Preeta and Shrishti grew up with their dad. But as grown adults, they lived with Sarla & Beeji. I am sure Sarla explained to them that she had to dump her cheating husband. Similarly Beeji quite a lot of moms walked out with Sarla to support her.
This is the best lesson both the sisters got from their own mom & grandmother. Self-respect, Don't tolerate any sort of abuse, cheating, etc.
During Preeran's first marriage, Sarla advised her to break her marriage, and rightly so as it happened under false circumstances. Again with the second marriage, she was not happy. But ultimately gave at the insistence of Preeta & Shrishti.
Preeta thought she was marrying Prithvi but it turned out to be Karan.
Karan thought he was marrying Mahira but it turned out to be Preeta.
In contrast with the Rishta marriage, both knew clearly they were getting married to each other, and under the circumstances, they were not exactly happy about it yet they accepted it.
The Varmala scene of Rishta happened among people under much happier circumstances both happily performing the ritual.
Okay, I digress here. Coming back to the Arora sisters, let me discuss Shrishti first.
Shrishti was so much in awe of Karan, the Luthras that she kept pushing for Preeta to accept Karan when Karan was at his worst at various times. No sane woman would do that to any other woman much less her sister.
Now, she is constantly suspicious of Sameer if he even looks at a woman to the point of extreme annoyance to Sameer & audience. Rishabh is being an absolute idiot by blindly supporting Shrishti thinking Sameer is not making her feel secure.
Shrishti admits she loves Sameer but is unable to trust him.
Karan kept on with his almost shaadis but Shrishti still supported him. Never once told Preeta, Leave it, this is not worth it.
With Arjun at the party, is she really that incompetent that she has to ask for help from a guest at the party to get the cake? So many family members and Servants are there, but she goes to Arjun. When Anjali is irritated she feels offended and continues her borderline innocent flirting. Same Anjali she abused when she thought Sameer was hitting on her. But the rules don't apply to her? What sort of nonsense character has Shrishti become?
She is this close to proving Kareena Bua's assessment and her misgivings about her Right.
Now let us come to Preeta.
A well-educated strong woman is reduced to a doormat, for what love? Which woman would be so forgiving to the guy who dumped her in the middle of the road on the night of their wedding and had no regrets? She never confided in him as she knew he would ask for proof or whatever reason she had and complicated things for herself and everyone.
Most of the time during Preeran marriage, Preeta spent proving her character, love, and loyalty to him and dealing with the almost shaadis.
All in the name of love? This is beyond ridiculous so much so a lot of us are completely disconnected from her.
Preeta loved Karan but never really trusted him.
Post marriage with Rishabh, we see a different Preeta.
Preeta does not love Rishabh but she absolutely trusts Rishabh.
She Rushes to tell him everything knowing he will believe her, he would understand and help her out if need be.
Of course, 5 years later we often see her bawling her eyes out as if she is leading a torturous life now. I get it she loved Karan but she has not once compared for a nanosecond the security & respect she enjoys with Rishabh compared to Karan.
Creates a whole scene if she has to dress up for a party with him but expects everything from him. Mind Chalo at least Beeji drilled some sense into her and at least she realized how she is being a tad unfair to Rishabh and their marriage, especially at a party.
Now for me, the most puzzling part and I would be surprised/happy if the writers are thinking this deeply while writing it even if it is unintentional.
She is drawn to Arjun, as he reminds him of Karan. Of course, he is Karan.
Karan is still oscillating between loving and hating her as Arjun. That part has not changed.
She is constantly advising Anjali to quit her job which frankly is none of her business as she barely knows Anjali.
Now for some of the audience, it might be that she is jealous of Anjali being close to Arjun as he is Karan.
But if you notice she is pointing out constantly what is wrong with Arjun. She would do the same to Karan but still, she fell for him.
But assessing Arjun as a third person, what Anjali puts up with she is voicing out what is wrong with him and their relationship. She even prayed that Anjali does not end up with Arjun as she seems to be a sweet person.
So it is easier to judge and accept what is wrong with Arjun but let it slide when the same traits were exhibited by Karan?
Knowing Preeta there might not be any self-introspection but hopefully, someone points out to her that everything she finds wrong with Arjun was wrong with Karan too.
So will Preeta admit Karan didn't treat her right all the time?
Love is just enough for a healthy relationship?
Will she value what she has with Rishabh?
Will she at least acknowledge what was wrong in their marriage?
I know the answer will mostly be no, but for the audience, it is important to connect with the characters. Frankly, currently, both the sisters are at their worst characterization in the show right now.
They have to course correct both as they are becoming extremely unlikeable.
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