Karan and his double standards...

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Posted: 18 years ago
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OK, before this turns controversial, I'd like to say that these are purely my views... They are not meant to offend or hurt any Karan fans....

I think Karan has terrible double standards. He has completely and utterly ruined Tanya's life.If he loved Nandini so much, why did he have to go and marry tanya in the first place? Now some of you might say that "Oh, the family forced him to marry her, who told her to marry a married man?"

Well first of all, he is a mentally sound, independant, adult. Noone can force him into marriage. There must have been some part of him that wanted to marry her too. He was in love with her.
And Tanya could have equally taken care of Bhoomi, without marrying Karan too.

Okie, moving on.... He succumbed to family pressure and married her. But was he so true to his true love for ever and ever, Nandini? Nope, he gets Tanya pregnant with Manthan.....

Then Nandini is outta the coma (I havent watched Kyunki before the leap so I dunno if Tanya got preg before or after Nands came outta the coma)... Then they bring her home...

Nandini goes to jail later... La la la... Tanya gives birth to Manthan.

20 years jump! *jumps*

For 20 years Tanya has been bearing constant comparisons, criticisms and nitpicking about not being Nandini. Well they themselves brought her into the house... And how can you expect one human being to be another person!?!? Isn't it enough that this woman has cared for you and your family, including that a child that is not hers, and brought that very child with more love and affection than her own son...?

Now Nandini is back, and Tanya has decided that she will not be the reason that Karan wont get his love and has willingly stepped out of the way. But does this man acknowledge that? He just says "Jo bhi hai Vijay, jaldi karo, mere paas time nahi hai, main usse dubaara khonaa nahi chahta..." in this indifferent tone, ignoring the fact that the woman who just gave you more than 20 years of your life is sitting there, willingly giving up the only life she has known and wanted, giving up the family and the man that she loved, just to make him happy....

When Nandini has the common sense that no good ever comes from ruining a family, why doesnt Karan get it?

I've seen many people saying that Karan deserves to be with Nandini coz she is who he loves. Well what about Tanya's right to be with the man she loved? Just Karan has the right?

Karan, knowingly and unknowingly, has ruined 2 lives, that of Tanya and Manthan, in his foolish pursuit of Nandini.

Since the leap, we always see that Karan has not once, talked affectionately or with love to Manthan. Is it coz he isnt Nandini's child, like Bhoomi?? Disgusting double standards again, paying more attention to one child more than another, especially when the other is your own flesh and blood.

You cannot always get everything you want in life, you cannot always live with the person you love, even though that is what we all wish for... Compromises and adjustments have to be made .

After the leap, Karan's character has been transformed into a completely...despicable character...🤢


Just had to get this out.

Again: No offence meant. Purely my point of view. You may agree with it, or you may not. It doesnt make a difference to me. Just expressing my view on the situation.

Opinions, comments - welcome.

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bhaveshavani thumbnail
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Posted: 18 years ago
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nimmi while reading i really felt like u said what my heart felt
i totally agree karan not even once spoken softly with manthan
bhoomi who gives lecture about real mom ... doesnt even know ??? that karan is not her real dad????
how silly yaar.....
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Posted: 18 years ago
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again, to some extent you are correct. but don't you agree that its unfair to tanya for her to have karan forcefully remain to her, when every1 knos that he doesn't love her? yes tanya should get her love but again, the guy she loves doesn't love her back. so is that fair for her to be unhappy for the rest of her life?

i mean, if i was in tanya's place, my husband tells me he loves another woman, i will leave him and not force him to remain by my side, because it will hurt me to see him every day knowing that he loves another woman and not me. if the kids get hurt in the process, then again, the kids should see and learn that never marry a person who doesn't love you.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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i agree with each and every word that you have posted. and another thing tht i dont understand is that if nandini doesnt want to ruin tanyas home then y o y is she living in the same city as them. she was just waiting to be found. u'd think that in 20 years shes thought to herself that "o they might find me here, i shud move to a different country or atleast to a different city". For crying out loud, some of the serials writers really need to think about story lines.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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for all you know, she could be in a different country and just moved into town recently. she didn't want to be found which is why she ran away from karan repeatedly. she saved him yet she left. she has purposely not done anything, so please don't say that she wanted to be found.

its like what tanya had said in one episode: if Nandani had wanted to come back, she would have come back 20 years ago.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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You are so true. Karan has loved Bhoomi..i remember in one of the episodes he has said that tumhi to khyaal rakh sakti ho aur apne pita ko samjhati ho..she is such a spoiled brat..atleast everyone knows what Manthan does..what abt Bhoomi..I have never heard Karan saying that the way she behaves with others in the family is not right. I dont Blame Tanya..I think Culprit is Karan because he agreed to marry Tanya..if he wanted a baby sitter for Bhoomi, he should have kept someone and paid that person..He married her..had a baby..she took care of every damn person in khandan and now WHAT !!!! Nandini should never have come back to Mumbai if she ever wanted to Make Kurbani..waise its good that both Jhoota and Jhooti will be together and atleast Tanya will stay independently and not under the falls roof of love..I wish she becomes strong as Ganga and joins hands with her and then finally snatch/takeover Karan's business. Pade raho apne pyaar ke saath and someone should really slap Bhoomi..She is just the horrible character...how can she blame Tanya..Tanya loved her... cared for her..Ahsaan Faramosh..
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: desiflavour101

but don't you agree that its unfair to tanya for her to have karan forcefully remain to her, when every1 knos that he doesn't love her? yes tanya should get her love but again, the guy she loves doesn't love her back. so is that fair for her to be unhappy for the rest of her life?



It is unfair to Tanya. That is exactly what I am saying. She has been living in a totally unfair situation for the past 20 years. I guess when you are living a situation for a long time, you make peace with it and learn to accept it.

It's just such a huge mess. Thank god this isnt real life or it would be really sad to see someone go through all this. SO many lives being ruined, and for no real reason except stupid familial pressure to marry marry marry as soon as you are a legal adult and squeeze outa few kids.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: darkness_123

Then Nandini is outta the coma (I havent watched Kyunki before the leap so I dunno if Tanya got preg before or after Nands came outta the coma)... Then they bring her home...

Tanya got the news of her being pregnant the very same day Nandini came outta coma. Wierd, huh?

Anyways, all I want to say is that this is one thing I totally agree with you at! Very very well said.👏Hopefully this clears the issue for some visually impaired fans.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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and mind u no one yet knows what tanya said to nands when she met her, she might have said her to leave
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Posted: 18 years ago
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HEY TANYA KNEW FROM DAY 1 AS SOON AS NANDINI RETURNS SHE HAS 2 LEAVE CAUSE DEEP DOWN INSIDE HER SHW KNEW ALL ALONG THAT KARAN TRUE LOVE IS NANDINI AND Y STAY WID KARAN HE TRULEY LOVE NANDINI MORE THAN HIS OWN LIFE!!!!!!!!

KARAN NANDINI FOREVER!!!!!!!!!

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