Originally posted by: maybe-just
My question is:Do you think their love justifies their actions? The big game plan that they have started to carry out, do you think its right because they are doing it so they could be together, for love? 🤓
Ravi and Supriya are doing this so that they can be together becaue they love each other dearly, so does it make it alright for them to decieve Dutta this way?
Beacuse if the roles were swapped, by this I mean Dutta and Nakusha being in Ravi and Supriya's place but in a positive avatar and the guy Nakusha was getting married to a was a negative character, would you still hate them for decieving the other person?
BTW did changing the negativness of the characters and turning them in Dutta and Nakusha had an affect on your answer?
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Okay you are talking about the whole All's Fair in Love and War right? And that's why you see what they are doing as justified in a way. But here's my problem. I don't see them as being in Love. I mean really. When have we seen ANY kind of Love between them? And today's episode doesn't count. (Even that was just... strange. It looked more like he was congratulating her on her acting, as though he was a proud teacher not a lover😕) We haven't seen any reasons for WHY they love each other and more importantly we haven't seen any EVIDENCE that they love each other! We've been told that is all.
But let's say for arguements sake that they ARE in love. Are their actions still justified? In one word: No. And believe me when I say this is not my Bias speaking😆 I mean if we look at it logically there were loads of other options that they could have turned to.
- Supriya could have told her parents about her Love.
- If Supriya couldn't tell her parents she should have told Dutta AND she had opportunity enough to do that!
- Okay so say she was scared of Dutta and her parents well then her boyfriend could have told her parents!
- If he was scared of the parents rejecting him and the whole drama he could have told Dutta himself.
I mean her boyfriend acts as though he isn't scared of anyone or anything including Dutta himself. He claims to love Supriya, if that's true then why can't he stand up and declare himself for her to her parents or Dutta? I just feel that there were other options that WERE NOT TAKEN INTO CONSIDERATION before they leapt to THIS Option.
Now to the swapped characters situation. What if it was Dutta and Nakusha? Or at least a positive couple? See here's the thing. If you have to deceive or lie or cheat people for Love then I don't believe that that Love is worth it. Love is not selfish. To be with someone you love is important but it is not so important that you hurt others in your aim to be together. People who TRUELY Love each other know that in some situations to let each other go is the only way to go. But this option is only when there is NO OTHER OPTION LEFT.
Whereas I can't see this being the ONLY option to Supriya and her boyfriend.
I mean when Supriya elopes she is going to be not just hurting and humiliating Dutta and his family she will also be hurting and shaming her OWN family. And eloping wouldn't even be needed if she just TOLD SOMEONE about her true feelings!
Plus she is DELIBERATELY setting out to trap Dutta
emotionally She is playing with someone's FEELINGS and she's doing it because she has judged Dutta to be an unfeeling monster.
Eh hello? Who gave her the right to judge anyone? She hasn't even attempted to get to know Dutta. She knows NOTHING about him. She's prejudiced! She is BIASED. And she doesn't even have a good reason for being that way! I mean Dutta TRIED to talk to her, he tried to get to know her, when he realised that he may have spoken too harshly with her he tried to make it up to her by buying her a gift. He has gone out of his way to understand her and know her feelings. He only backed off when the rejection with no explanation became too much for him to handle. And now she's doing a huge 180 turn? She is raising his hopes again? Readying him to be hurt once more?
Love brings people together but it should never have to hurt people in the process otherwise it is a weak love. And thats the kind of "love" I see between Supriya and her boyfriend. A weak love.
As for Dutta and Nakusha being in that Scenario, well, Dutta and Nakusha would not be in such a situation unless they had tried all the other options first! Dutta isnt the type to sit still and keep quiet while the love of his life is being married of to another guy. They have totally different personalities to Supriya and her boyfriend. They would react in a completely different way.
In conclusion: Supriya is a conniving heartless stupid selfish blob along with her MawaliLafungah and Dutta is too good for her anyway.
Aisha xxx😉