To Salvage the Situation!! - Page 2

Originally posted by: tintiny

Sorry Sara, I cannot overlook it, dragging her away would still be bad but somewhat still acceptable, maybe Dutta roaring out who spiked her drink as she does not take alcohol...

I am not big hearted and I just cannot accept such a huge error saying it was high point of the story...nehi ji...women have come a long way...Naku may be all giving and besotted with Dutta but we as viewers cannot just accept his this kind of behaviour!! We have the right to ask for an apology from the PH and rectification of the situation....I am very upset!!

Frankly, I don't know why are we discriminating and then classifying this whole issue under Gender category...

Well said DD 👍🏼

Sara, the point I am trying to make is this show is watched by many, of course in the land of serials there are no laws, you kill people and there is no enquiry etc etc., but certain things cannot be shown, it should not be shown....today I watch the show because for Dutta (or Mishal I like his portrayal) I feel Naku is still a bit unreal in my eyes....but then I am an urban working woman so maybe my perspective of seeing things in a woman is different.... Hitting your wife is one of those things which I cannot accept from my most loved character....it cannot be impromptu...I remember about 4 years ago I went to learn swimming and the coach was shouting kick harder, kick kick ...he was not satisfied with my performance and came up to ask me...do you like your boss...I replied not really ...he said then imagine you are kicking him....I laughed no matter how mad I am (I do have a very quick temper) I cannot kick anybody, even my most hated person, I can imagine all right but in reality no....my inner teachings will not allow that....the respect Dutta has for his mother, his sisters or lets say women in general should have stopped him....do you murder a person who is making a fool of himself in public? No nah...even if happens to be your hubby, father, brother etc...

Originally posted by: tintiny

Sara, the point I am trying to make is this show is watched by many, of course in the land of serials there are no laws, you kill people and there is no enquiry etc etc., but certain things cannot be shown, it should not be shown....today I watch the show because for Dutta (or Mishal I like his portrayal) I feel Naku is still a bit unreal in my eyes....but then I am an urban working woman so maybe my perspective of seeing things in a woman is different.... ...

Originally posted by: Dancingdoll

Frankly, I don't know why are we discriminating and then classifying this whole issue under Gender category...

This had nothing to do with a women or men issue,....

It was about ...hmmm.....let me call them....two love birds...It was about one love bird being insync with the other....It was about one love bird not being able to see the other one making a mockery of self....and shocked by the reaction to the extent that the love bird ended up slapping the other.....Now we all can try scratching our heads on who is the female and who is the male one here only to realize that this was never the issue...There is a broader perspective to it and we are still living within our own sketched boundaries....

When Naku comes into her senses, I am so sure she would atleast be pleased about one thing that Dutta took the ownership on her enough to straighten her for her misbehaviour...."Saab ne mere par haq jataaya"....Her actions still effect him,....He has been going on about how he would have shown the kind gestures towards a stranger too ...well, by this whole drunken track, Naku proved him that he still cared for her and she wasnt in the stranger category.....

To me this slap was a mere gesture of building and rising emotions...And if we wanna raise an issue of violence...then lets talk about violence against human...why are we doing gender discrimination here?....I would be totally fine if Naku slaps him tomorrow, ofcourse it wouldnt go well with her personality but my point was that its about a reaction from a person in love towards the person he/she loves....It wasnt from a man to a woman/wife....I dont advocate violence but then we will take this social issue on Human beings and not just women!

I agree completely..........The slap was like ceasefire I guess.........dutta has been keeping his emotions inside him.........he did not appreciate it.........because its Nakusha who did it, hence he slapped her.......Justified even in normal circumstances any father or husband would slap his daughter/ wife on a/c of this misbehavior.....reaction was justified....but I m happy as the emotions got out as thappar.....those ill feelings that he is keeping inside him post FR.......it just got him boiling ? why? because he still feels he owns Nakusha......look at the brighter side or lets say he felt as a husband or beloved he has a right to stop her from embarrassing herself further....lets not talk about public/private slap ......I agree with Anu .........atleast public slap was unintentional.......it was his instant reaction..........if he had slapped her inside the room, then we call it intentional.......if naku will be guilty of her misbehavior after she gets consciousness, then same holds for dutta........he will apologize for slap I guess...
I wish he interrogates later who spiked nakusha's drink........atleast he should know her by now.....she knows that he is infuriated, why would she put water on her efforts by further flaming him up........😕 Lets see how it goes tonight............
I have no high expectation from this slap......may be nothing comes out of it but high possibility of some positive outcome......😛

Sorry I am not in the mood to accept it in the name of emotions of characters...I know reality it is a lot harsher...I remember watching in TV a woman athlete winning the highest honours for her country some years ago while her husband throwing out her trophies from the house in front of the assembled journalists who had gone to congratulate the family....yes the lady's face upon being told is something I still cannot forget....

Okay, one thing I wanted to ask...would our reaction be the same if Dutta had slapped Kala or Baji,??

@ Tin

Originally posted by: tintiny

Sorry Sara, I cannot overlook it, dragging her away would still be bad but somewhat still acceptable, maybe Dutta roaring out who spiked her drink as she does not take alcohol...

I am not big hearted and I just cannot accept such a huge error saying it was high point of the story...nehi ji...women have come a long way...Naku may be all giving and besotted with Dutta but we as viewers cannot just accept his this kind of behaviour!! We have the right to ask for an apology from the PH and rectification of the situation....I am very upset!!