Tanya and her Position

I dont understand why everyone is being so cold towards Tanya...we need to think from a womans point of view rather than a mans...if you give 20 years of your life to someone....thinking that one day theyll have a place for you in their heart....and then have them repeatedly remind you that they don't love you and can never give you that place in their heart, its tough...and quite honestly...i wouldnt blame tanya if she tries to keep nand and karan apart....shes been with karan through thick and thin....and its wrong of karan to degrade her the way he does..i understand that he loves nandani a lot...but he has other responsibilities now...his life has moved on 20 years..hes no longer the 20 year old guy who fell for nandani....those were different circumstances and the ones in front of him now are also very different...accept and move on...but then again this is ekta's serial......far far far from reality....but people think twice before actually replying to this post....think from a womans prespective and by putting urself in her shoes rather than thinking from karans point of view...

is anyone gonna shed any light on this topic??? or is it something that no one agrees with?

i agree with u im a huge fan of tanyas wehy are ppl sooo rude to her i mean like mean

to some extent u r rite. 😉

This is exactly what I feel on this topic. People always compare Tanya with Tripti and Meera but if you look at her position it is different from them. When Karan married her, he did not love her but obviously at a point he grew feelings for her and accepted her. He went ahead and had kids with her and 20 yrs later he just drops the bombshell you are just my friend. Imagine how the woman is supposed to feel. She gave 20 yrs of her life to him and made a family. Let us not talk about the upbringing, parenthood is something which is not always dealt with rightly. But you cannot deny that she gave Manthan and Bhoomi a sense of security, (This is so prevalent in their attitude Mom will save me or help me out) and this something is missing in Nakul and Lakshaya's life inspite of Saahil being a more approachable and involved father than Karan.I know that Karan will not leave her to fend for herself, he will obviously take care of her financial needs but that does not exempt him. Imagine if the roles were reversed and it was Tanya who pined for another man and Karan played the devoted husband. Would it have been right on her part to do so?

I know this is a hypothetical scenario and the solutions would be reached acc to the trps and ekta's whim but this is taking it too far. Marriage as an institution needs to be respected. And one which has survived for 20+ years defnitely needs to be treated that way. I used to be a big fan of Anu-Prerna but to imagine that after the leap of 20 yrs where Prerna-Bajaj were together it did not feel right to break them up with the amnesia twist in KZK last yr.

man i totally agree..karan is doing wrong with tanya

well i dont actually blame or hate tanya..but it definitely wud hav been better if nandini was thr...its not tht karan has wronged her or she is wrong ..its just that knowin all along tht karan luvs only nandini she has too many xpectations which naturally wont b fulfilled n being nandini's so called best friend did she ever bother 2 understand and actually do something to help her out?and who was askin her 2 give all those yrs of devotion 2 karan being aware of the fact tht he luvs only nandini...i dont c myself doin such thing...i guess thts why even tho i think n understand frm a woman's point of view i cant understand why tanya stuck with karan knowin the reality of the situation?why didnt she make ne effort 2 bring nandini back whn it was bcoz of nandini ht she's with karan...n she's supposed 2 b her bestfrnd?i dont c myself justifyin all these things even being a woman...sorry

Hi Everyone,
Do anyone remember that she played games with Karan to separate Karan and Nandini. She new when she married Karan that he don't love her. Karan was forced by his family to marry her . She knew all the time Karan never lover her. She is same as Meera but only difference is she don't have mean soul. When Nandini came back from comma she could have left but no she keep coming back. So Meera also gave 20 years of her life Mihir and her also was hoping she should get Mihir too?
Take care
Bonnie

Originally posted by: pppppp

Hi Everyone,
Do anyone remember that she played games with Karan to separate Karan and Nandini. She new when she married Karan that he don't love her. Karan was forced by his family to marry her . She knew all the time Karan never lover her. She is same as Meera but only difference is she don't have mean soul. When Nandini came back from comma she could have left but no she keep coming back. So Meera also gave 20 years of her life Mihir and her also was hoping she should get Mihir too?
Take care
Bonnie

i 1000000000000% agree with you.plus she is a biggest lior she said when nandini will be come back i will leave you but noooooooooooo instead of leaving she was creating new drama and got sympthy with damini and tulsi.she knew it very very well karan only and only loves nandini then why creating this big stuff.she is the cheapest women on this earth.

hey...if u remember tanya DID leave! i am totally on tanyas side...shes not evil i dunno how people see that in her