Tanya and her Position - Page 2

me too with tanya..
it's not her fault

A Woman's Perspective!!!

Tanya helped Ansh to break up Karan and Nandani, then when Ansh rapped Nandani, she became their friend and helped them to convict Ansh. Then she stayyed as a part of their life - she should have gone away.

When Nandani went into comma she married Karan knowing that Karan loves only Nandani, she was Nandani's friend and Nandani was in comma, not dead. She could still have looked after her best friends child without marrying her best friends husband. She never objected to the marriage and despite knowing that Karan was compromising she still married him.

About Karan falling in love with Tanya, people get attached and love their pets, if anyone stays with you for two years you will live that person also. He loved Tanya but not the way he loved Nandani.

When Nandani came back Tanya went away but she never left, she kept visiting Bhumi and meeting Karan. Imagine waking up from comma and finding out that your best friend has married your husband and become your daughter's mother.

Nandani loved Bhumi so much, she killed Gujral for her. She loved Karan so much she confessed to murdering Gujral. For her love for Karan and Bhumi she went away from their lives, so that they can be happy. If anyone deserves Karan she does because she has sacrified so much for him and his family.

Nandani is still Karan's legal wife, he never divorced her and married Tanya, so Tanya does not have a wife's status as the Hindu Marriage Act does not allow two wives.

Tanya lied and separated Karan and Nandani, then she became their friend and waited for an opportunity to get Karan and everytime she got that opportunity she used it. She never said this is my friends husband how can I do this.

To love is not wrong but to steal someone else's love and force them to be with you is wrong. You cannot force someone to love you - and if you really love someone that you will want them to be happy even if it means that their happiness is with someone else.

There's no difference in Meera and Karan's love, both want the person they love, only Meera was willing to kill for that love and Tanya waited for an oppurtunity to get her love.

ann_belle wrote:

A Woman's Perspective!!!

Tanya helped Ansh to break up Karan and Nandani, then when Ansh rapped Nandani, she became their friend and helped them to convict Ansh. Then she stayyed as a part of their life - she should have gone away.

When Nandani went into comma she married Karan knowing that Karan loves only Nandani, she was Nandani's friend and Nandani was in comma, not dead. She could still have looked after her best friends child without marrying her best friends husband. She never objected to the marriage and despite knowing that Karan was compromising she still married him.

About Karan falling in love with Tanya, people get attached and love their pets, if anyone stays with you for two years you will live that person also. He loved Tanya but not the way he loved Nandani.

When Nandani came back Tanya went away but she never left, she kept visiting Bhumi and meeting Karan. Imagine waking up from comma and finding out that your best friend has married your husband and become your daughter's mother.

Nandani loved Bhumi so much, she killed Gujral for her. She loved Karan so much she confessed to murdering Gujral. For her love for Karan and Bhumi she went away from their lives, so that they can be happy. If anyone deserves Karan she does because she has sacrified so much for him and his family.

Nandani is still Karan's legal wife, he never divorced her and married Tanya, so Tanya does not have a wife's status as the Hindu Marriage Act does not allow two wives.

Tanya lied and separated Karan and Nandani, then she became their friend and waited for an opportunity to get Karan and everytime she got that opportunity she used it. She never said this is my friends husband how can I do this.

To love is not wrong but to steal someone else's love and force them to be with you is wrong. You cannot force someone to love you - and if you really love someone that you will want them to be happy even if it means that their happiness is with someone else.

There's no difference in Meera and Karan's love, both want the person they love, only Meera was willing to kill for that love and Tanya waited for an oppurtunity to get her love.
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I agree with your points.


Tanya was so nasty at 1st with Ansh. She hated Nandini 4 being with Karan and tried 2 break them apart, how nasty is that. U just dont do that with 2 ppl who r in love.

Its true, she could have looked after Bhoomi without the need to marry Karan. I mean Nandini wasnt dead.

She said she was going 2 leave when Nandini woke up but never did, which she should have because Nandini was heartbroken when she realised Karan married her best friend and also that her own daughter wont accept her as her mum.

And Nandini sacrificed her life for Karan, who she loves and Tanya who she considers her best friend so they could be happy 2gether.

After all this time Karan still loves Nandini, therefore Tanya should just leave 4eva and let Karan and Nandini have the happy marraige they have been waiting for, for so many years.

i too agree with this.i feel so sad for her.

hmm, well, thinking from a woman's perspective, i still cannot feel any sympathy for her. she has knowingly put herself in this position. if you guys say that she stayed with him for 20 years and deserves his love, then what about meera and tripti. didn't they stay with mihir and sahil for 20 years, they still love their respective lovers. so why cannot karan?

thinking from a woman's perspective, i would be ashamed to be called 'tanya' because she is now crying that she has done so much. but in reality, its not that much. she raised bhoomi...so tripti raised nakul and laksh...damini raised eklavya. she spoiled her son to be rude with elders and never scolds him when he does the wrong thing.

more, who told tanya to marry karan? she herself married him. no one forced her to. she knew karan is being forced yet she NEVER said to everyone that stop pressuring karan and that he will love nandani only. yet she did the opposite. she married him. when karan married tanya, he only saw nandani in his eyes and in his heart. while marrying tanya, he saw and remembered only nandani!

she was never happy with karan-nandani's wedding. yes she helped them get married, but the entire time she carried around a martyr expression and was thinking: I am scared ki meri nazar tumhari khusiyon par na lage, to nandani.

now, a respectful and dignified woman would have never married karan and would have stayed by his side like the true friend she claims to be. a respectful and dignified woman would never cry to everyone about the goods she has done. when have you seen tulsi, ganga, and nandani telling everyone they did this and that, but got no love?

a TRUE woman would never cry if it means that her best friend who suffered through so much can have a chance at happiness that she gave her (nandani to tanya). a true woman would respect nandani and bring nandani back to karan. because of nandani, tanya has had the chance to stay with karan for 20 years. instead of being grateful and supportive to karan, she is now complaining about nandani going to be ruining her 'happy' home and that she doesn't want nandani to come back.

another thing which everyone is forgetting is that karan has always been honest with tanya. tanya has seen him suffering for nandani. she knew before leap that for karan nandani will always come first. karan told her b4 leap and after leap. karan has told her he cannot give her n's spot in his life and heart, she accepted it. now, its not his fault that she had more than high expectations from him when he is honest with her.

a TRUE woman would NEVER be with a man who doesn't love her. a man who only talks to you when it comes to children. A man who still pines for another woman who is your best friend.

More: A true woman would NEVER tell a man that she doesn't mind sharing him with another woman.

humaira

to compare tanya with meera and tripti is completely wrong....theyre evil where as tanya isnt....ok one more thing...if you guys have forgotten...KARAN WANTED TO TELL NANDANI ABOUT THEIR RELATIONSHIP BUT TANYA DIDNT LET HIM, INSTEAD LEFT....IT WAS QUITE NATURAL FOR HER TO MEET BHUMI AS SHE HAD SPENT SO MANY YEARS WITH HER....but...karan should have some sense....tanya helped karan in loving bhumi when he hated her so much....remember that??? she was with the family when they were on the verge of breaking up...family as in karan and bhumi...she bought them together...tanya ISNT WRONG...and neither in NANDANI...but whats wrong is that...karan should have been more sensible towards his situations...where was his true love when he was marrying Tanya????where was the true love when he slept with her??? Stupid dramas wanna talk about pure love..but lust takes over love...anyways...i just wanna say that...i cant see tanya in that bad light...because she is not wrong....it's not wrong to want your love to love you as well...

a true woman would never share her man...absolutely correct...regardless of how much she loves him...but nandani chose to share...she left everything to tanya before going off to jail...tanya would have eventually gotten over everything and moved on....as she had already moved out of the family...but nandani bought her back...im not looking at this from nanadani or tanyas position but im just feeling that for a woman in tanyas place is somewhat done wrong...and karan being forced...i dont think he was 2 years old when he married her...he had sense...he knew his wife was alive...so cant blame tanya for it...everyones selfish for love...cant deny that...

THAT has to be the biggest joke of life 😆 😆 tanya herself told karan when nandani was taken back to the hospital and told him: i won't mind sharing you but nandani won't share you! and nandani put tanya's hand in karan's and PERMANENTLY left them. she didn't come back to them.

as for karan, he has made mistakes, a TRUE MAN. but he has suffered for his mistakes when nandani left him 20 years ago, simple. more, he has been honest with tanya. if a man tells me before i start my life with him that i will come 2nd, then i would NEVER live with that man for 20 years. but tanya agreed to stay. AFTER 20 YEARS, if a man still tells me the same thing REPEATEDLY, i would kill him or i would find his love, and leave them 2 alone.

humaira

Originally posted by: enycexdoll

a true woman would never share her man...absolutely correct...regardless of how much she loves him...but nandani chose to share...she left everything to tanya before going off to jail...tanya would have eventually gotten over everything and moved on....as she had already moved out of the family...but nandani bought her back...im not looking at this from nanadani or tanyas position but im just feeling that for a woman in tanyas place is somewhat done wrong...and karan being forced...i dont think he was 2 years old when he married her...he had sense...he knew his wife was alive...so cant blame tanya for it...everyones selfish for love...cant deny that...

ok, now you got your facts all screwed up 😆

tanya wanted to tell nandani she is married to karan so nandani can leave karan (everyone in SN said if N finds out Karan married Tanya, she will leave him). Tanya searched for opportunities to tell Nandani but wasn't successful.

karan wanted to tell Nandani the truth, BUT Nandani's doctor told him that if he tells her any shocking news, SHE WILL DIE OR GO BACK INTO COMA. that's when karan told tulsi and tanya, that no obligations, no duties, NOTHING will come in the way of nandani leaving him again. he told tanya i understand your situation, but i am helpless. why is he helpless? duh, he doesn't want N to leave him.

tanya's only positive point is that she made karan come to love and accept bhoomi. that's it.

as for him sleeping with her, TULSI MATA, the mati hari herself, told karan that he needs to move on. and because karan is the EVER DUTIFUL son, he agreed to his mother's wishes.

now, i am not saying karan was right before the leap. BUT AFTER LEAP, he has gotten a spine and learned when to say yes and no to TULSI.

after the leap, we have seen many conversations/arguments of karan-tanya where its shown that they aren't happy nor a typical happy married couple. because karan has held her responsible for nandani leaving him, has told her she isn't bhoomi's mother, and then told her that she is a part of his life but he lives for nandani only. and more, he has told her that he loves nandani ONLY.

my only complaint with tanya is:

when tanya has told karan she will leave him during their arguments, why is she now crying about it as if karan promised to never leave her when nandani returns to him? she has lived with this truth for the past 20 years that she will leave as soon as karan comes, so why cry now and make karan look bad in front of everyone? more, why is she changing her mind about nandani returning? what's funny is that her son has told her that karan will always choose nandani over her.

DAMINI has even told tanya that because of Nandani's memories, the distance b/n you and karan has widened in the past 20 years! every member of the virani family probably knows that karan-tanya may be married but aren't happy together. even mohini and tripti know and taunt her repeatedly about this.

what's more hilarious is that SHE BLAMES nandani for the way karan treats her. how can she blame nandani when nandani left them and never came back, NOT EVEN TO MEET BHOOMI, AS SHE KNOWS KARAN WILL FORCE HER TO STAY WHICH WILL CAUSE TANYA'S HOME TO BE RUINED.

if you are trying to find out about true love on indian serials, CHECK OUT KUTUMB I. because to this date, THAT is the only serial that was ever sensibly shown on indian television about true love.

humaira

Originally posted by: enycexdoll

to compare tanya with meera and tripti is completely wrong....theyre evil where as tanya isnt....ok one more thing...if you guys have forgotten...KARAN WANTED TO TELL NANDANI ABOUT THEIR RELATIONSHIP BUT TANYA DIDNT LET HIM, INSTEAD LEFT....IT WAS QUITE NATURAL FOR HER TO MEET BHUMI AS SHE HAD SPENT SO MANY YEARS WITH HER....but...karan should have some sense....tanya helped karan in loving bhumi when he hated her so much....remember that??? she was with the family when they were on the verge of breaking up...family as in karan and bhumi...she bought them together...tanya ISNT WRONG...and neither in NANDANI...but whats wrong is that...karan should have been more sensible towards his situations...where was his true love when he was marrying Tanya????where was the true love when he slept with her??? Stupid dramas wanna talk about pure love..but lust takes over love...anyways...i just wanna say that...i cant see tanya in that bad light...because she is not wrong....it's not wrong to want your love to love you as well...