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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: shridevigaddam


CookieRaider,

  • I have apologized.
  • I have not attacked Agent Darling. SO PLS WILL YOU STOP SPREADING RUMOURS AROUND. A LIE when spoken by 100 people, it seems a Truth even though the REAL TRUTH might be something else.
  • If you wanted it to be in normal English and that too understandable english, you should have worded the apology and showed me for my scrutiny as well. I offered that in my negotiation, Didn't I ? We just had to agree on mutually acceptable words


Re, RED BALD CREATURE/THINGY - I don't know what CookieRaider means.
I am not offended by what you said. Because you have done what I expected. People go to Tirupati Balaji Devastanam and get their head shaved. Two reasons

1) To ask God for Help.
The unpleasant sight of the shaved head and its responses steel us from HURT and INSULT. It somehow shields us from other's Anger by putting a stop to anger emotion and channelizing the energy into looking at something Grotesque. So I am with you there. The Grotestque reaction well expressed. It steels me, toughens me up. That is what I need.

2) To express gratitude to God for helping me.
I am yet to do that. And maybe I will go when that call comes from God.


SD, I am in awe. so gracious, so humble under such trying circumstances. We could all learn from you. Salute.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: CookieRaider

Okk i be sweet...not get personal...farah darling anymore rules i should know about😆


Arey kuch nahin only enjoy 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
I'm sorry, but I'm just not able to let this go. Do you guys have any idea what religious significance offering our hair at the temple has to us? It is an act of ultimate sacrifice, of surrendering your ego before God. In trying to defend your friend from an imaginary enemy, you've insulted something that is sacred to us. I'm so disappointed today. I found the English-speaking taane and 'intelligent people' comments quite hurtful, but I tried to let it go and look at things from your angle. I even apologized to a couple of people if we hurt them unintentionally. But this is beyond everything I have seen so far.




Edited by bhoomi.s - 12 years ago
Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: shridevigaddam


CookieRaider,

  • I have apologized.
  • I have not attacked Agent Darling. SO PLS WILL YOU STOP SPREADING RUMOURS AROUND. A LIE when spoken by 100 people, it seems a Truth even though the REAL TRUTH might be something else.
  • If you wanted it to be in normal English and that too understandable english, you should have worded the apology and showed me for my scrutiny as well. I offered that in my negotiation, Didn't I ? We just had to agree on mutually acceptable words


Re, RED BALD CREATURE/THINGY - I don't know what CookieRaider means.
I am not offended by what you said. Because you have done what I expected. People go to Tirupati Balaji Devastanam and get their head shaved. Two reasons

1) To ask God for Help.
The unpleasant sight of the shaved head and its responses steel us from HURT and INSULT. It somehow shields us from other's Anger by putting a stop to anger emotion and channelizing the energy into looking at something Grotesque. So I am with you there. The Grotestque reaction well expressed. It steels me, toughens me up. That is what I need.

2) To express gratitude to God for helping me.
I am yet to do that. And maybe I will go when that call comes from God.

Look im sorry for the personal attack but that is just how I am taught how to deal with peepz. Ever since middle school people taught me how to deal with all of the haters. I dont want to argue about that post anymore. I understand you and I do know how it feels to be picked on and personally attacked, at my private school i was for all of my beliefs(i went to a catholic school and im sikh). What the world did to me, i gave it all back to the world later on when i became student body prez. Well what u did with ur head i could never do, my friends n finance would never be able to accept the a bald me. I didnt know about ur religious views so im sorry. I am taught to attack a persons weakest point to get what you need, others always reinforced that and now i fit into the sterotype of being a mean sorority bitch.
With me if i have a problem or dislike a person i say to ther face and dont hide behind any sheilds.You gave me the reason for ur shaved head i told you the reason for my bitchy behavior. Now if ur gonna take this like FQ and make fun of me then feel free to do so.
Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: PurpleHorizon


Cookie, to be a Queen you have to maintain a standard right? And abusing others or making them feel low doesn't raise your standards😊.

Purple darling u haven't seen the dark cruel side of peepz like i have, and the only way to fight them was to play by their rules...the events in my life shaped me to become this way. I never used to play with peepz emotions, insult them or make bets on someone's actions but i do. i know its wrong but thats just the way things are handled here. After a while you dont even feel guilty anymore.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: CookieRaider

Look im sorry for the personal attack but that is just how I am taught how to deal with peepz. Ever since middle school people taught me how to deal with all of the haters. I dont want to argue about that post anymore. I understand you and I do know how it feels to be picked on and personally attacked, at my private school i was for all of my beliefs(i went to a catholic school and im sikh). What the world did to me, i gave it all back to the world later on when i became student body prez. Well what u did with ur head i could never do, my friends n finance would never be able to accept the a bald me. I didnt know about ur religious views so im sorry. I am taught to attack a persons weakest point to get what you need, others always reinforced that and now i fit into the sterotype of being a mean sorority bitch.
With me if i have a problem or dislike a person i say to ther face and dont hide behind any sheilds.You gave me the reason for ur shaved head i told you the reason for my bitchy behavior. Now if ur gonna take this like FQ and make fun of me then feel free to do so.


CookieRaider,

I hear you.
No I am not going to take anything of this personally. I wouldn't like to. Let's shake hands at that. Can I hug you ? as I don't see the shake hand emoticon. Pls allow me 🤗

This time my deep felt apology for being an instrument to all this furore. Actually I am distressed that in all of this Poco's memory came up. Please do understand and explain to your friends that this was not my intention at all.

And my line.. it needs to be a bully to beat a bully ...Didn't you just tell me that's how you are coping with bad people around in your school ? So...I was like...in that state when my sister narrated that incident... that feeling in my mind and posted that way.
The outside world really calls out to be powerful. The weak have no place. That does not mean we have to become bad bullies, We can be a good bully as well. And I see your intention in that.

Cheers,
Shridevi

P.S: I seriously do not want any of us being admonished by Shifali now. 😆 I am just expecting the worst.

PPS: Every forum gives new friends to us. And I am open to bonding as long as I know to respond and express myself appropriately.



Edited by shridevigaddam - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: CookieRaider

Purple darling u haven't seen the dark cruel side of peepz like i have, and the only way to fight them was to play by their rules...the events in my life shaped me to become this way. I never used to play with peepz emotions, insult them or make bets on someone's actions but i do. i know its wrong but thats just the way things are handled here. After a while you dont even feel guilty anymore.

And we are here.. to show you the more brighter side to the world and people. PPL have a belief that we Kutte log .. are fitting to the name. BUT the truth is far, infact we are very loving amongst ourselves.
Your belief currently is "A weakness in attitude, becomes a weakness of character".
True but not always situational. This world is definately a cruel place because life is like eating artichokes, you have to go through so much to get so little.
BUT how you deal with it shapes you up. You're willing to accept the help - I see it. It was a nice gesture of apologising and explaining you did above to Sri. The reason why you did.. maybe you don't yet realise - Sri didn't respond back the same way, and kept her standards up - even though she was hurt most probably with those comments. BUT she still gave you respect and in return she earned respect from you. And for your bit above - you gained mine.
And follow the forum's conduct missy! There's only one person who breaks the rules here and that is NOBODY!. Get it.. 😛😆
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: shridevigaddam


CookieRaider,

I hear you.
No I am not going to take anything of this personally. I wouldn't like to. Let's shake hands at that. Can I hug you ? as I don't see the shake hand emoticon. Pls allow me 🤗And for this Sri - Can I hug you 🤗

This time my deep felt apology for being an instrument to all this furore. Actually I am distressed that in all of this Poco's memory came up. Please do understand and explain to your friends that this was not my intention at all.

And my line.. it needs to be a bully to beat a bully ...Didn't you just tell me that's how you are coping with bad people around in your school ? So...I was like...in that state when my sister narrated that incident... that feeling in my mind and posted that way.
The outside world really calls out to be powerful. The weak have no place. That does not mean we have to become bad bullies, We can be a good bully as well. And I see your intention in that.

Cheers,
Shridevi

P.S: I seriously do not want any of us being admonished by Shifali now. 😆 I am just expecting the worst.

PPS: Every forum gives new friends to us. And I am open to bonding as long as I know to respond and express myself appropriately.



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Posted: 12 years ago
@Sarina, Koyel - i dont get any of u and why r u getting angry and on whom?...dont tell me u r fighting for Poco...did she ask u to fight for her?...as such i dont feel anyone has bashed her...and for God's sake stop saying stuff like - oh she left us and all...she very much exists and she doesnt want her name to b dragged in this forum
and there was no need of this topic anyways esp. to include VD fans and Farah's post in it, sorry to say this
Thankyou
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Nishi.Singh

@Sarina, Koyel - i dont get any of u and why r u getting angry and on whom?...dont tell me u r fighting for Poco...did she ask u to fight for her?...as such i dont feel anyone has bashed her...and for God's sake stop saying stuff like - oh she left us and all...she very much exists and she doesnt want her name to b dragged in this forum

and there was no need of this topic anyways esp. to include VD fans and Farah's post in it, sorry to say this
Thankyou


Huh last line mein kya bola tune 🤔

Ok I got it 🥱 Me and my brain 😆
Edited by Coeur2PsychoFMS - 12 years ago

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