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Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: ajab
😳 yaar i love dutta man has great personality but guys in real such a hunk never falls in love with girl lyke naku so creatives should take some hurry steps to unveil nakus real charm i just hate the closeup where dutta n her were hand in hand such a bad colour

You are absolutely right about the reality part, although there may be the 2 or 3 exceptions to the rule.😆

But I will tell you Dutta is already in love with Naku. And it is sooo beautiful to watch unfold. He just doesn't understand love...it's weird to say and even I feel a bit stupid for writing that. But I think it's very true. For whatever reason, some people don't speak or understand that language...in words and in actions, and one's person's way of expressing love is very different from another's. That's where we all get the problems.

And if we look closely enough, I think we'd find ourselves there too.

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Posted: 15 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: SAraW

It is shown that the make up is put on by the GAL only! She is not a beautician. her sole purpose is to make her self unattractive ...thats it. ab she cant stay infront of mirror for longer hours just to equal or balance her shade.

its nt abt. natural black color, i personally find ppl. with dark shades reallyy attractive but last night when they were holding hands i thought that if she was naturally black the difference in colour wud hav luked really exotic n beautiful but it looked fake because make up wasnt gud.

i am soory if i am hurting or offending some one by posting it.

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ltl_fan

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Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: gp00

You are absolutely right about the reality part, although there may be the 2 or 3 exceptions to the rule.😆

But I will tell you Dutta is already in love with Naku. And it is sooo beautiful to watch unfold. He just doesn't understand love...it's weird to say and even I feel a bit stupid for writing that. But I think it's very true. For whatever reason, some people don't speak or understand that language...in words and in actions, and one's person's way of expressing love is very different from another's. That's where we all get the problems.

And if we look closely enough, I think we'd find ourselves there too.

I think Dutta had fallen in love with Nakku a long time ago not realizing it is love. His love was in the form of friendship. Prior to the wedding the moments they shared were precious. He would seek her out, consult with her, confide in her, tease her, be amazed at her , he even appreciated her beauty on the day of the wedding when he said you look good why don't you dress up like this more often. He never formed that kind of bond with Supriya. I think it was due to this bond (love) that he felt more betrayed by Nakku than actually by Supriya's betrayal. This is the reason why he never really pursued getting Supriya back. However in the case of Nakku the minute he saw her leaving the PN house he stopped her. Even in this state of anger he insisted on looking into Nakku's eyes for the love that she had so assertively announced. I think even then the thought of loosing Nakku hurt him. The next day after Kala threw them out he again was angry and went running looking for her. Near the car when Babi begged to let them go he gave her a stare (how dare you separate me from Nakku). Again him accompanying her to the city is another proof that he definitely feels something at the thought of loosing Nakku. The gadha loves her but like Jagtap stated he does not know himself. So hopefully lessons learned in the jungle would be self discovery for Dutta.

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Posted: 15 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: SAraW
Why not???? not every gal is beautiful like a snow white in this world!! so what abt them ??? infact i have seen more beautiful gals living a life of a hell .. the concept of the show is not just a Good looking guy falling in love with an unattractive gal, its abt Giving a good heart more importance then just falling for good looks, as looks are bound to wrinkle with passing time while a person having a good heart will Remain with u till the end,,, its also abt a bond! n abt the hardships of a Man and women who are the victims of the badness of this World but remained true to each other .. it abt their journey to get to know Each other and fall in love with each other More and More with each Passing Day!!

The original post really stung though one has a every right to air their thoughts. But thanks Sara ur post made me feel better🤗

May there be more good souls like Dutta Shreeram Patil & Saraw😊

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gp00

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Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: iluvdutta

The original post really stung thoughone has a every right to air their thoughts. But thanks Sara ur post made me feel better🤗

May there be more good souls like Dutta Shreeram Patil & Saraw😊

People are influenced by looks and are influenced by character/quality of a person. And it varies by person--some are more predisposed to looks and so be it. They have to live with their decisions. Others are more predisposed to the emotional/spiritual connection. It depends on a person's needs, what's important to them. Many guys are visually-driven, and let them be. Millions of years of evolution can't always be messed with I guess. 😆

But all kidding aside, you or anyone for that matter has to find the person that is right for you. And like Dutta and Naku who managed to cross paths, looks did not play much a part in how close they became as friends and in love. Why? Because both needed something much more elemental to them--love and understanding. And these are things you FEEL OUT in other people, not SEE by their appearance.

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Posted: 15 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: gp00

People are influenced by looks and are influenced by character/quality of a person. And it varies by person--some are more predisposed to looks and so be it. They have to live with their decisions. Others are more predisposed to the emotional/spiritual connection. It depends on a person's needs, what's important to them. Many guys are visually-driven, and let them be. Millions of years of evolution can't always be messed with I guess. 😆

But all kidding aside, you or anyone for that matter has to find the person that is right for you. And like Dutta and Naku who managed to cross paths, looks did not play much a part in how close they became as friends and in love. Why? Because both needed something much more elemental to them--love and understanding. And these are things you FEEL OUT in other people, not SEE by their appearance.

May your tribe increase too, gp

That's why I'm so much in love with Dutta Patil though he is fictional & figment of someone's imagination. But one in a million is as you say is influenced by character/quality of a person.

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gp00

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Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: Ashleydevlin

</div>its nt abt. natural black color, i personally find ppl. with dark shades reallyy attractive but last night when they were holding hands i thought that if she was naturally black the difference in colour wud hav luked really exotic n beautiful but it looked fake because make up wasnt gud.
<div>i am soory if i am hurting or offending some one by posting it.

You know, I am aware of the color, but I do not even notice it when they are talking, or being silent with each other, or looking at each other, or caring for each other....It's about two people in a relationship in whatever form it is -- friendship / love, etc. It's about their insides connecting, feeling better, becoming better because of the other person. I think their love story is beyond the touch of color /looks now. I tell you the two of them need what each other has innately.

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gp00

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Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: iluvdutta

May your tribe increase too, gp😊

That's why I'm so much in love with Dutta Patil though he is fictional & figment of someone's imagination. But one in a million is as you say is influenced by character/quality of a person.

Seriously speaking, it is NOT one in a million who values the quality of a person over looks. It is MUCH, MUCH more. As much as I like to cut men down for their natural and occasional neanderthal instincts, there are many that when they are stripped (NO NOT IN THAT WAY my dear fellow BESHARAMIs who are reading this response)-- free of their friends, families, expectations, self-expectations everything--respond to women they can talk to more. At the end of the day, you don't marry a face...you marry someone you think is right for you--someone you can spend time with and not notice the time, talk with without making an effort. You can delude yourself about it, but nonethess, it's the inner qualities of the other person that will fulfill you or rip you into a million pieces.

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gp00

@gp00

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#19

[size=2]I also love Dutta's character, totally in love with him. So innocent, yet so complicted. So many thoughts and ideas and feelings. He reminds me of a kaleidoscope with so many rich colors inside. A core that is totally good. He's strong, has values...and I daresay his gussa is somewhat appealing too. Not when he goes crazy, though. Still a phenomenal male character.[size]

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@ImmaculateDream

Sparkler

Posted: 15 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: iluvdutta

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The original post really stung thoughone has a every right to air their thoughts. But thanks Sara ur post made me feel better🤗

<div>May there be more good souls like Dutta Shreeram Patil & Saraw😊

aww... so sweet of u to say that. 😊 well i can see what the topic creator wanted to say . as Gp pointed out correctly .. there are many kind ppl in this world .. but there is still goodness .. and it is not right to label every Man in the same category. yah looks are important but with time and facing life be it a Man or a woman, both came to know the harsh realities of life ..aur uss waqt khubsoorti kaam nahi aati na Bhaati hai ...But then again, their are Men also who have ultimately fallen for a good heart but not looks.. Dutta tu phir bhi 2 so called khubsoorat faces say dhoka kha chuka hai ..

so in my Point of View, MEn falling for a person rather then good looks is not something Alien 😊

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