wasn't he a bit rude?? - Page 2

well yeah it must've been sad for ritu fanz..i mean i can imagine me being sad if sumthignlike that happend with naina..par thing is abt raj being rude..well let's think abt it- wht else cud he have dun that wudn't have sounded rude?

well first option wud've been saying her to give himtime to think..but v all know he never thinks abt ritu..and he duznt feel that way..and the wway he talks to ritu u know by his attitude that he duznt feel anythign special and he acts very casual towards her..if he had feelings he wud've gotten alert when ritu raised the topic abt luv..but he duznt have feeligns for her..so it wud've been wrong to keep her waiting when the answer was no..

another option wud've been to just ignore her proposal as if he didnt ever hear it..i think that wud've been the cruelest and rudest thing to do..and wudnt have matched his character at all..

other possibility wud've been...to say yes..but he didnt luv her..and he's not the typa guy who wud say yes just not to make her feel hurt and later on hurt her..so that possibility is ruled out..

well i guess the best option for him was to be clear with her...and u knwo wht guys if vv put ourselves in hsi place v all wud agree that many of us mite just pretend to have not "heard the other person's proposal" just becuz v knwo v cant say yes and v cant sayno either to hurt them..

but raj had the guts to go and ask her to cum with him..and say her straight up that he didnt have any feelings..thatis very harddd iknow..per in these situations thatis the best thing to get things straight right away so that thigns dont mess up for u in future..
to conclude: captain raj rocks..and yes it is right ke navin ki tarah he is a total gentleman..oh gosh im so desperate to watch captain raj and his naina AH singh together..the way he looked at her when she said v both knwot he girl wud be very lucky..it was as if he was tellignher with his eyes that she was the lucky girl then😛..hahaha

Originally posted by: angelic eyes

i disagree wid u ranju for the first time yaar!!
i agree wid ninaad!!
just beacuse u say no to sumone doesnt mean he was rude!!
i am not defending him because i am his fan!!
but because he wasnt rude------
he wud have been rude if he wud have played wid her emotions! he was very sweet enough 2 tell her that he doesnt love her straight on her face and dint wanna make her feel miserable!
if he wanted he wudnt have said it 2 her and wud have made her feel awkward always! but he didnt do that because he cares and respects for her!!
he did not wanna hurt her later and made it clear in the beginning only!!
isnt it always better 2 hurt her now rather than making her wait 4 his decision and wat wud she have felt then when she wud have come 2 know about it much later???
his conforntation clearly showed that he cared for her and thats why made it very clear 2 her that he doesnt love her!!

Originally posted by: angelic eyes

i disagree wid u ranju for the first time yaar!!
i agree wid ninaad!!
just beacuse u say no to sumone doesnt mean he was rude!!
i am not defending him because i am his fan!!
but because he wasnt rude------
he wud have been rude if he wud have played wid her emotions! he was very sweet enough 2 tell her that he doesnt love her straight on her face and dint wanna make her feel miserable!
if he wanted he wudnt have said it 2 her and wud have made her feel awkward always! but he didnt do that because he cares and respects for her!!
he did not wanna hurt her later and made it clear in the beginning only!!
isnt it always better 2 hurt her now rather than making her wait 4 his decision and wat wud she have felt then when she wud have come 2 know about it much later???
his conforntation clearly showed that he cared for her and thats why made it very clear 2 her that he doesnt love her!!

Originally posted by: ranjitha

Its OK yoji!! I simply loved UR honesty and it was just my opinion!!

thanxx yaar!! 🤗

ur opinion also is very honest and seemed very unbiased even at the fact that u like rajeev!!👏👏

great going girl!!👏

Originally posted by: angelic eyes

i disagree wid u ranju for the first time yaar!!
i agree wid ninaad!!
just beacuse u say no to sumone doesnt mean he was rude!!
i am not defending him because i am his fan!!
but because he wasnt rude------
he wud have been rude if he wud have played wid her emotions! he was very sweet enough 2 tell her that he doesnt love her straight on her face and dint wanna make her feel miserable!
if he wanted he wudnt have said it 2 her and wud have made her feel awkward always! but he didnt do that because he cares and respects for her!!
he did not wanna hurt her later and made it clear in the beginning only!!
isnt it always better 2 hurt her now rather than making her wait 4 his decision and wat wud she have felt then when she wud have come 2 know about it much later???
his conforntation clearly showed that he cared for her and thats why made it very clear 2 her that he doesnt love her!!

I agree with you yojana.I didn't find him rude when he refused ritu.