Do you feel sorry for Antra?

Well after watching today's episode I totally feel sorry for Antra. I mean each time whenever she does try to explain herself or give her point of view to things, she just gets told to shut-up, either its our way or the highway attitude.

Meera's marks were low, so Antra found out that Meera was unfairly marked and she had a bit of an argument with the teacher. But who wouldn't do this, especially if something like this will effect the youngsters future, but still Antra is made out to be bad. All Antra is trying to do is be helpful but she just basically gets shouted at, no matter how hard she tries.

Even if Siya had gone there instead of Antra, i reckon Siya would have done the same, if she had found out about Meera's marks. I mean this is a youngsters future we are talking about here. But I bet anyone, Siya wouldn't have got shouted at, if she had done the same, the family would have listened to Siya. This is just sooooo totally unfair, Antra is getting singled out.

I admit some people reckon that she might turn negative, possibly come for revenge, but now I doubt it, cause whatever she's doing is she is trying to help out, but she just getting treated unfairly.

Fair enough Antra may turn out to be Abhay Chauhan's daughter, but what is there to say that she's not like him, she probably has hated him for a long time, which is why she's looking for that family love, which Dhruv had promised her, but she isn't getting it.

From what I've heard Dhruv and Antra will move out of Wadhwa house. To be honest with you if this keeps on happening to Antra, then I wouldn't blame them for moving out.

Whats happened to the Wadhwa parivaar, the one that use to be an example of love and trust???????

This is definately not that family.......!!!!!

Apart from Kumkum, Sumit, Aashka, Sharman etc.... the older people, like dadi, sumit's mum and her sister and Meera's grandmother are definately not showing that love that they once used to show.

Sorry for those who don't agree with me, but this is my point of view.

i agree with u i think people are still bitter that dhruv married antara and not siya

i agree,,antara is innovent n everytime she is compared withsiya!

yeh i do...she was an orphan so wasnt brought up in the sanscar way if u get wot i mean!

I wud say yes becz she is still newly married and she will take time in following ruels

Originally posted by: Sujalthegreat

Even if Siya had gone there instead of Antra, i reckon Siya would have done the same, if she had found out about Meera's marks. But I bet anyone, Siya wouldn't have got shouted at, if she had done the same, the family would have listened to Siya. This is just sooooo totally unfair, Antra is getting singled out.

Yup.. even I feel bad for Antara.. all she's trying to do is help, but no one, especially the elders don't acknowledge it. Why? Coz she's not doing it their way.. Agreed, had Siya gone to Meera's school, she would have done the same thing Antara did.. and the elders would listen to her.. but the difference would be, Siya would've handled it the mature and composed way.. That is where Antara lacks.. Like Kumkum told her today, Antara is NOT wrong.. the problem is she is impatient & impulsive.. all she needs to do is control herself when it comes to talking to the elders! Moreover, no elder would like to hear they are wrong..even if they are!

The other day, Siya told Veena.. outside the theatre she would've done the same what Antara did.. but admits that 'Antara ko mauka aur mahaul dekhkar baat karna chahiye tha..' That is all Kumkum is trying to tell/explain Antara..

Originally posted by: Sujalthegreat

Whats happened to the Wadhwa parivaar, the one that use to be an example of love and trust???????

This is definately not that family.......!!!!!

Apart from Kumkum, Sumit, Aashka, Sharman etc.... the older people, like dadi, sumit's mum and her sister and Meera's grandmother are definately not showing that love that they once used to show.

I don't think Veena, Dadi or Sukanya bua have changed.. even earlier they would taunt Kumkum at any given point.. just that it never affected Kumkum, so it never affected us either!

yea i feel sorry 4 her as well. she needs time 2 adjust and veena, sukanya bua and them lot r taking advantage n taunting her at every given time

Totally!! I feel so sorry for the poor girl. But I also agree that she is impulsive...sometimes in certain cases one has to handle situations diplomatically...one need not be fake but one can speak in a lower tone and in a much nicer way...I understand the school of thought where Antara belongs...totally with her...however, I think it will be quite impossible for her to change...people who think like her do not change for anyone...they are just made that way...and if they try they feel they are losing their identity...even though that is not the case...if they move out I won't be surprised at all...not everyone is made for the joint family thing...

yes i do feel sorry for her when the Wadhwa family treats her badly