I read a few comments a page or two back (and made me say smthg) for everyone who claims to be hurt because Viv was bashed.. he wasn't! It's just his fans weren't being treated equally coz the mods tend to appease the majority.. they try hard to keep balance but it always turns out that they end up being partial coz DD fans have a majority and are most of them less open to alternate point of views!

And to the person who just bashed DD.. if she isn't beautiful, then, really now..! You make me rofl..

It's okay to dislike someone.. but commenting on that person's looks.. especially when that person is actually gorgeous is so pathetic. And.. even if she weren't pretty... I mean let's say.. (coz she's very pretty) there's no way in which ur comment was tolerable coz u need to keep that stuff in ur mind as there are DD and DVD fans who find it offensive and it's important to keep ur temper and words in check when ur on a public forum... U cannot speak everything that pops in ur mind.

And why only DD... it's miserable that u can say something like that about anyone!

Coming to my complaint..

I REALLY HOPE THE MODS READ IT...

You close 5 DD drooling threads coz they're plain drooling threads.. "she looks like a princess.. etc. coz they don't really make sense.. everyone knows DD is gorgeous but when ur not even putting it in a different way and just describing her features or calling her a doll.. it kind of gets annoying... But due to such threads.. some threads which actually are something.. like talking about her wardrobe or talking about her changed behavior in the show are also closed (when they shouldn't be) coz they make sense but just coz few members write pointless comments "yes! she looks beautiful in every dress" or "all her expressions are beautiful" is annoying!

Also, the VD threads.. which have some fun discussions about him being "attacked" or everyone trying to romance him are closed just so that some fans don't complain that mods are being partial.. even though those VD threads are not drooling post.

And very seriously... i haven't really seen any drooling posts about VD!

Also, some comments on VD posts which are about how well he did in the episode like "DD makes him look good" are not welcome!

Like how can DD make him look good! And then there are retaliation posts which create this unpleasant atmosphere!

I agree some comments can be avoided because u need to keep in mind that DD fans will be reading it too... but then i have seen Fun posts where both DD and VD are being mocked.. in a healthy way.. but even those aren't taken lightly which is so not done!

I know the mods aren't at fault coz they're trying to please everyone.. all the fan groups all the time.. but there should be mods.. sincere ones from both the groups..

Sane and genuine people.. so that neither group has any complaints unaddressed (say a VD fan grp msging a VD mod)... they can pm their respective mods who can discuss it with other mods (DD and DVD ones).

And they themselves need to be clear about what drooling posts are and what not!

They themselves need to be clear what is bashing and what's fun and BBB!

And lastly, they cannot keep everyone happy. One or the other person is always going to be at fault be it VD fans or DD, be it retaliation or instigating fights.

Also.. there are new fans here who have really nothing to do with the show and just keep adding fuel to the fire. Some such members need a reality check and be kicked out.

It's really sad to see old members leaving or DVD fans choosing sides!