Epi 388: D-N The Real Eternal Story - Page 6

Originally posted by: droopy_asleep

Super discussion guys! Just my 2 more cents!
My point was that a relationship is meant to be 2 way. Dutta and Roops both made mistakes, they both need to work on their relationship.
Dutta fulfilled all the material demands of being their brother - the provider. He did not fulfill their emotional demands, and that was his mistake.
Roops got swayed by Kala, influenced to the extent that she stopped caring and communicating for Dutta, that was a big mistake.
They both need to rectify and move on; that was the point I was trying to make.

I also disagree that Dutta gave everything to his family - yes he played the role of a provider, but he didnt give them his time or attention. The black sheep in the family Kala took advantage and played his other 2 sisters for that one mistake. Unfortunately Leela and Roop fell for it, that was their mis-judgement. Hence I say, that the fault lies with both parties not just with Roop in this case.

Originally posted by: prncz

I do understand your point of view Harshita but i still feel Dutta was never at fault , I mean his world had been shattered ,,,he was the one that needed counselling and love of his family at time like this , which is the real meaning of family and

the 3 sis always portrayed a nakli image in front of him and AS ,, and plotting behind his back ,

remember the 1st meeting whn he came back with nakku n his family ,,they show all 3 sis in the temple praying for their bro's life and all ,, and came hme and drank "chanamrit "and removed the makeup off burnt palms and all laughing at how they were fooling the world

ok this time,, their bro was going the wrong path they could see ,,he was isolating himself frm the world as a survival measure ,

his loss was their gain ,,they only gained from him ,they never wanted to help ,

ok agreed , kala , she influenced leela n roops but they never even FELT wht they ere doing is wrong ,

i mean u can convince a person that for e.g death is the best soln for an enemy but whn a gun is placed in you hands, it is UR brain that presses the triggers and CONTROLS ur actions

what they were doing was intentional..dutta was wht he was at face value ..if he was angry he would shout and scream and rage and do away with the person not behind his back

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what dutta did was like unintentional ,, he did nto knw wht he was doing ,but his sis's KNEW aht they were upto

Originally posted by: *dewdrop~pearl*

@ blue - Very well said!

Exactly...the difference between "unintentional" & "intentional" acts itself makes them uncomparable. An unintentional misdeed is called mistake, not an intentional one. If whatever Roops and Leela were doing was because Dutta ignored them and they were angry with him, there is a reason. But where "money" and "influence" is what drives a misdeed, I dont think it can be justified in any way, or compared to a genuine and unintentional mistake.

Originally posted by: *dewdrop~pearl*

Though I might call what Dutta did as a "mistake", I wouldnt say the same for what Roops and Leela did. Mistake is something that happens unknowingly, and lying and cheating doesnt come under that. Dutta's mistake was genuine, but I feel he has genuine reasons for it too (by now we all know about Dutta and his emotional vulnerability, we know this one thing itself is the base for the entire story of LTL). Like there are times when I have gone through bad phases in my life as well, and during those times, I prefered to be left alone and never even used to spend much time with parents/sister. But they knew I loved them. So all I'm saying is, for the mistake Dutta made, he definitely dint deserve "dhoka" from the ones whom he loved and cared the most. In return of Dutta's lack of attention to his sisters, if they quit caring for him or dint do much for him, thats still an understandable reaction. But here they were playing games with him and his mind, and making sure he is depressed in life! I wouldnt call that a mistake/misunderstanding etc., I believe if you genuinely love someone, no one can mislead you against them. Even kids nowadays are smart that even they cannot be misled against people they love, here we are talking about ADULTS like Roops and Leela (Leela was even a mother, so I believe mature enough). So I can never compare what Dutta did with what Roops/Leela did, both the things are at totally different levels of karma, for me.

Originally posted by: Moontide

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Originally posted by: Yuvika_15

ok guys going of the discussion topic nw bt did ne1 else feel tht NS didnt gt the closure tht was expected/needed?? i think it was very impt tht NS died having heard the truth from rupali... i felt tht was impt for a closure bt we didnt gt tht...regretting wt he did 2 DP n his kids etc may nt hav happened bt i feel he shud hav heard the truth from rupali tht DP had actually been the true brother...yes NS heard al tht from Balu bt he didnt believe it...m sure if rupali had tld him this, NS wud hav believed it... wt do u guys think?