Dear fandoms, how about being human? - Page 5

Originally posted by: Maaneet_Vidu

great post poco ... But am not getting why some are making fun of dd n ddians ?
Well most of us trying to maintain peace here ... If we are not saying anything positive abt other actors then neither are we posting something negative ... Its just that we dont wanna comment abt vd right now ... That's it ... But people having problem with our calling dd princess, problem coz we are her droolers ?? Is it a mistake ?
We only expect to make friends here ... We respect the love which others are having for their fav. actors ... It hurts when they make fun of dd n ddians coz we are her insane droolers.
I hope they wont repeat it again.
Am not saying we dont make mistakes ... we do ... But there's no intention behind them.

Once again Thanks for this post.

Originally posted by: MaanGeet_GurTi

a very much needed post..thank u PC 😊

both fan groups need to work together n make ViShti/DVD and MB forum rule IF 😊

Originally posted by: dolly10

Brilliant post👏

i always loved ur post...because ur posts r always sensible.

Thanks for much needed post🤗

Originally posted by: PinkChocolate

Thank you, Vida😃. The issue is that when you praise only DD, the other fandoms feel that you think MB is a one-woman show - of course, that is not your intention but that is how it comes across. MB is teamwork and it needs likewise appreciation. How will we all make friends if we don't open the gates for each-other?

Niceness is not a one way road - we all need to be on the same page. You guys are not insane and there is nothing wrong in calling DD your princess. Its just that because you are DD-centric , people feel left out and the impression goes that you don't care about anyone else. So, what we need is good communication. 😳

Originally posted by: austenrox

yeah i did something like that as well..i didn't mean to but i did...i said a lot of things i shouldn't have said...but it feels weird when you see people writing thousands of pages only about one person creating magic as if the whole team did nothing for the past 2 weeks...the dream sequence had dd , tirshna and vd in it so we should appreciate all of them for such a beautiful scene..but no..there are thousands of pages praising dd's beauty as if others were waering an invisibility cloak...people made posts about watcxhing the show ONLY FOR DD'S BENEFIT.. which made me angry cause the whole team , not only DD is working hard for making the show what it is...but none of them are as praised as dd is? why? dd didnt come for the first two weeks and still the show got amazing trps..why not appreciate that as much as we appreciate dd? why the godess treatment to only one person? as if only one person is doing the show? thats what i don't understand. yes i was irrational. yes i was immature. probably i don't have humanity. but all this sad chadaooing one particular person and making it overlook other people's hard work made me lose my sense. akal ghaas chad ne gayi. whatever. i was wrong. if someone constructively criticises the show or the actor , especially dd..everyone calls it bashing and sab us log pe chad jaatey hai...as if no one has the right to critically state an opinion. whatever.idc anymore. cause nobody understands that at the end of the day , these people are actors who grow , evolve and prosper as humans and as actors with every show..nobody is perfect and everybody improves with every challenge and new shades of their career taking place..nobody is a princess or queen or king of acting not even actors like rani or nassirudin shah as they themselves said and believe that even though spending so many years in this industry..they still know that they learn more and grow more as actors everyday.sky is the limit..and same goes for dd..its us jo inn logon ko aasmaan pe bithaa dete hai..lekin yeh bhool jaatey hai.koi bhi "princess" ya "angel" ya "sunshine" yaa "king of acting" hone se peheley actors hai jo roz improve kartey hai .

Originally posted by: Azmatazz

I guess its becoming a never ending cycle

"Fandoms" keep behaving like kids ridiculing each other... And a few sane keep making such posts... I was starting to feel that this forum might have something positive going on but alas it was just a figment of my imagination... Its like a monkey comes in to make the two cats fight and then does have all the fun watching and enjoying the cat fights...

Thanks PinkChocolate. Its atleast a bit hearting to see posts as such... Guess we are still not learning our lessons... Not the hard way too...

Originally posted by: PinkChocolate

Thanks for at least having the guts and dignity to accept and stand by what you said. 👏... Its OK to react in the heat of the moment because you are only human. What is not right is having a fanatic streak and a tendency to harbour hatred for anyone who doesn't think like you do.

We cannot control human behaviour. People are frantic, obsessive and unreasonable for no reason. The section of the fandom you are talking about is that passionate obtuse fandom who idolize people because they want to live a life through them. DD is a good looking girl and a fine actress. When she or VD and all the other actors are put on a pedestal, its because people feel inferior to them or else they think its their business to protect them. Don't even ask how obtuse the human mind can go.

You have a choice, though. You can either play the cat and mouse game with the fanatics or else word your own opinion in a sensible post. 😳