okay, first, i don't understand the meaning of this post and what you are trying to say.
as for them being everywhere, its mainly because they are the most popular and loved couple. which is why they keep on getting paired together. they have been a hit since 2001 and their popularity is only growing. they are appreciated by their fans and because of their fan following, they are where they are, which they constantly acknowledge their fans and ekta for.
as for their story in kyunki...she is being shown in glimpses right now because gauri is doing NB2 and doesn't want the 2 shows to coincide, as she prefers to concentrate on 1 serial at a time. but since they are on NB2 and have the MAXIMUM public votes, ekta is taking advantage by giving her glimpses here and there.
after nb2 is done, their story will start moving again. again their story is connected through the younger generation as their relationship will affect bhoomi, manthan, and their own child's lives. so just chill.
as for being reserved, there is nothing wrong with it. everyone is different. just because you are in the public eye doesn't mean that you have to change who and what you are. not everyone can easily befriend anyone. it took hiten-gauri 6 months to even talk to each other.
if you really do notice carefully, she is always shown at premiers and parties with a smile on her face, interacting with other television actors and kyunki colleagues such as riva and rakshanda. not just them, but if you see her bday party video and other gathering events, she is always shown to be having a good time.
as for her at award shows, she is just self-concious of the camera being focused on her and would rather be shown poised and quiet than to be making loud noises and acting immature. again her nature is like that. i don't blame her.
again, if you know your post will hurt someone and if your intentions are NOT to hurt someone's feelings, then use better and more politically correct words to voice your opinions. sometimes its the words you say that upset people even if that is NOT your intentions.
again this is a forum where every1 is allowed to voice their opinions. its what and how you present your words that count.
Humaira