i think nandani's situation is more sacrificing than tanya's.
i think tanya is acting very childishly. its not for the first time that karan has told her that she is just a friend to him while nandani will always be more. so why can she not accept it? why should she expect more when post-leap they have shown that karan no longer is immune to her tears the way he used to be?
tanya is responsible for her own situation. nandani was at the same end, i'm sure at one point: to leave karan or to go and destroy a 'family.' she made the right decision by letting tanya remain with karan. its NOT her fault that karan HASNT STOPPED LOVING HER AND WANTS TO BE WITH HER.
tanya knows everything, yet she still acts like a selfish martyr. she is always shown to saying: i did this, i did that, what did i get? when she went into this marriage, KARAN LOVED NANDANI SO MUCH HE COULDN'T SEE BHOOMI AS IT REMINDED HIM OF NANDANI. tanya was there as his friend. but then she started expecting more AFTER TULSI LECTURED KARAN ON TANYA'S RIGHTS.
i'm honestly more upset with tulsi than anyone else. when tulsi knows how much karan loves nandani, why did she encourage him to give tanya her 'wifely' right and build up tanya's expectations? it seemed to me that tulsi had forgotten about nandani and didn't want her to come back.
when nandnai found out the truth, she accused nandani of coming back and breaking their home! why would tulsi do this when she knows how much Karan loves Nandani?!
tulsi is always shown to support karan when karan wants to give the right to tanya. but when it coems to nandani, she will always be against nandani for some reason. she sided with karan when mohini was determined to tell nandani the truth?! she sided with tanya at every step not thinking or caring about nandani's feelings in this entire matter. she didn't realize that its not nandani's fault that karan loves her so much! its tanya's fault for expecting more when she knows the truth!
after knowing and realizing and being given blame that she broke up tanya-karan's happy home, SHE LEFT.
i don't blame her for not coming back again, as no one was happy to have back from the coma. she lost her daughter and her husband's love, and the family literally didn't treat her as karan's wife with the respect they should. instead, they treat her like a burden and as if she is karan's 2nd wife! yet nandani and her child didn't get what they deserve!
tulsi not once went to visit nandani. and here nandnai was ready to sacrifice her future child for tulsi! more, tulsi has forgotten that nandani was pregnant!!
yet tanya despite being the 2nd wife, STILL GOT EVERYTHING SHE ALWAYS WANTED! SO WHY SHOULD SHE BE THE BECHARI? WHY SHOULD PEOPLE SYMPATHIZE WITH HER WHEN SHE IS RESPONSIBLE FOR HER OWN ACTIONS. she knew karan loves nandani yet she still married him. when she went back to SN after nandani went to jail, KARAN TOLD HER HE CANNOT GIVE HER NANDAN'S SPOT AND SHE ACCEPTED. so yes she is responsible for the current misery of her life and isntead of taking responsibility, SHE IS BLAMING KARAN FOR STILL LOVING NANDANI!
nandani took action and responsibility. she realized that the only way to keep karan-tanya happy is to PERMANENTLY STAY AWAY, NOT EVEN CONTACT BHOOMI, HER OWN DAUGHTER. THINK ABOUT HOW HARD IT MUST HAVE BEEN FOR NANDANI TO LEAVE HER DAUGHTER! THE SAME DAUGHTER WHOM SHE CRAVED TO BE CALLED 'MAA' BY AND ALWAYS CRIED WHEN HER DAUGHTER ASKED FOR TANYA AND REALIZED THAT SHE WILL NOT HAVE THE SAME SPOT IN HER DAUGHTER'S HEART. ITS SO HEARTBREAKING!! 😭
WHY IS IT THAT AS HUMANS, WE ARE ALWAYS MORE PARTIAL TO PEOPLE WHO CRY ALL THE TIME, CRY ABOUT WHAT THEY HAVE DONE, AND CRY ABOUT THE INJUSTICE TO THEM.
JUST BECAUSE NANDANI ISN'T CRYING LIKE TANYA ALL THE TIME, DOESN'T MEAN THAT SHE ISN'T HURT. IT DOESN'T MEAN THAT SHE IS HAPPY. IT MEANS THAT SHE IS TRYING TO BE STRONG, TO ACCEPT HER FATE, AND TRY TO MOVE ON. JUST LIKE WHAT THEY HAVE SHOWN WITH GANGA.
Edited by desiflavour101 - 19 years ago