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S a r a h thumbnail
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Swappy yeh quote tere comments per nahii thha😳😳😳... just coz it was on second page thats why I quoted it😳

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Swappy and sarah,

I just loved ur answers..

And thnks all guys who replied..

and keeping it healthy which a discussion shd be..
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: resham_tam

Swappy and sarah,

I just loved ur answers..

And thnks all guys who replied..

and keeping it healthy which a discussion shd be..

thanx Resham but you havent put your thought yet on this😳😳😳

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: resham_tam

Swappy and sarah,

I just loved ur answers..

And thnks all guys who replied..

and keeping it healthy which a discussion shd be..

ur welcum resham.....par aapke SMS's kahaan hain...😆😆😉

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Posted: 18 years ago
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But me wanna write one more answer....thanx to yoji I shud say....It was she who told it....I think....

LOVE IS IMMATERIAL.....

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Posted: 18 years ago
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hmmm....i know two ppl who are very personal to me..and they r married..and the husband was a teacher...and his wife was his student...though both of them have less age gap between them. i have seen them,loved them and admired them....its not cheap...until and unless you make it one..depends on the teacher as well as the student. there can be limits to anything...but love...love can never ever have any limits. its the only thing which has no boundaries...but it has its own respect...and grace...one who breaks the respect and the grace ...make the love cheap and indecent. 😊
sorry if i offended anyone...my personal view 😊
Edited by drymaple - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Gr88 discussion resham!! 👏 👏

Wht is wrong in teacher falling in love with student or vice versa?
Frankly,d only thing wrong is ddat socially ppl mite nt find it acceptable....but deres nuthin wong wid a student-teacher relationship..my moms best frnd fell in luv wid her teacher while doing her PG..n tho initally her parents dint like it..it all worked out...2day,dey're happily settled....
deres nuthin very wrong wid a student-teacher re;ationship..

Do u think it will hamper seriously the beleif in the institution?
No.....i don't think so...a teachers job is 2 teach,make deir students understand dem..understand deir students, n jus be dere for dem...
during dis process...it so happens dat 2 ppl fall in luv...d teacher may admire sum qualities in d student,n d student respects d teacher 4 wat he/she is...n dis may eventually turn 2 luv..

Or are u ready to accept just bec it has our main fav actor in the serial?
Na...nuthin liek dat..frankly,before watchin LRL....neither rajeev nor priyanka di were my faves 😛 ...i started luvin dem coz of deir chemistry onscreen 😳 ..n also coz dey were able to tackle dis task so well as actors.. 👏 😳

If this happens in reality how will u take it?
I'll hav no probs..it usually happens in college cases..PG n G...n if both dteaher n student r ok wid it,den no one has d rite to comment against it...after all..dats luv.. 😳 😳


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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: resham_tam

Ok since yest, I have been seeing here tht some believe tht student teacher relationship shd nt be hampered.

Answer these questions if u say so:-😆

Wht is wrong in teacher falling in love with student or vice versa?

Do u think it will hamper seriously the beleif in the institution?

Or are u ready to accept just bec it has our main fav actor in the serial?

If this happens in reality how will u take it?

Answer these frankly and dont fight.😆.just express urself and keep healthy discussions.😳



Amazing topic Resham!

I too think there is nothing wrong in a student - teacher relationship. The most important criteria for any relationship to work is that it should be based on trust and understanding . Also the relationship can be successful if the two parties are 100% committed to it.

In the case of a relationship between a teacher and a student however, it would be better to pursue the relationship after the course of study is over. A teacher needs to evaluate his student objectively. Such objectiveness cannot be achieved if the teacher and student are linked in a relationship.

"The mentor's primary function is to be a transitional figure. The mentor represents a combination of parent and peer; he must be both and not purely either one. If he is entirely a peer, he cannot represent the advanced level toward which the protege is striving. If he is very parental, it is difficult for both of them to overcome the generational difference and move toward the peer relationship that is the ultimate (though never fully realized) goal of the relationship."


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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: resham_tam

Wht is wrong in teacher falling in love with student or vice versa?

there is nothing wrong in naina-rajvir embarking on a relationship other than than of mentor-protegee...as rajvir is not a teacher in essense...he is a undercover teacher...but yes at this present moment in time rajvir should no take nay step which will hamper their freindship as the situtaion at kma is tense.

Do u think it will hamper seriously the beleif in the institution?

at kma it will and in real life it would too.

Or are u ready to accept just bec it has our main fav actor in the serial?

nope its not that..i think i have no probs with naina and rajvir becoming a jodi because he is not her teacher...if he had taken god know how many degress and courses to become a teacher to educate chidren or youths..then yes i would have a problem as his duty would be to soley teach.

umm....Controversial...so i will stick to discusiing these questions in relation to LRL only.😳

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Posted: 18 years ago
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I reserve this space for me..

Ok now my answers here wd be:

There is nothing wrong in student falling for mentor or otherwise..love knows no boundaries. And if it is frm both the sides then it is bt natural..till it is pure and strong.

No one will lose any belief in this institution. As far as this is pure and immortal its fine.

Just bec it has our fav actor, one should nt be biased on this. In reality it can happn bt in reel life it is made to happen bec of their story line decided on main characters. If talking abt this show, then there is nothing wrong of raj falling for naina..love really knows no bounds..

In reality if it happns then I m quite optimistic abt it and feel nothing is wrong...

Edited by resham_tam - 18 years ago

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