Originally posted by: arfan13000
if tanya is THAT mahan, den y did she marry her best friend's hubby. now dont gimme da crap of 'she-did-it-for-bhoomi' coz if u luk back at kyunki's episodes, it was obvious how she was DYING to get married to karan. she was shedding tears wen karan initially refused to marry her. and wen he actually did agree to marry her i still remember da episode wen both ganga and damini congratulate her and she has dis smile on her face. i mean come on. she should have felt at least sum amount of guilt dat she is marrying her best frend's hubby but no she didnt luk an inch guilty. to marry karan, dat was her ONLY motive. and for dat motive she was willing to stoop to any level be it anything even marrying an already married man. now if u guyz expect dat in exchange for her 'servitude of 20 years' karan is going to change his feelings towards nandini, den i think u dont understand luv. luv is not given as a repayment. it just happens for no particular reason. it is just inevitable(btw anything cud be expected from karan and bhoomi. who knows after coming 2 kno abt nandini's marriage he'll reverse his feelings bak 2 tanya) da point im tryin to make here is luv isnt a payback dat cud b cashed after depositing ur investments in an account for 20 years.
just put yourself in tanya's shoes, wud u ever do dat 2 ur best frend wen she is in comma? wud u marry her hubby? wud u tell her daughter to call YOU mummy? i admit tanya did all dat she did for karan out of her luv but dat doesnt change wat she did wid nandini 20 years ago. cuz we all kno dat da excuse of bhoomi was invalid as dat huge family had too many ppl to take care of a little child. if she was THAT mahaan, she wud have never agreed to marry karan in the first place!
ok....1st of all.......did she go upto karan or the rest of the family to say that she wants to marry karan and nopw nandini is gone...plzz let me marry him..plzz......NO......she never did that....she was asked to...btw whose idea wat that? tanya's? i dont think so...she didnt even think of marrying him at that stage...other family members came up with that idea as far as i know..i dont care if he was married or not....ofcourse she would havent marrried him if nandini was there......and if u think about karan he has just used her like a piece of crap....he married her(when nandini wasnt there) even got her pregnant...and when nandini came bak then fully ran bak to his so called love-nandini.....and why shehad a smile on her face?..its bcoz she loved him and was happy......i m sure if u love some1 and luckily get them as ur life partner....u'll be happy too......and dont state that she didnt do it for bhoomi....oh plzz...how many times do i have to explain to u.......if there were other ppl to take care of her...why didnt they take care of that lil child then....why did they think....karan and tanya should be married......and why she got bhoomi to call her "mummy"?.......a child has got basic needs when it is born and needs certain things in its life....love(emotional attachment),shelter, food etc. so....bhoomi's real mother was in hospital, karan hated her like hell.......so it was only tanya who took her responsibilty.....when did we say karan's gonna change his feelings coz of tanya's sacrifice........hehas even forgotten that he is married...he doesnt even take any respeonsibilites....so no point......he is like an idiot.....who is just sitting there and keeps on crying and if anything happens to the ppl around him..he doesnt care...and yeh..i do understand luv...but luv is not just marrying the person u like...its actually....accepting them for what they r and help them out in everysingle situation of theirs...and i think tanya has done all that..she didnt just marry him but took all her responsibilities too...whereas karan is just sitting there like a tortoise...who's never gonna move...and i dont care about karan's feelings...but i dont think bhoomi's feelings can be reversable for a fact.....she has stayed with tanya all her life....and so i dont think...she is simply gonna forget tanya coz of nandini and even she does....whose daughter is she? ansh's.......so u cant expect anything(good)from her i know.