Frank opinions on Su-the husband - Page 2

hi

great discussion topic resham

well yup su was right in marrying kk, bec he had promised dadaji, that they will see kk suhagaan soon, so he has to fuilfil the promsie and he could not leave kk on teh mandap, just like that. who knows what would have happened to poor kk, if su did''nt take this quick decison. i know most guys will not not do that, but i guess that's what makes our su the best and so unique

su going back to renuka, now way yaar,
first of of all i dont think su loved renuka to deeply in the first place bec when they showed him dragging kk into the the mandap, he was not shown thinking about renuka. when renuka rung him the next day after his and kk marriage, then only he kind of remebered her.if he had loved her so deeply would'nt he have thought about her, the night hw marreid kk. all that time he was thinking about kk and only. su should'nt never have gone back to renuka, bec for him marriage is for keeps and even when he did'nt realise his feelings for kk, he never thought about renuka that way. for him, renuka was his past and past should never be brought in the future. same goes for vishal, i agree he loved kk alot, but once she became su's patni, he too was a past for her
i think su always loved kk, but in anothwr from, phela he loved her as a bhabhi, then as a friend, then as pati and now he loves her even more bec she is the mother of his kids too. she is his life love has many forms and su loved kk in very form

i would rate su 9/10, kyunki like taify said no one is perfect. plus su too has made some blunders in his life, like suspecting kk and agreeing to marry abha.
but halatai insaan seh heh hota hai, so we forgived him for me he is the best pati, he is wonderful

norzar

Originally posted by: resham_tam

And I expect zara,mehr and anku with full force here:-😆

haha reshu i wont let u down 😉 just excuse me for tonyte.. its 27th of Ramadan n i just came for a glimpse wont b stayin online for long..

kal will definately reply to this

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Originally posted by: nature

hey resham an awesome topic again 👏 👏 👏 and that too wonderfully described 👏 not like me, just giving the hint to evry1 😆
ok so here i am with my views 😉

Was Sumit right in marrying Kumkum?............Well the answer to this question lies in the fact that they both accepted each other & we as audience also accepted their marriage. Although Sumit was forced to marry Kumkum under the circumstances prevailing that time, due to Vishal not coming & the promise he made to dadaji, yet he maintained his so-called "forced relationship" with full honesty. He never once thought about Renuka while putting sindoor in Renuka's maang, although it was shown that he loved her. After his marriage also, when there were misunderstandings between himself & Kumkum & went to stay at Renuka's home & Renuka tried to seduce him, to make him betray Kumkum, he did not waiver at all. He knew that he was married & Kumkum was his wife & he only had to take care of her. Though the circumstances forced him to take this big step, he never thought of Kumkum as a burden on him. Even before their marriage, he gave a lot of importance to Kumkum in his life, which was not tolerated by Renuka. This shows that he was more concerned about Kumkum, earlier also, than his so-called love Renuka. He did everything to prevent his family & most importantly Kumkum from being disgraced, whatever he did is just not possible practically, nobody will take that big a step for their family, but that's what Sumit is..........all love for his family & fully aware of his duties and responsibilities. Jatin's death changed a lot, in Kumkum, in Sumit & in their relationship, even before their marriage. When earlier they were good friends who shared their secrets & problems with each other, after Jatin's death, there developed a silent understanding between them, in which neither had to explain his or her feelings or emotions to the other, this was the beginning of the new phase of their life, because this is what they both carried forward to their marriage. Sumit, despite being in love with Renuka, despite being compelled to marry Kumkum against both of their wishes, never once let her feel that she is bound in a relationship that just has to be maintained throughout without any affection. He gave time to this relationship to grow, to become mature. Whatever hurdles they had to face, against all odds, he supported Kumkum because he trusted her and felt that being a husband, it is his duty to do so. HE himself never felt that his decision was wrong, neither did he gave any opportunity to Kumkum to feel so, then how can we say that his decision was wrong, when the truth is that it was the not only the biggest, but also the best & the most correct decision of Sumit and Kumkum's life.
I also agree with amrit that Sumit always had a soft corner for Kumkum more than one has for his sister-in-law, that's why he always talked about & thought of Kumkum in front of Renuka.
2nd ques. 2. Would u have agreed if he had gone back to ren and kk returning to vishal?
arre yaar mera itna lamba chauda 1st answer dekhkar toh samajh aa hi gaya hoga 😆.........NO WAYS !!!!! 😉 😛
& now Sumit's rating........he is the bestest husband i've ever seen, who loves his wife more than anything else in this world, who understands her more tham she understands herself & stands besides her holding her hands always & promises to do so till eternity (barring the present BT track 😕) so no guesses as to what my rating would be..............a 10/10............though i wanna give him as many marks as possible 😳 😳 😳
one more thing i want to add is, its in hindi, it is said that "chaahat aur mohabbat mein bahut fark hota hai, chaahat to zindagi mein kai baar hoti hai, lekin sachhii mohabbat sirf ek baar" 😳 😳 😃 aur mujhe nahi lagta ki ye kehna galat hoga ki Jatin aur Renuka, Kumkum aur Sumit ki chaahat the, lekin Kumkum aur Sumit ek doosre ki mohabbat hain. 😳

i know ki kuch zyaada hi lambaa ho gaya...........but kya karoon couldn't control my emotions 😳 😳 plz bear with me 😳

hey nids, back in action haan... loved ur reply sweety...😳

And mehr do come today for sure online for a little long time.. We have to do something together...😭

Ok dearoos,

Enough of relaxation and frustrations!!!

Grill ur brains now on the above!!!

Will join u later for sure...

yes nids,

Everyone has to now forcefully participate in this... 😳

Mehr, Ab toh tujhe kuch kehna hi padegaa...maine pura hafta tera intezar kiya hai... 😆

Eks, Anku,Zara, Shabu and Rachuji.. chalo tum bhi ab apne brains istemal karo... 😆

Bahut hogaya frustrations...😳 chalo ab kahin toh apna dil lagao...su par apna haal-e-bayaan kaho...😆

hi

resham i am dieing to read your comments

norzar

Naureen,

I m posting my comments tonight. 😳

Lekin inhe to dekho aate hi nahin.. 😡

mehr ki bachchi.. vaada karke bhi nahi aati.. 😡

Zaraji toh baat hi nahin karti su ko lekar aise topics par.. 😆

Aur Anku aur eks ko toh main dhoondh he rahi hoon.. 😆

Rachu, tu mil to sahi... 😭

hi

moem on girls, post comment for this dicussion

resham, wwait for your soon

norzar