Damini cant bring Mayank back to SN! - Page 9

Originally posted by: sss_rrr

well yes y should KT leave the house.if KT is the legal bahu then Mayank is also a legal son.I never heard of a rule that a mentally-retarted child should be in the hospital

If u havent of such law, then thats very sad indeed. The law clearly states that a person who is a danger to others must stay in such a place where other people will be safe from him.

Mentally retarted child has got divisions....till now (before mayank raped KT) he was also a mentally retarted child, but have i ever said that he needs to go to hospital???? NO! Cause before he was quite well,,,,but now when he has become a rapist, he needs his treatment!!!! And for his treatment the best place is a HOSPITAL not a HOUSE!!! If people can get treated in a house then why do u think there are hospitals???

SSS_RRR my points are written inside the quotation in underlined form.

Originally posted by: sss_rrr

Originally posted by: sss_rrr

well i think Damini has full rights to bring her son back home may be she is selfish but i still think she is right
well one thing i agree wat ganga said for once she stood for rights for women but when the point came up for her own child y dose she thinks as a mother y not like a human (i mean wat will happen if she give damini her son back to damini,will her relation with nakul change no, and considaring the age of nakul he will probably marry in few years,the qustion "who is the legal mother of him?" will that make any difference in his life)
its human mind to be selfish when someone clean and green like ganga can be selfish then y not damini

If it is a truth that Ganga is doing wrong by not giving back Nakul to Damini, then it shud be considered as a BIGGER TRUTH that Damini has done more wrong, by first giving Nakul to Ganga, and then again demanding him back. Thats like playing "double game". In one game Damini is giving Nakul, and in another game she is "demanding him back"

Damini wasnt a kid when she gave Nakul. She shud have known it very well that how hard is for a mother to leave without a child...knowing that why she gave Nakul??? Who forced her??? Who beat her hands??? and now when she needs him, she is demanding that??? Isnt Ganga also feeling bad??? U are looking at Daminis sadness saying that how bad she is feeling for not getting nakul, but then if u look at gangas point of view, isnt she also feeling bad by being forced to give Nakul???

And about Damini being a legal mother, so she having more rights for Nakul, i disagree on that case. Mandira is also the legal/biological mother of karan, and ansh is also the legal/biological father of Bhoomi, but does that make them get more right then what Tulsi or Karan get??? does that give mandra more right than tulsi to karan??? Does that give ansh more right than karan has over bhoomi??

Originally posted by: stranger@mirror

i'll ask u 1 sigle question..f damini had a little daughter n manyak raped his sister bcz f his mentally imbalanced nature n he was sent 2 jail..(js picture dis situation)wud u ever thnk dat damini'd ever want 2 bring manyak back home where her abused n suffering daughter s living? [QUOTE=BabyStone]

But personally I don't think Damini is doing much wrong by bringing
Mayank back into the house. That house is rightfully his more than KT's.
Mayank is the blood son of the house, while KT is just a bahu. So
technically Mayank has more of right than KT.

wt'd be ur 1st reaction when ur sbused n wronged innocent daughter comes home crying n says abt dis?u'd as soon as possible go 2 her inlaws house n beg or rather demand dat da rapist s kept away 4m ur beloved daughtr..rite?

bt n dis case poor KT s an orphan..she has no parents 2 stand by her side..2 give her a comforting hug..2 kiss her n tell dat everythn s gonna 2 be alright n dat they r gonna 2 take care f her..😭

bt f she had her parents they'd nt let her live under da same roof as her rapist 4 even 1 second..any mother'd take her daughter back home 2 safety..

n u talk abt rights f living n a house..when a young gal leaves her parent's house she leaves everything dat was until then hers behind..she s giving her whole lyf n 2 her inlaw's hands..n nw u say dat she has no right n her own house????cz dats wt t s..her own ghar..she has every right 2 be thr..

[QUOTE=BabyStone]
I'm not saying that what Mayank did is right, it wasn't and even Damini admits to it. Since Damini
is a mother she wants to see her child in front of her eyes, and that isn't
a crime for any mother. So really from a mother's standpoint she can't be
blamed.

yaah n a mother's stand point she can be blamed😡..i gave da reason @ da top..she wont du dis 2 her own daughter..or wud she?then hw can she du dis 2 her bahu whom she promised b4 god 2 safeguard n treat as f her own when she married her son?

And even if she was an outsider....does that mean that she can be tortured like hell??? even if she is an ousider, she is still a HUMAN, and as a human she cannot be tortured like that!

Originally posted by: BabyStone

As for Ganga, I don't think she's wrong either but I don't like that fact she
over rule's Damini in the house, when Damini isn't not only the "oldest"
bahu but a a bahu by marriage, which Ganga isn't currently. Technically
Ganga is a guest in the house, and personally I don't think she should
have much say in house matters. Now if Ganga was married to Sahil, I
wouldn't oppose her standpoint, not saying that I don't agree with it. I
just don't think she has the authority to take decisions in the house when
she has no legal ties with it.

Does it really matter that wether legally ganga is a bahu or not??? Does it really matter wether ganga is a guest of the house or not???

Ganga is a HUMAN BEING, and being a human being she has got the same right as Damini to say things! As a human being, she has got every right to stand up for the right thing and the truth!!! As a HUMAN, she has got every right to stand up for the helpless woman, KT!!!!

Originally posted by: ek1229

I understand what Mayank did was wrong. But he should be given a second chance too. Also he is not mentally stable and did not know what he was doing. He has suffered in the asylum. Also KT is married (not happily though) and has a life of her own.

I think Mayank should be forgiven and should be given a second chance to come home.

yaah manyak can be 4given bt wt he dd CANNOT EVER BE FOGOTTEN😡

i agree dat he deserves a second chance..bt dat doesnt mesn damini can bring him home js lyk dt..he shud be n a place whr he can be treated..smwhere lyk a hospital..4 gods sake da virani's hv more money dan they knw wt 2 du wth..so y cant damini n gautham get thr son da best medical help availabe n da wrld????r thr any doctors n SN?i dnt thnk so..or hv i missed smth😉?he needs medical attention..i agree he needs mother's love..bt more dan dat he needs proper psychiatric help😕

so y cant damini start da proceedure by simply shifting him 2 a better medical facility n start visiting him regularly?y make this illogical fuss abt such a ridiculous thn???😕

Firslt let me say OMG Sunaira i didnt know that u r such a genius👏👏👏 The logics and the answers u gave are really very very good and persuasive. Now let me comment on the things u have said:

Originally posted by: princessunara

i'll ask u 1 sigle question..f damini had a little daughter n manyak raped his sister bcz f his mentally imbalanced nature n he was sent 2 jail..(js picture dis situation)wud u ever thnk dat damini'd ever want 2 bring manyak back home where her abused n suffering daughter s living?

Couldnt have put it myslef better Sunaira...u r really a genius. So true. Damini is now trying to justify herself saying that as a mother she is right. But what will her answer be if the things u (sunara) had written are asked to Damini???

If in reality amini wud have a daughter, and that daughter wud have been raped by her brother Mayank (since mayank is retarted he can do that) then wud damini have done the same thing??? Wud Damini have still wanted to bring back mayank if her own daughter wud have been raped? 😉 Damini fan, please answer me this question...😉

Originally posted by: princessunara

k lets personalise dis problem..jst imagine u have a daughter n she s married n s @ her husband's house..n da husband has a mentally retarded brother n he rapes ur daughter.. n da guy s taken 2 a mental assyllum..n after a year or 2 ur daughter's mother n law insists n bringing back her mentally retarded son home..

wt'd be ur 1st reaction when ur sbused n wronged innocent daughter comes home crying n says abt dis?u'd as soon as possible go 2 her inlaws house n beg or rather demand dat da rapist s kept away 4m ur beloved daughtr..rite?

bt n dis case poor KT s an orphan..she has no parents 2 stand by her side..2 give her a comforting hug..2 kiss her n tell dat everythn s gonna 2 be alright n dat they r gonna 2 take care f her..😭

bt f she had her parents they'd nt let her live under da same roof as her rapist 4 even 1 second..any mother'd take her daughter back home 2 safety..

OMG sunara the more i am reading ur speech, the more "speechless" i am becoming...😆u r so right...lets stress mthe point...

Damini fans, please dont take this question to ur heart, its nothing personal, but i need to ask to see what answer u people have. Suppose one day u get married and have a daughter, ok? Suppose that happens, and u make ur daughter marry a guy...but unfortunately someone from that house rpes ur daughter. Now the rapist had been send to an assylum...

Now after a year, if the rapist is said to be comming back from the assylum to the house, how will u feel?? Will u feel happy and will u still support the mother of the rapist (Damini) who is bringing back the rapist??? Willl u still say that the mother is right??? If ur own daughter is in mortal danger as being raped, would u have still supported Damini???😉

Originally posted by: princessunara

n u talk abt rights f living n a house..when a young gal leaves her parent's house she leaves everything dat was until then hers behind..she s giving her whole lyf n 2 her inlaw's hands..n nw u say dat she has no right n her own house????cz dats wt t s..her own ghar..she has every right 2 be thr..

So true man.....when a girl gets married, the house where she gets married becomes her home and thats it! Legally KT's house is SN...and even if she wudnt have got married to Eku, SN wud still have been her house casue she she the DAUGHTER of Tulsi....be it blood relationship or not.

Originally posted by: princessunara

yaah n a mother's stand point she can be blamed😡..i gave da reason @ da top..she wont du dis 2 her own daughter..or wud she?then hw can she du dis 2 her bahu whom she promised b4 god 2 safeguard n treat as f her own when she married her son?

So true.....if Damini wud have a daughter who wud have been raped by her brother mayank (suppose thats possible since mayank is retarted) then wud Damini still support that mayank and brot him back home???

Originally posted by: princessunara

da aim f dis discussion s 2 define whether damini s right or nt..nt abt ganga..

bt anyway ill tel dis too cz she has been brought n 2 da discussion..she s a woman wth a gud warm heart..wt du u thnk?f laksh was a retarded child n dd smthn lyk dis(i dnt mean dis n bad way k..js an example..even i lyk laksh a lot😳)du u thnk ganga'd react n dis way?

Again right....Ganga always supports the truth, if Gangaz boy wud have been a mentally retarted rapist, then ganaga on the first place wud have said to Tulsi everything about that, and then they cud have send him to a good hospital where he can have a proper treatment.😛

If....If Damini wud have told Tulsi all about mayank in the beginning, then wud these fuss have happened??? no....if damini wud have said everything to tulsi then they cud have managed a different house for Mayank where he can have a treatment....but Damini hide the matter, even send a innocent to jail to hide this...and now she is getting her PUNISHMENT...

I personally dont think that Damini is trying to bring back mayank for her "motherly love". All Damini is trying to do is to "fight" with Ganga and to defeat Ganga and hurt her feelings ... thats it.

Firslt, If Damini really is wanting to bring back mayank, then why didnt she thot of bringing her on the whole of last year?? Mayank is in assylum for more than a year...but that time Damini didnt even think of Mayank (except for one or two occassions) and i seriously cant remember any time when Damini thought of bringing back mayank. If she really wants mayank back home, then why didnt she want it in the last year??? Why all of a sudden her "mamta" is rising? 😕

Secondly, if Damini is really thinking of Mayank's betterment, mayanks welfare, then she shud keep mayank in a good hospital, not in the HOUSE nor in the ASSYLUM. Because its not only dangerous for the viraniz but also dangerous for mayank to stay in the house. Cause everyone will neglect/ignore mayank, and KT, lakshya, eku will even hate him. Moreover, if anything happens in the house, Mayank will be the one who will be blamed....so its BETTER for Mayank to stay in hospital than in SN.....but yet Damini wants mayank back home...why??

Thirdly, when damini said to Ganga that "if u dont let me bring mayank, i want my nakul". My question is : what is the realtion with this two things??? How can Nakul fulfill mayanks place??? And if she wants Nakul why is she wanting him after 20 years...??? 😕😕😕 It prooves that ll Damini wants is to hurt and fight with ganga and thats it...

If she was really thinking of mayank she shud have snd him to a hospital not bring him back home to make him even worse...

PS: The above statements are just my perosnal opinion. Its not neccessary that u will have to agree with it. If u dont, u r most welcome to say that and even u r welcome to critisize me...no problem. U can debate, u can argue with me...but please dont start a fight,,,,,i request..😛

Originally posted by: Usman_m

hi stranger@mirror,

i respect ur views & also respect the way u wrote... but i'll still stick to my point of view dat mayank needs his family i think he has already paid 4 wat he did.... as 4 damini.... for one whole yr she has thought as a human being or a women first den as a mom.... & now if she wants to bring her back there is nothing wrong in it....

Thanks a lot for ur views...and i appreciate the way u have said it all. But wud like to ask u a question, hope u will not take it personally: If u were in KT's place, wud u have said Damini is still right???😕

Originally posted by: stranger@mirror

SSS_RRR my points are written inside the quotation in underlined form.

Originally posted by: stranger@mirror

I personally dont think that Damini is trying to bring back mayank for her "motherly love". All Damini is trying to do is to "fight" with Ganga and to defeat Ganga and hurt her feelings ... thats it.

how can u say that damini wants her son back just for a fight and y will she fight with ganga wat will damini get she is not even the bahu of the family and secondly who hurted gangas feeling if just answring hurts someone feeling that meams i am hurting ur felling more than damini hurting gangas feeling

Firslt, If Damini really is wanting to bring back mayank, then why didnt she thot of bringing her on the whole of last year?? Mayank is in assylum for more than a year...but that time Damini didnt even think of Mayank (except for one or two occassions) and i seriously cant remember any time when Damini thought of bringing back mayank. If she really wants mayank back home, then why didnt she want it in the last year??? Why all of a sudden her "mamta" is rising? 😕

she was always worried abt mayank and as far as i remember damini sent tusli to the same MA as of mayank just to show tulsi the plight of mayank.be it one year two year .... mayank ought to have come back some time and if she would have bought her a year back would u have changed ur POV no.there is no time span to do something.which mamta r u talking abt she bought up mayank she has feelings for him and what do u mean by sudden mamta she always love mayank

Secondly, if Damini is really thinking of Mayank's betterment, mayanks welfare, then she shud keep mayank in a good hospital, not in the HOUSE nor in the ASSYLUM. Because its not only dangerous for the viraniz but also dangerous for mayank to stay in the house. Cause everyone will neglect/ignore mayank, and KT, lakshya, eku will even hate him. Moreover, if anything happens in the house, Mayank will be the one who will be blamed....so its BETTER for Mayank to stay in hospital than in SN.....but yet Damini wants mayank back home...why??

how can someone say that mayanks betterment is being in hospital sending a mentally-challenged peron a hospital or MA just means throwing them away coz they r unwanted this world is not for them if mayank is bought back there r chances that he can be better but if he is in hospital his condition will only get worst. there where ppl in SN who ignored Mayank befor he went to MA too and mayank is not in a condition to understand wat he is doing he cannot be blamed for the crimes he has done,and just coz he will be blamed for the crims happning in the house dos'nt mean that he should not be back home.and it is way better for mayank to stay with his mom and dad rather than being in a hospital or MA

Thirdly, when damini said to Ganga that "if u dont let me bring mayank, i want my nakul". My question is : what is the realtion with this two things??? How can Nakul fulfill mayanks place??? And if she wants Nakul why is she wanting him after 20 years...??? 😕😕😕 It prooves that ll Damini wants is to hurt and fight with ganga and thats it...

that qusention was asked by a mothe to a mother. when ganga feels mayank should not be bought home(and if as a women she feels that mayank should not be in SN then y not give back nakul to his very own mother who gave nakul to ganga when she needed it the most) its not abt nakul filling mayanks place its a right of a mother if ganca as a mother can be selfish then y not damini be selfish for her own child.(who is ganga to judge damini when she herself is so possisive).there is no point of fight it was a simple qustion asked by damini to ganga if ganga as a women thinks of KT then y dose she thinks as a mother in case of nakul.its just that motherhood is always more stronger than being a human

If she was really thinking of mayank she shud have snd him to a hospital not bring him back home to make him even worse...

PS: The above statements are just my perosnal opinion. Its not neccessary that u will have to agree with it. If u dont, u r most welcome to say that and even u r welcome to critisize me...no problem. U can debate, u can argue with me...but please dont start a fight,,,,,i request..😛

PS:whatever i stated above is wat i think it not stated to hurt someone