Discuss - The student-teacher relatnship - Page 3

i think there is nothin wrong in student-teacher realtionship if they both are nearly the same age

What is wrong in teacher falling in love with student or vice versa

There is nothing wrong with teacher falling in love with students or vice versa and love has no boundaries,age limits or any racial thing....love it happens suddenly and noone knows it but as a student-teacher relationship it should be after the student graduated and they can continue their relationship because if in colleage the relationship continues it will affect the atmosphere and parents will try complaining to the principle that their children are getting ruined because of it....this relationship should keep outside and not in colleage...even i had some crushes with my teacher but love none as i respect them as my Guru my god who teaches me knowledge to live in the world....but love it depends how the teacher or student is

Do you think it will hamper seriously the belief in the instituition

No i don't think so......teachers is there to teach and gives students their knowledge which wat they have learnt pass it to them that the students will able to do in future...its how the students takes it....if one of them fall in love i am sure they knows their limit in the instituition itself

Or are you already to accept just because it has our fav main lead actor in the serial

No not that i started seeing the serial because of Rajeev Bhaiya then the storyline is different its not ekta's type....but i never a Rajveer-Naina Jodi fan because their chemistry could not attract me till now😭 they suit each other just like Aamna suits Iqbal or even Rajeev Bhaiya suits Shveta but i could not see any chemistry in Rajveer-Naina Jodi like you guys do sorry guys my opinion.....but i love Rajeev Bhaiya intense eyes for Naina his eyes says thousands of emotions but their jodi to be honest i don't like it so boring🤢 as both are serious people....i love Huda-Naina jodi although the chemistry shown very little due to Rajveer-Naina Jodi but love of them is intense and looks really real that they are falling in love with each other unknown to them and yes opposite attracts mischievious dude😆 to plain jane😉

If this happens in reality how will you take it

i don't mind....but it should have a limit on it not in the campus but outside because this will make you loose your studies n job and your relationship too because duniyawale kabhi kabhi aise pavitra pyar ko nahin samjhte jo old cultured hotein hai....thats my view

sorry guys if i hurt your feeling but its my point of view on students-teacher relationship or even in Rajveer-Naina relationship....thats just my point of view

Teacher Student no problem if the age difference is not much. 😃

Resham, very good topic....
Well, nothing is clear yet about which kind of the realtionship between the teacher yaani Captain Rajveer, and the cadet yaani Naina's realtionship have ....
So, friends let us wait, and watch what will happen INSHALLAH 😳

Regard
Rajeev and Aamna jodi's biggest admirer and supporter forever and ever Zee....

a nice topic 👏

i dont think its wrong 4 a teacher to fall in love wiv a student 😳 😳 😳

i mean look at raj's and naina's age...they only ave like a few years between dem 😳 😳 😳

it really doesnt make a huge difference yaar 😳

xxx hinal xxx 😛

P.S ill add to this post later on 😛

teacher to me is someone u put ur complete trust in for guiding u supporting u and building ur character i m of the opinion that irrespective of age there should be limits to a teacher student relationship it should not foster into love because not all but most of the time it creates embarrassing situations and incidents and disgraces the trustful and pure relation of a student and teacher.
irrespective of the fact that i m rajeev fan i dont agree to his relation with his student.

my reply in red

Originally posted by: resham_tam

Ok since yest, I have been seeing here tht some believe tht student teacher relationship shd nt be hampered.

Answer these questions if u say so:-😆

Wht is wrong in teacher falling in love with student or vice versa?no probs if their love is pure n no hanky panky stuff involved in it. also the teacher shud not take undue advantage of the situation or be partial to tht student, if all these they can follow then gr8 i dont see any problem in it....as long as they both r unmarried.

Do u think it will hamper seriously the beleif in the institution?no i wont...everyone has to do a job for earning daily bread & butter ...so wats wrong in being a teacher n meeting ur soulmate/life partner there. in form of student or teacher...only they shud keep it clean as long as the student doesnt complete the tenure.

Or are u ready to accept just bec it has our main fav actor in the serial?no ...rajeev is not my fav but i think he's doin a gud job in the role....it wudnt matter who plays the role as its the character tht i like n not rajveer...i mean he's gud no doubt but i m not fanatic abt him.

If this happens in reality how will u take it? it has happened twice...

1. madhavan ...he was my neighbour n he fell in love with a girl in a scout camp where he was the guide coach n married her later.

2.another time my senior in college fell in love with her professor who was 2 yrs senior to her . and they got married after she complete her graduation....they were dating but kept it neat n waited till she completed her grad before tieing the knot. both didnt misuse their position.

both the cases age gap was less than 5 -6 yrs. so i see no harm in it.

Answer these frankly and dont fight.😆.just express urself and keep healthy discussions.😳

well...ok i am a total RN fan (uptill now atleast)...per the q u asked abt relatign this situation with real life and how wud i react...umm..
ok..i hate to say this...but to be honest..if a friend of mine was to be in luv with my teacher and vice verca..so both student teacher were in luv..i dunnno iwud prolly find the whole situation a bit wierd..becuz this person isee as a teacher with loads of respect..and a friend of my age seeing the same teacher with a vview of more than a teacher seeing rthe teacher as her luv and the teacher seeing student as his love..um...i wud definitely find the whole thign wierd...

BUT THEN...cum to think of it..if i wud happen to think that way i know that wud be my lack of understandings...becuz if there is not much age diff between the student and teacher-then there's nothing wrong witht he whole affair i gues..i mean...if the guy was to be sumthign other than teacher-then there were chances of the guya nd gal fallign for each other too- and v wud hav accepted the affair then..then whts the prob when the same guy is her teacher-teaching is just a profession and lets see it as such...there's doctor..lawyer..TEACHER...there's nuthign wrong with it i mean finding a teacher within the person u luv or finding the person u luv within the person who teaches u...the teacher may also fall for any student if the interests meet and stuff...becuz as amitabh said in kank--> maut aur mohabbat bin bulaye mehmaan hain..luv can happen anytime to any1..

now reversing from this modern points..i wanna cum to sumthigntraditional..a saying or just sumthing i've (and i thinkmany of us) have been taught since childhood..that is..my parents always told me ke ustaad baap ke baad hota hai..*i know how wierd that sounded but its just an altered version of whtever i remeber 😳 *..but wht i guess the saying means is that a teacher deserves the same amount of respect as u give to ur adults and parents..now relating this fact to student-teacher affair..first i freaked out when i thought abt it this way..but then iwas like thats not wrong either becuz as a teacher-ur supposed to give them a lot of respect..and as ur luv even they're supposed to have a lot of respect..that respect along with luv is not a bad combination..

but then..it all depends of ur views again..as kids v saw our teachers as "aunty" and "uncle"...as v grew up those terms became "madam" and "sir"...which r not as much of the adult typa names now..and with those changing terms so did our thinkign style..at first all teachers were seen as sum1 liek our parent...now if v see a yougn teacher v know better than to assume them to be our parent's age 😉 ..and maybe in uni or college if u see ur teacher as abt ur age-the way in which u see them mite be diff...so....again..to me i guess more than him being my teacher wht wud mean more is the aage diff..and the interests nd attitudes..if the student teacher hav no or lil age diff and they both enjoy time with each other and basically they both are each other's TYPA dream girl/guy...then there'd be nuthign wrong to proceed..

PHEWW.....sorry abt the longgggggg post 😳 😳 😳

Originally posted by: shinningstar

my reply in red

exactly my point..i guess the only reason v see teacher-student relationship as wierd is cuz v r used to teachers being like our uncles aunties..per now things havchanged..teachers r same age as us..they're just sum1 who share their knowledge withus..they r doing their job..

age diff is the key point v r talking abt in such cases..and raj-naina hav no or very lil age diff..so all's kewl..however..umm...with a guilty expression i will also saythat yeah me supporting RN has to do big deal with capt. rajveer being played by rajeev..agar koi aur hota to shayed main naina huda ki fanhoti😆per cuz its raj...its alll kewl yo directors show us sum ROMANTIC SCENES YAAR BOHT HOGAYA BHARGAV KA CHAKKAR USKO KAHO PHUTLE YAHAN SE NAHI TOH RN FANZ USKO😡😡

p.s: sorry..thora emotional ho gayi😳😳😳

I'm posting something for the first time just because i feel so strongly about the subject!!

why do guys forget that Rajveer is not just her teacher, he is Naina's brother's best friend. Does that put things in a different perspective?

And in fact as someone mentioned, that is what got them together. So, as a teacher, he is keeping her at a distance, but as his best friend's sister, he is in love wih her. They belong to the same generation.

And haven't you seen any cases where a guy falls in love with his friend's sister?

AM REALLY SORRY FOR THE LOOOOOONG POST