points to ponder, 12 mar - Page 3

Originally posted by: estee

er, 'cause that's not how the justice system works? someone in the virani's household is supposedly the assaulter. there's no way the investigation can happen without the virani's knowledge, i'm afraid.

WHY NOT JUSTICE SYSTEM WORK.INFACT WITHOUT KNOWING VIRANI'S INVEATIGATION WORK IS VERY WELL IF THEY ALL KNEW IT DON'T YOU THINK RAPIST WILL BECOME MORE CLEVER AND DESTROY ALL PROVES AGAINST HIM. LIKE KT GOT SOMR THING IN YESTERDAY'S E[ISODE AND NOW INVESTIGATION WILL START AND IT WILL TAKE TIME LIKE GUJRA'S MURDERD CASE .

Originally posted by: estee

tell me about it! 😆



more than insensitive, it was thoughtless. she first takes kt to the police station. then she stops the cops from doing the job they came to the police station to acheive??

she has been in and out of the justice system enough to know that reporting a crime means investigation. she must know about rape to know that the later the investigation is done, the more difficult it is to get evidence against the assaulter.

she was being thoughtless. and the only inference is that it's because she cares less about kt and the sad state she is in, than some obsession with what happened to her, nandini! in the past.

this woman, who has been shown to be quite sane and sensible, (other than when she is acting like a mental patient about a demon called ansh in her head) comes across as callous.

the scriptwriters showing us that there are new lows they can take characters in this show to.

welll u know i think it is kts choice that she doesnt want lakhya or the others to know about the rape rite now so thats the reason nandini stopped the inspector from going to santiniketan...once kt is able to tell lakshya then i guess the investigation can be done in the open...i dont really see nandinis fault here...

hmm nxt talking her to the police station n not being emotional i.e letting kt cry n cuddle her n stuff...well nandini had seen that kt had cried enuf already!! + they dont really know each other so kt cant exactly open up to her completely..i think nandini n karan have done the best they could in these circumstances!

If Tulsi wud have done d same thing...u guys wud have liked it....but since its Nandini who has tried to console KT n took her to d police station for justice u guys r trying to find fault...watever she has done any sensible woman would have done it...n plus any woman's past especially if its rape will always haunt her...so its nthing obssesive abt it.

Originally posted by: desiflavour101

instead of appreciating the fact that Nandani is determined to bring KT justice you are calling her: a narrow-minded, emotionally disturbed, past-obsessed woman?!

N is the one who gave KT the courage to fight for her rights and not to want to die, yet this is what you have to say for her?

KT is depressed enough as it is. If N hadn't found her then KT would have probably attempted to kill herself again and cry about what wrong has been done to her.

N did the RIGHT THING by encouraging KT to fight for her rights as a woman.

Nandani put her hand in KT's and KT looked up to her for courage, rewind back to the police station where KT looked at N for assurance.

As for police not being involved in SN, can you blame her? She knows that if some 3rd person who DOES NOT BELONG TO THE FAMILY, will find out and most probably destroy KT's chances of being married to the guy she loves.

N understands her pain and it shows how she gave KT courage to get herself examined at the police and giving her courage to fight for her rights as a woman and to bring the sick man to justice.

That's important too. As for N being obsessed with the past, HELLO, HOW CAN ANY WOMAN FORGET THAT SHE HAD BEEN RAPED?! How can any woman just stand by and watch someone else not get justice?!

Humaira

totally agree with u!!! and i loved the way Gauri acted, and to tell u the truth i had tears in my eyes durin her scene with KT, and also with Karan later.

Originally posted by: estee

i agree with what you've written enough to make me despise the scriptwriters a lot more!! 😆

😆😆😆 Any way you slice and dice this show.. the writers make sure you hate them.. Is there any logic with them??

Originally posted by: estee

??! are you sure? in a reply above, i just wrote why i think that i no longer think that any of this happened.

what do you think? 😒

Agree what was going on yest?? Manthan out of jail???? 😕😕 Tanya must have bailed him.. Laksh was too high on bhaang still so he could not remember anything.. As far as KT goes, she was too shocked to react to any doctor.. and you know what I just realized.... if the first doctor thought KT has been abused some how seeing the bruises on her body.. don't u think that thick head should have investigated it more?? I mean after all she was an accident case, therefore a police case... Oh Gawd .. you just made me think harder and hate the writers even more 😉

Originally posted by: estee

😔 somewhere down this converstation, i'm beginning to feel like we, the audience, are actually the ones being sorely abused.

i think we need an emoticon for holding one's head in pain! 😆

Welcome to the sad realization.. why are we still watching.. I am only for Laksh and KT the rest of the pagal khandaan is a blur to me.. every word they say is illogical most times..

Let me know when you make up that "my head is going to explode" emoticon .. I promise I'll use it every single time 😆

I think the reason why Karan and Nandini scene was cold because KT has no relationship with Nandini or even Karan. She has no emotional connection with them. She is the most closest to Tulsi, Laksh, Ba and to some extent Eklavya but he is a possible suspect so maybe not. That is why I thought that scene was out of place. I am not against Nandini or Karan, but I dont think that scene should have been shot. If someone got raped, I think the last person they would want to talk to is a stranger, and I think in that regards Karan and Nandini are strangers. I think right know KT needs to stand on her two feet, clear her head before she can start head hunting for who did this to her. I am saying this because she looks confused now and I dont want the wrong person blamed. So I dont think K-N were in any position emotionally to comfort her, because they have not any relationship with her. Poor KT she wanted to Tulsi, screaming for her Baa. 😭

Originally posted by: kushii

have you given a thought to the pathetic script writers insistence to portay women as helpless........ the same track is followed in all the serials. maybe ekta shold sit back and get a reality check. nobody wants to see people getting raped again and again! 😡 😡 😡

I totally agree with you.....

I think the reason why Nandni did not want to have poilice round the house so that Lakshya won't find about anything. She does not want kt to have a life like her where she lost her love and spoiled her whole life.

Frankly Ekta is ridiculous...OK Nandini was raped... But i realise nowhere did kt say she was raped so flatly...Nandini assumed...and wHATS WITH THE CLINICAL APPROACH...NO TEARS FOR HER...IS SHE SELF CENTERED...INSTEAD OF PROVIDING EMOTIONAL SUPPORT SHE DIVES INTO HER MEMORIES...PLEASE 20 YEARS HAS PASSED...IT MIGHT BE HAUNTING BUT NOT THAT MUCH AS COMPARED TO THE COMPASSION THAT SHOULD HAVE ARISED FROM KT MISERY!!!

I think someone had mentioned before that if Tulsi did the same thing Nandini did we would be cheering for her. Yes we would, not because it is Tulsi, only because Tulsi knows KT for the past 20 years. She is her baby, she understands what is KT mental strengths and weaknesses are, what she is capable of handling and how to give her strength. Nands is not her mother or even a distant relative. That scene just lacked a certain level of sensitivity, it is not really Nands fault, the script writers are ruining her character.

From the start her tirade against Eklavya has shown her as being bitter and now this. She is stuck in the past. I know rape is horrible and not easy to forget. But someone had written something earlier that rape is not the end of the world, woman should not feel that they cant move on and should constantly remember the past, when in reality they should be taught to forget. Whenever I see Nandini I feel like she is stuck in the past, and now dredging up this fight for KT, is more to get justice for herself that she never got in the sense than to fight for KT. This is just all going to end badly for KT and Eklavya. 😭