let me clear you karan was right nandini sacrificed karan ,bhoomi and her everything she have just for tanya's sake . When nandini was released out of jail she came back to be with karan and bhoomi but when she saw tanya she backed out. Before leap when nandini recovered from coma karan used to meet tanya since he felt guilty and considered her his responsibility, although he told her everytime that he can't give her the rights of being his wife . Karan said to tanya she shouldn't expect something which he can't give ,you are part of my life but nandini is my life ,he loves nandini a lot . He consummated his marriage with nandini nandini got pregnant. When nandini went to jail and tanya come back to live in sn karan repeatedly told to tanya that he can't give tanya the place of nandini in his life and heart. All these 20 years karan was faithful and loyal to nandini waiting for her to return. Tanya was just mother of his kids not his wife. Nobody asked tanya to live with a man who doesn't love her , it's tanya's desicion. Tanya herself become filler in nandini's absence when she went to coma and jail no one forced her . For me nandini & ansh's wedding, karan & tanya's wedding , ansh raped nandini , karan consummated with tanya were worst scenes of kyunki . Karan never wanted to marry tanya he did it under family pressure ,despite knowing karan loves nandini only and tulsi made karan say yes to marriage why did tanya marry him ? If she really wanted to raised bhoomi she can do it without marrying karan. Karan didn't accept tanya until 3 years of marriage but again tulsi forced him she said to karan give tanya the rights of his wife and accept it nandini will not come back from coma into his life. Karan also started liking tanya but you cant call it love because karan left his wedding anniversary with the news of nandini waking up , he was unable to control his feelings forgot everything and happily run to meet nandini. When nandini read karan's diary and fainted karan took her to the hospital he clearly told to tulsi front of tanya that he will end all those relations who came between him and nandini. It didn't take him 3 years to get back with nandini as it took him to accept tanya.
I dont completely agree with you adeela...Karan and Tanya had their own blunders we cant just place blame on tanya in all situations...starting with Karan though he agreed to marry tanya due to family, he was not a kid...he was a grown adult ...he could have backed out but he married which was his own decision...
If I remember properly at one point in the mandap he remembers all the time he spent with nandini and he feels like he is cheating nands ...he literally backed out from marriage...but then he saw Bhumi crying and tanya pacifying her...he then just went ahead with marriage because of his own selfish reasons that is Bhumi...he wanted a mother for bhumi and it was his own decision...and with this we can just conclude it was not family pressure but it was his own decision...
Again ppl may ask Tanya got attched to bhumi or she used bhumi to marry karan...narrative never mentioned Tanya using bhumi to marry karan...Karan didn't even look at bhumi after she was born...he despised that kid...and Tanya used to visit virani house and she grew attached to bhumi...Ganga and damini pushed for Karan - Tanya marriage and Tulsi pressurized him but here tany's intention was not at all malice..she didn't get close to bhumi to marry karan...but when there was an opportunity she agreed and karan though initially agreed to marry under tulsi's pressure later he himself decided in mandap to marry looking at bhumi...so tanya-karan had their own interests in this marriage...for tanya it was bhumi + she found an opportunity to marry her love....for karan it was just a marriage of convenience for sake of bhumi
Then he took time to move on but he actually accepted tanya after 3 yrs...he accepted her in every sense... he accepted that he fell in love with Tanya, he impregnated her. It was shown that karan would shower tanya with lovely surprises after 3 yrs of marriage when he moved on... I am not blaming karan for falling in love with tanya...nands was in coma ...and he took his time to move on...so basically he loved tanya but he was madly in love with nands...
Also one might argue tanya created misunderstandings between Karan and nandini during the entire Ansh Kaand...but nandini came and expressed her lover for karan...he pushed her away coz Tulsi had fixed her marriage with Ansh...Tanya didn't fuel his decision to push away Nands ...it was karan's own decision to push nandini away as he felt indebted to tulsi...why to hide or push away ur love? he could have just accepted and had a dialogue with Tusli...but he didn't...so he was at fault...
Though Ansh, tanya were causing misunderstandings, though ansh manipulated tulsi to get him married to Nandini - it was karan who pushed away nandini and she agreed to marry ansh... it was no one's fault neither Ansh or Tanya's ...it was solely Karan's fault for outright lying, pushing nands away and for not having any convo with Tulsi regarding his love for nands...
now you mentioned he felt responsible towards tanya fair enough but why did he get angry when nands wanted to search a groom for tanya? isn't is bcoz he still had lingering feelings towards tanya...towards end of leap he came out of his feelings towards tanya...he mentioned loving nands alone...and it was tanya who accepted to stay in a loveless marriage..the terms were clear but just from another perspective is it not like karan was taking advantage of Tanya to look after kids...when he knew he cant love tanya, when he knew he will bring back nandini after she completes serving her jail term...when he knew what he would do ....why did he even agree in first place to stay with tanya? why did he remarry her? he could have backed out but he didn't....blaming tanya alone in all this is not right according to me...
Tanya had her own shortcomings which I explained in my other post...but karan was not a dood ka dhula...all in all I feel only sad for nandini...she wa a selfless soul and she went through a lot
She married ansh and probably she would not have left him if he didn't become psycho during their first night...she was ready to start her new life with Ansh according to the narrative but it was ansh who behaved like a psychopath in their first night and she ran away...she came to know Karan loved her and wanted to get back with him but she was raped...Ansh died but she became preggers ...she gave birth but she fell in coma...when she woke up from coma...her husband had married her best friend, her own daughter was addressing some one else as mother and finally she went to jail trying to protect her daughter...serving her jail term she came back to meet her daughter but her daughter was almost 17 and she already had accepted someone else as her mother...she saw her friend who had nursed her daughter and didn't wanted to ruin her family and she went away leaving her love and daughter back...so if there is someone who had went through painful events it was nandini...neither karan nor tanya
Tanya had her delusions but karan fueled her delusions...either he shud have backed out from staying with tanya else he shud have accepted her completely...if you are staying with a person for 20 yrs it looks like taking mere advantage of a person to raise a child...
I like karan-nandini as couple...their chemistry is top notch but story wise karan was not a great husband to nandini or tanya...he was in love with nandini madly but behind her back he went to meet tanya along with their daughter bhumi which is nothing but emotional cheating...then he was with tanya for 20 long yrs for his own selfish reasons of raising his kids...
tanya was a desperate wife living in her own delusions who turned evil when her delusional castle shattered...
The one who suffered for no reason was Nandini in all this fiasco...
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