Gosh, so many wonderful reviews and analyses, I had to spend time liking every post. If I've missed out, i apologise, please go ahead and accept my 'like'😊...and I have to add my two bit even at the risk of sounding repetitive.
SD- Really loved your posts, the emotional ramifications of yesterday's episode are indeed far reaching for our favourite couple.
I read and reread your point on Dipali, to see if I could understand that particular bit, it really upset me.
Let me take refuge in my one of my favourite quotes on love by Ayn Rand'
'He will always be attracted to the woman who reflects his deepest vision of himself, the woman whose surrender permits him to experience – or to fake – a sense of self-esteem. The man who is proudly certain of his own value, will want the highest type of woman he can find, the woman he admires, the strongest, the hardest to conquer – because only the possession of a heroine will give him the sense of an achievement, not the possession of a brainless s**t.'...
It's very easy to see how Madhu and Dipali fit into the above quote. I think I'm nitpicking on this one, I somehow wanted RK to dismiss the 'love' part not just because he was a fool but because it could'nt have been love at all. After so many years, he can and should have been able to sift this fact out of his pain.
But through the ongoing discussions, i accept: now that Madhu knows the truth, it is really upto her to deal with Dipali in her own way, she will never let Dipali hurt RK again. And it is upto her to prove to RK that love is not equal to dhoka.
Also, in the soap format, this gives a lot of leeway for misuse. But that is a fact we just have to deal with 😃
SD again your quote, " I don't want RK to pity her or see her love and go for the pheras. Just like the pillows removal, even the rest of pheras taking, Madhu should be demanding it from RK, now that he bared his soul to her. Coz its easy for her to fight with him. He always end up giving whatever she asks of him. That's why I don't see it as the pain for her, its time now she honors the marriage like he has been honoring it and all he is waiting for is for her to ask him to give those rights. Trust me...the man is actually waiting for that.
Very, very true. I too feel very strongly that RK has to get into the marriage again with his senses intact..with his dimaag ruling rather than his dil...that is when he will value it, i don't know how the CVs will bring this about. And also, like Zoya said yesterday...slow is fine, but how slow???TRPs ka khel hain, basically.
@Himbin-"Madhu also got to know about Mallik's third attempt and what a moment for Madhu today...The guy who once vowed to break her courage and destroy her soul is now asking her how in the world could he ever let that happen to her...let her go through the same pain he went through...see her soul shattered..??" ....
I was waiting for this to happen, this particular magnanimity is the real RK..or Rishabh, this is an indicator that Rishabh is in no way lost, he is not dead, his heart exists, and beats fast for Madhu, she needed to know this fact to get more confidence in the relationship. In fact, the whole episode yesterday was for Madhu to assimilate and understand her husband...first things first, she's fallen head over heels😃, that's a good sign because madhu becomes a sherni for people she loves.
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