Dutta's journey of love - Heart Vs Brain - Page 5

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Posted: 14 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: mussy.jamshed


@ushankitvc :- but what if he took those lines as part of baji's plan.......because I m seeing a track where naku n baji will be targeted together for being deceitful

Mussy, Its not about Baaji here and why he said it...whether he remembers BAAJI's line or not,he still has to execute this sentence eventually.....
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: LTLFan

why is it always Naku has to understand/handle him, why can't he make an effort to understand her situation. I think till today people expect only women to understand / handle everything, sacrifice for him and still get all the bashings from him.

She is just a ordinary uneducated girl. how can he expect her to take the right decisions always and he does not take any decisions on his own - his decision are always influenced by others -- be it AS, Kala or Naku.

He would learn to understand Naku from FR....Infact he had already started caring about her and understanding her....When he pulls her out of Ganpat's hold and announces tht she would stay with him now, it was evident that he had now taken Naku's position of being a giver....he was ready with his shoulders now...Naku also ACKs it!! He would just make it more firm now....
dont worry, ur demand would be met! 😛
BTW, I dont think Dutta's decisions are always influenced by Kala, AS or Naku...he does show "man of the house" feature many a times....but yes, once he fights his inner demns,he would be more independent than he has been in his thoughts....
but on Naku influencing him, well, if one has prejudiced notions and hence the destination appears fogged, there is no harm in ur partner clearning the fog and showing u the right direction...but I agree, he needs to remove those notions to not appear foggy all the time...and FR is that platform for him!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Wow DD all i can say is Vah Vah first of all a great 👏👏 u were not voted an excellent writer 4 no reason DD u analized dutta's mind set amazingly u know when u hear to ur heart that is were the true feeling is our mind is always against our heart always trying not the right thing but the sensible thing and u explained dutta's mind & heart struggle v.well. even i felt dutta loved naku when he was about to mary supria & bcoz she kept telling him marrying sup giving himself a chance all that played a big role and when he was betrayed he felt angry about naku more than sup. so as u said only when u love someone hurts u more. well done DD loved it & as u said i hope in this FR he finds his way to what his heart tells him! saying that i can't wait 4 mon.😉
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Posted: 14 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: sikkaisha

Hey dear
Amazingly well analyzed.Very very true.
He never once thought about Supriya after she was gone ,never once missed her...all he thought about HOW COULD NAKKU BETRAY HIM.?
Very well said...hate is more passionate form of love,they are two sides of same coin....opposite of love is indifference ,not hatred.
CVs in subtle nuances did show his dilemma...When Nakku was azad and left the room,Dutta did feel emptiness ,he was not relieved ,he was confused,...how he dropped MS Nakku handed to him,he was so disoriented.This is why he came to leave them,her silence was killing him,the way he kept looking at her
He was afraid to analyze his own feelings and Jagtap made him do it and thats when everything fell into place ...he had always loved Nakku....It had always been Nakku...And that realization in "ambar" song was out of this world( and after this song I became a goner LTL addict)
To tell the truth i have always found "Dutta being afraid of beauty" little forced,exaggerated ,i could not relate it to Dutta's psychology and i felt that it was CVs taking it in direction to set platform for FR.Now too I cant relate to beauty=betrayal equation.
If this notion is emphasised that u are beautiful so u r dhokhebaaz will be stupid ,but if it is "you hid something from me,why didnt u trust me" would be more justified as reason for Dutta being angry.
You just made me relive beautiful memories again
That jangal track was magic and that time I was constantly thinking LTL 24*7.That is why this recent phase is so pale in comparison ,and hence that feeling of dissatisfaction.
Hope that magic is recreated....".nostalgic sigh"
Beautiful post dear.Loved it

Isha, beautiful point - "Opposite of Love is Indifference and not hatred"...👏👏👏
When Naku left him with the MS, his heart told him something was not right....He wasnt contended with the results and hence he looks at Naku's receding figure longingly....It just killed him to imagine that Naku would not be part of his life anymore...Its a very common observation, u realize that person's worth when the feeling syncs in ur mind that he wouldnt be there for u anymore...Till the person is with u, u r so deaf ears and blind eyes to him! Thats what happened to Dutta, he felt uneasy but he didnt know why! Because he wasnt listening to his heart!!
Jagtap made him see the mirror, As Jagtap himself tells Naku that someone has to make him face the truth, if she doesnt do it, he would!!!...Dutta has been running away from his feelings but Jagtap forces him to face it...Dutta confesses too that woh kyun pyaar ko ek maujkaa de?...but Jagtap tells him to just close his eyes once and listen to his heart!!....The "amber" song was a result of this push!...That song drew the differences between Seema/Sups and Naku as he saw it...he even imagines Naku speaking, "mein khubsurat nahi par aapse bahut pyaar karti hai"....That easily showed that although he listened to his ehart, he convinced his brains and habit of finding logic that the diff between the three was the beauty....Naku loved him inspite of not being beautiful....This only showed how the layer of prejudice was still alive in his LS!
Dutta's notion on beauty is stupid and he would realize that...but that was the first thought he clinged to convince his logical brains on this new found feeling that wasnt making sense from any angle...Once he realizes that Love never makes sense, its just a feeling to cherish, he would erase this layer!
isha, 100% with u on the last part....I find the Tasha magic missing in recent phase....and when I took a walk to the old LTL, I went nostalgic...Those were the golden days that I would always cherish!!...Makes me sad, and if they can re-create that magic post FR, I will happily cling to it and attribute the pale phase to my Amnesia!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Liz, First of all, I simply love ur posts...I relate to them so well, because u think from ur heart like I do...I can just relate to them!...
Second, Dude, check my post...it just goes on...when I write about Tasha Love, I realize only after posting that woo hoo...the post became a saga!! 🤣🤣🤣
Third, I never said that Dutta loved her because Naku was ugly or dark....On the contrary, my post says that Dutta loved Naku for all the right reasons....as u have rightly surmised - "For the home his heart found in Naku", and his heart found this home long time back....but Dutta was deaf and blind to his heart and the feelings that it was harboring...It was used to seeing logic everywhere..."Dutta felt nice around her", he just didnt know why....he subscribed to her views easily, he just didnt know why...He wanted to open his heart in front of her and went on to reveal his dark secrets without hesitation...he didnt know why.....
And why was it that he kept on feeling new things, liking them, growing with them and yet didnt know why...? Because he kept on using his head to makes sense out of it....
When he was shown the mirror (jagtap's track), he fought hard not to face his heart..He has been inadvertently avoiding a face-to-face confrontation with his heart because he was scared of the results from that confrontation....but he was forced but in the "amber" song he finally faced his feelings....That was the song when he drew the differences between Naku, Seema and Sups...He realized how his heart went into serene pastures when he thought about Naku and how he remained in chaotic jungle when he was revolving around Sups or Seema!!!....Why was that??...he fought to find a reason, and that is when his prejudiced layer made him imagine Naku confess to him, "Mein khubsurat nahi, par mein aapse bahut pyaar karti hai"....The fact that he imagined Naku first put the condition, "Mein khubsurat nahi", was evident that he wanted to find logic of this new found serene feeling for Naku...he was confused about this feeling, about why his heart is feeling new things when he was betrayed twice before...what was happening??....This shock and confusin was evident when Dutta opens his eyes all of a sudden when he sees Naku for the first time in his dream, on a serene land....What was he seeing...what was Naku dng there? when did she reach the innermost layers of his heart??...when?? why didnt he realize??....He signs, gathers his guts and yet again closes his eyes to face the truth....He was confused and he had to find a logic to this new discovery.... and hence, while drawing the difference between these 3 gals, his brain saw the beauty aspect sticking out and he clinged to it because he couldnt come out of this conusion without assigning it a logical reason...His heart was taking over his senses at an accelerating speed and hence, to silence his confusion, he immediately clinged to this notion....This is where he made a mistake....He defn listented to his heart and then never turned back, but he also embedded this notion inside his system....
Once he realizes that his love for Naku was older than his notion, and that his heart had housed feelings for Naku since quiet some time, just that he didnt peep in it to see who resided there, he would understand that his notion was wrong...he clinged to wrong reasoning at a wrong time....
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Posted: 14 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: sikkaisha

Hey Liz
Truth is the ultimate .....everything else holds no meaning in front of it.After so much pain,life and God has given him the most priceless gift any human can possibly receive..TRUE SELFLESS LOVE......he just has to remove all veils of prejudice and darkness of his mind to see this grace of God.

Isha, well said again....👏👏
Liz and you are one of the few who really talk their heart...!!!...I love to read ur posts!!!
if you analyza Dutta's reactions and actions since he has accepted Naku's love full heartedly, his inherent behaviour has been true selfless love....Two ppl found their right match...Two ppl felt the selflessness flowing through....but it was this prejudice notion that always remained rooted in his system....Last straw and the love would be crystal clear...
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Posted: 14 years ago
#47

Originally posted by: mussy.jamshed


agree sikkaisha...........but its a fiction show........dutta gonna think she has betrayed him too....knowing the fact she is the most beautiful of them all gonna raise more doubts in his heart.......but he has to think " who wants to cover up such a beautiful face and that for too long'......one can cover the face but not heart"........she could have used her face to seduce him......anna made her scare crow........who would want to be humiliated this way despite being beautiful..........I just hope this time he does not listen to kala at all.

Nakusha is pure selfless being and I wish dutta forgives her ..and don't punish or call her betrayer.

When you need support I'll become your crutches,
When you're cut I'll become your stitches,
When you cry I'll become your tissues, and when you fall I'll become your wings 😊

Mussy, This time Dutta will fight his own demons and not the once fabricated by Kala...Let her keep playing her little tricks!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: prettywoman

DD.. amazing write up.. I think you are actually Dutta masquerading as Baaji on the forum!! seriously, i felt as if this was Dutta's monologue.. i think all the anger , pain after naku not doing FR has been poured out into this post.. hopefully now that the anger/pain has subsided a bit u can start to enjoy the show from tomorrow.. i am also feeling a bit calm now :-P.. cant wait to see what D does tomorrow.. he will not disappoint us and will make us proud of our faith in him!

🤣🤣🤣
Nahi re...I am DD - Dutta ki Diwaani! 🤣🤣
Vandu, when I took my walk back into LTL, I kept this whole Naku not dng FR pre wedding aside else I would have been fuming and my vision would have been foggy...Even today, just the thought of it makes me feel like strangling someone!!!....but I have decided to not give this a thought at all as the damage is done and it cannot be undone...and for this pointless marriage, I dont see why I should loose on the post-FR experience that I have been eagerly waiting for....I have been waiting for Dutta's reaction, his struggle to fight the demons and I wouldnt give on it for any pointless track or reasonings....My anger hasnt subsided but I have buried it and now, I dnt go and read any posts that talks about it!!!....
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Posted: 14 years ago
#49

Originally posted by: nureat01

Lovely post, DD👏

Although I'm none too happy with the way the FR is unfolding and how a lot of Nakku's credibility in this scenario has been destroyed, I do still wonder what Dutta's reaction and the journey post the FR will be like......everything that you've listed out, I've felt that way too.

[DD] Exactly Nu!..As I was telling Vandu, to me this wedding, although beautifully executed, was pointless in the track (atleast till CVs fill the dots, I dnt see why the wedding was required NOW with no FR)...and hence, for me it was as good as not happened...They were married before, they are married now and monday is the much waited FR....This is the moment I have waited for....To see Dutta's reaction, to watch his struggle with his inner demons....and I wouldnt give that experience for anything or anyone!!,... I have buried Nkau's character assassination somewhere deep and decided to move on...If I think about it, my blood would boil again and I would loose on the experience that I have waited for so long!!!

I just feel that this journey would have been given more poignancy if it was just his character flaw that made him turn away from Nakku in her fair avatar....his prejudice against beauty....but sadly the creatives decided to come up with the retarded idea of making this such an OBVIOUS betrayal and playing with his emotions on the happiest day of his life only to snatch it away from him so cruelly a little while later.
[DD] Hmmm....oh ho! You made me see one more reason why I detest the timing of the wedding track....One moment that he has been waiting for eagerly, for which he fought all odds and made this wedding happen...didnt listen to AS or Kala to postpone the wedding and stood his ground, this "first moment" post wedding shld have been so special but Alas!!....grrr...I will bury this feeling and come back else I will ruin my Monday!! I would rather erase this chapter from my LTL experience!!!....

At this point, my empathy would only lie with Dutta cuz the other characters have been made to go off track with the sheer stupidity of the way the FR has been set up with the weeping emotionally blackmailing mothers, a suddenly guilt-free Baaji least bothered about the fact that Dutta is going to the SR to see a fair Nakku and then finally fair Nakku herself just being pushed and prodded along by all these random ppl around her and now finally landing up at the SR in what seems like an almost clueless fashion like a lamb awaiting its death at the slaughterhouse😕😆.....And given the haphazard way in which the epi was shown, they never let us have any insight into the turmoil in her mind (if there was any) All she coolly did was ask for her mother's aashirwaad and that's it......
[DD] Lamb waiting its death...🤣...and the way these people have abandoned her to face the music alone, grrr.....sick!
Nu, Lately Cvs have not been sensitive about baring Tasha's mindset in front of us....and this was their USP earlier and lack of it is becoming their drawback! I hope they pull up their socks else it just would stick out like other shows!!!...Remember how cool they have shown naku after the wedding was announced...Can u imagine her doing that?...Nope....They slipped on numerous counts!!!

*Edit: Woah just read about the new promo.....sounds interesting.....those jungle kurtas are back atleast😍😆.....And I always knew he'd cling on to the beauty insecurity....they made a big deal about it in previous scenes also when he always made it a point to mention it as one of the qualities he likes about her.
[DD] 😆😆...Yeah, the Jungle Kurtas....What does it denote? Old days are back? Because the new wardrobe symbolized the change of heart and his life being colored yet again....Back to thr oldwardrobe, does that symbolize dark alleys now...? I wonder!!...But anways, Dutta looked dashing then and he looks smashing now!! 😆😆Day Dreaming
and the beauty notion has to be the first one he has to talk about...Thats still tere in his mind...he cannot get away with it without a proper cleansing mechanism!!...FR has given him the right platform to get on with this cleansing activity!

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: bfunofbb123

Wow DD all i can say is Vah Vah first of all a great 👏👏 u were not voted an excellent writer 4 no reason DD u analized dutta's mind set amazingly u know when u hear to ur heart that is were the true feeling is our mind is always against our heart always trying not the right thing but the sensible thing and u explained dutta's mind & heart struggle v.well. even i felt dutta loved naku when he was about to mary supria & bcoz she kept telling him marrying sup giving himself a chance all that played a big role and when he was betrayed he felt angry about naku more than sup. so as u said only when u love someone hurts u more. well done DD loved it & as u said i hope in this FR he finds his way to what his heart tells him! saying that i can't wait 4 mon.😉

*does a Miss Universe act of holding her cheeks*
awwwwwww...thanku thanku!! 🤣🤣🤣
Jorda, something just striked my mind after reading ur post....Have u noticed, how Dutta always thought about Naku telling him, "Sab,Pyaar ko ek maukaa toh deke dekho", in his flashbacks...these flashbacks were shown when he was struggling with his felings for Naku and even when Naku leaves his proposal hanging....or when he thinks Naku ran away from his proposal because of Kala....This advise has played a major role in shaping his heart....It impacted him then and it impacts him now...Only if he had confronted his heart then!...but then we wouldnt have had this whole drama! 😉

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