wasn't he a bit rude??

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Don't kill me for this, but I felt Raj behaved very rudely with Ritu!!
I'm a RN fan and I was happy that raj doesn't love Ritu, but This is not the way to refuse the proposal!! He is a gentle man, but only to others. He always behaves so carelessly and rudely with Ritu. If not love, atleast friendship would have hurt him to see her expressions and her tears, but it hardly affected him!!
As Ritu said, If someday Naina too rejects him, will HE be able to accept it so easily??

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Hey...luk at it this way.....being a gentleman dsnt mean he shldnt say no to someone šŸ˜•......cmon I think he tried to be as gentle as possible n i really admire him fr not keepin Ritu guessn......in such cases leavn no doubt in the othr persons mind is a brave step cause it rquires immense strength to face up n say no.............
he dsnt love ritu n so said no........straightfrwrd. I was very srprised wen ritu went ahd n askd wht he wld do if smbdy rejected him!! cmon man ! wht dya wnt him to do ...accept ya wen he dsnt wanna !....
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Posted: 18 years ago
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no no not at all dear


it is only that he was straight because to clearly say no to anyone takes a lot of courage and guts.
an one thing i appreciated of the character that he didnot keep her waiting .

so he was not at all rude he was very sweet
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Agree with u ranjitha.....he was rude 😔 ....but I think wo jab usse pyaarr hi nahin karta toe bechara wo bhi kya karega ....he had to say NO....but from Shveta's dialogue and Naina's reaction in the last scene it is damn sure....IF he is in love with Naina will also refuse Raj's proposol .....I was feeling so badddd for ritu....
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Posted: 18 years ago
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i have the exact same feelings. Actually i am a lil angry at both Raj n Naina 😔

Rajveer blushed so much when he saw ritu in the earlier episodes...........it looked as if he was in awe of her and look at him now šŸ˜•

but ritu must try to forget him,and shldnt let love break her self-esteem.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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yess I agree with you Ranjitha... two times he misbehaved with Ritu... first time when she proposed that was a limit... just for a cadet who has come to him.. he left her alone there without answering her... she had tears... he shuould have respected her feelings by saying I need some time to think....
Next day also what did he say, a confused, broken sentenced answer which she had to predict... he could have said it like its too early to decide or something like that... he always has good points when it comes to cadets and their happiness but why Ritu.. he is always speechless... whats wrong with him šŸ˜• šŸ˜•
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: friskysam

i have the exact same feelings. Actually i am a lil angry at both Raj n Naina 😔

Rajveer blushed so much when he saw ritu in the earlier episodes...........it looked as if he was in awe of her and look at him now šŸ˜•

but ritu must try to forget him,and shldnt let love break her self-esteem.

I think his constant blushing and teasing her made her feel he was interested in her. If one noticed, she was very cold towards him in the earlier stages. He was the one who made the first move towards her and then the other day he tells her "I am sorry if my behaviour made you think if I have feelings for you". Then Dr. Ritu was better off giving him the cold treatment. Even when everyone came to know about Naina being Navin's sister, before the pshyco-analysis test, the way capt. pulled Ritu's arm, it seemed as if she belonged to him.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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i disagree wid u ranju for the first time yaar!!
i agree wid ninaad!!
just beacuse u say no to sumone doesnt mean he was rude!!
i am not defending him because i am his fan!!
but because he wasnt rude------
he wud have been rude if he wud have played wid her emotions! he was very sweet enough 2 tell her that he doesnt love her straight on her face and dint wanna make her feel miserable!
if he wanted he wudnt have said it 2 her and wud have made her feel awkward always! but he didnt do that because he cares and respects for her!!
he did not wanna hurt her later and made it clear in the beginning only!!
isnt it always better 2 hurt her now rather than making her wait 4 his decision and wat wud she have felt then when she wud have come 2 know about it much later???
his conforntation clearly showed that he cared for her and thats why made it very clear 2 her that he doesnt love her!!
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Posted: 18 years ago
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i think rajvir cud have handled the situation better..n yeah i feel bad for ritu..he could have been a lil considerate...as she is his friend.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: nailaqureshi

yar...im totally agree to angelic
he wasn't rude...he was straight 4ward....

thanxx 4 agreein wid me dear!!!!!! U can call me yojana!!!

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