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Posted: 14 years ago
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Dear Friends,
Naku is Mahaan, we should take lessons from her...next time a husband hits out at his wife in public we should not interfere or save the wife as 'woh haq jata rahe hai' showing her his love....love indeed, my foot...there is a limit to everything...😡😡
I want to know who is the director, is he ex from some K serial or not....if my memory does not fail me....I see the same stamp all over....Bani protecting Jai Walia and picking up fight with his sister...saying the same lines more or less with a few words here and there...😡😡
Khana pura bhi nehi huwa and she took him to do 'marham patti' or first aid...does not believe healing from inside but outside with her torn sari ka pallu...out of 20 minutes of the telecast time, 5 minutes of present scenario and 15 minutes fb with best loved scenes going over and over again....can someone take a call and end this track asap?🤢

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: kshreya2002

Calm down Tin! Its over!

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On a serious note Shreya, we should be very vocal so that the creatives do not spoil the show, it has so much potential....Balaji Telefilms never heard their viewers, Ekta use to say if you don't like don't watch etc etc., but I have very high respect for Paresh Rawal, he is on my favourite list a great artist, since this is his production I hope he will not serve us with crap.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@Tin: Sometime back we sent our fb to the producers and channel and they incorporated a lot of our feedback esp the fact that Naku should do the face reveal herself. Coming to Naku's behavior and her acceptance and love for a guy like Dutta I will say that lets not judge her behavior by our own standards ie lets not expect her to think and react as we do. Rather we must remember she is an uneducated slumdog who has seen the worst in life from a young age.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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if u drink and blabber in ur family function it will bring great insult to ur family and other people around stand and watch the fun what ur mother will do she will beat u down in public it is love that she care she show the love with angry it is natural.


it happen to me once when i was kid during my final exam day i was secretly playing vedio game in my room my mom found she beat and after while she came back and cried for beating me and asked sorry to me i cried to it is love and care she have for me.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@tin.........shreya is right..........Naku is a slumdog.......uneducated.......she can't think as we think.....she doesn't know or i'll say care about her rights.........n doesn't expect anything from Dutta except his love..........i dnt think she's mahaan.........n there's a difference between her n Ekta's mahaan heroine........who are well educated......belongs to a well do family........still behave as dumbos..........
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I have not watched today's epi yet. But from the update, it sounds very good.

I don't know what Ekta type serials are. I have not watched any. The slap was a bad idea...I accept. But I don't know why just one slap makes the whole show and Dutta look bad. If we are talking about him physically hurting her, then he has done much more before during the first wedding. Atleast now he loves her, but before he just was plain angry with her.

About the husband haq jathaoing on the wife, maybe Nakku thinks so...Not Dutta. That is the reason he repented it so much. It was a a very understandable reaction from Dutta according to me...To see your love dancing and making a fool of herself and you in front of everyone.

And Nakku thinks that Dutta 'can' slap her is because her father too was like that. He always beats up Babi and Nakku..She has once before even told that ' Baap hain mera. haq hain uska' to Dutta.

I will not put this slap in the physically abusing women category...Its part of this story..When the man takes advantage of the weakness of women to get stuff he wants...That is physically abusing...A man cannot beat up his wife..If my husband ever raises a hand on me, I will NOT be able to take that or forgive that easily. That is reality.

This is a show where the hero can force the heroine into a marriage, he can pull her around however he wants and she still loves him for his heart and understands why he does such violent stuff.. In a way this is fantasy. I am just happy that they still show Dutta as a man with a golden heart and their love pure. This one slap can be overseen because of all these other factors...Of course if they continue with another slap or much more beating up, then that will make it a husband-beating-wife show.

Just my opinion.😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@ Shreya & Dibya...Ok I accept Naku is a slumdog and Dutta is too emotional...they reacted according to their character traits...but if I am not mistaken I understood Naku had a lot of self respect inspite her state of uneducatedness and Dutta respected his mother and sisters very much...recently I saw the episode when Dutta asked Kala to leave the house...he was very cold and his emotions were very controlled, he did not get violent....
I accept for the sake of drama you must show certain but my point here is that we should be more responsible in what we are showing...you cannot demean a character like Dutta's and say he is very emotional, yes he apologised and broke the glass with his hands too...I heard many wife beaters in this world afterwards ask for apology from their wives....Naku...where is your self respect, she gave back the coat to him because he refused to get his first aid from her...
Anyway all I want to say in short is the creatives should be careful in what they are showing....I am not angry towards Dutta or Naku as I am angry over the creatives....this is something I don't want any channel or any show to propogate !
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: sasha_1

if u drink and blabber in ur family function it will bring great insult to ur family and other people around stand and watch the fun what ur mother will do she will beat u down in public it is love that she care she show the love with angry it is natural.


it happen to me once when i was kid during my final exam day i was secretly playing vedio game in my room my mom found she beat and after while she came back and cried for beating me and asked sorry to me i cried to it is love and care she have for me.

😆 Sasha I do not know how many times I got beaten by my mom for reading story books instead of study books...now I tell my mom that half my hair you have pulled out....😛 See Sasha in this country, husband beating wife is very high, I do not want that to be propogated and no way justification should be given saying woh haq jata raha tha...don't get me wrong I love Dutta ...I watch this show for him....no way I can see his character being demeaned....
as for mother beating daughter, as a daughter I have no regrets that I got beaten up by her....atleast she managed to instill some good values in me😛....
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@crystal, I loved your opinion...yes I take it as part of the story....after all Dutta did force Naku to marry him..etc etc but one question I want to ask....was it necessary??
This story has great potential and I would have shown it in different way but unfortunately I am not the creative here.....
What is more upsetting is the creatives know they have goofed it up and now they are justifying the same saying 'haq jata rahe the'...😡 Kaisa haq bhai...sab ke samne thappar mar kar...aur koi tarika nehi hai kya??
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Posted: 14 years ago
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in real world 90% of men manhandle his wife. only few people is gifted with very good hubby.tv serial is based on real life so accept it


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