points to ponder, 12 mar - Page 4

Originally posted by: perfectprincess

I think the reason why Nandni did not want to have poilice round the house so that Lakshya won't find about anything. She does not want kt to have a life like her where she lost her love and spoiled her whole life.

actually, that's another reason why i have a problem with nandini's attitude. she never lost her love because of the rape!! karan always stood by her (from what i read). true love does that.

why is everyone here assuming that once kt has been assaulted, lakshya is going to abandon her? after all, karan didn't abandon nandini. lakshya's already gone through quite a bit for kt; why would he be now turn superficial and throw kt out of his heart, and his soul?? for no mistake of her own?

sorry, all, i still don't get nandini's reaction other than by either saying she's rather stupid, or that she's obsessed with justice - more because of what happened to herself - rather than caring for kt. i'd prefer not to think of her as stupid, because she hasn't been stupid in the past. she's just narrow-minded when it comes to this issue because she's obsessed with this issue. and her obsession has made her behave very differently from what an ordinary person would do - focus more on the hurt kt has received. in lots of little ways.

at least, that's the way i see it.

Originally posted by: maragathm

I think someone had mentioned before that if Tulsi did the same thing Nandini did we would be cheering for her. Yes we would, not because it is Tulsi, only because Tulsi knows KT for the past 20 years. She is her baby, she understands what is KT mental strengths and weaknesses are, what she is capable of handling and how to give her strength. Nands is not her mother or even a distant relative. That scene just lacked a certain level of sensitivity, it is not really Nands fault, the script writers are ruining her character.

From the start her tirade against Eklavya has shown her as being bitter and now this. She is stuck in the past. I know rape is horrible and not easy to forget. But someone had written something earlier that rape is not the end of the world, woman should not feel that they cant move on and should constantly remember the past, when in reality they should be taught to forget. Whenever I see Nandini I feel like she is stuck in the past, and now dredging up this fight for KT, is more to get justice for herself that she never got in the sense than to fight for KT. This is just all going to end badly for KT and Eklavya. 😭

thank you, that almost perfectly captured what i felt too. in fact, i guess i'd go one step further and claim - like i did before - that any woman, who has not gone through a rape, especially where she had to keep quiet about it, would have shown kt more compassion than nandini did.

and you have also painted me a convincingly bleak future for eklavya bhaiyya who could be in for a whole tirade because of nandini using kt.

Originally posted by: estee

kt didn't seem fit to say that she was examined by the doctor lakshya took her to?manthan, who was supposed to be in jail, was back at shantiniketan in this show?lakshya, ostensibly after bringing kt home from a doctor, feeling like she's hiding something, coolly walked off, took a shower and turned into a bright orange/red banana???btw, same goes for the conversation opener when he came to her room afterwards to check what's going on with her: the way he spoke, it was as if he hadn't seen her since the party itself. none of that made sense to me.

Didn't Tanya bring Manthan home? 😕 lol...the rest I agree with!

it is. i agree. i just think it's insensitive. nandini was comforted by tulsi-d after her incident? she was cuddled by karan? at least for the sake of tulsi-d, she could've been a little less cold to kt?i just think that nandini's way of "dealing with the situation" is chilling. if i were in an accident, i wouldn't want nandini to be my rescuer. she'd probably take me to the police station to "get justice" and watch while i bleed to death from my wounds. 😆 seriously, she was callous today!! lolz.OK,I am starting to see what you are saying...

narrow-minded: not being able to see beyond the fact that kt was sexually assaulted.Well,what else is there to see at that time..? Or do you mean that she doesn't see what KT's going thru...?

emotionally-disturbed: she perpetually sees her tormentor, so much so that she shouts in public for him to get away, freaking out the ones she loves, who hear her.past-obsessed: self-explanatory? I agree

but hey, i respect your opinion too. 😃 let's opine on! My thoughts exactly...

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